Advice for the Good Guys

Clip from "Managing Friendship Trauma and the Fear of Cultivating New Ones"

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[AsiveDwane]

Hey y'all I'm 16 and I just wanna say you're an insipartion and God be talking through ya. Was saved through a wonderful encounter with Jesus two months ago.❤😊

[kcallwoodblue]

This was for me😂💯 since I grew up with 2 parents and wasn’t from the hood as a black man I’m looked to always being taken advantage of

[makiebahatton]

You gave good Godly advice to the Brother. I see a lot of comments from Men attempting to play victim. You're not a victim, you're a VICTOR in Christ. We have to be careful in saying "I was raised right" no, nobody is raised right because no one is perfect but Christ. Some are raised to know The Lord but none are raised to Love The Lord because only The Lord can teach us how to do that.

Stay clear of premarital sex so it won't cloud your spiritual judgment and you can break away immediately if a person does not want to live a life to please Christ.

[ChampagneAndDesign]

Also, encouragement for everyone : Jesus kept being compassionate and served others despite them not deserving it. Off course, boundaries wise, don’t stay in a a relationship with a person that doesn’t respect you. At the same time, don’t let people stop you from displaying the gentle heart and goodness of Christ. 🤍

[carolinelvsewe]

Thank you again for your daily wisdom…just the right amount to chew on….(meditate on😊)

[tylerthompson]

For me its always being around people who want to date the same type of guy, and the ones i liked either have no interest or was a short lived situationship. Its hard out here lol but God is still faithful and my day is coming soon

[murtadathiam]

You dont understand how much God spoke through yall

[jn]

Let’s be real… Jackie brought this up in another podcast. She wanted a saved thug. And so many women want a reformed tough guy or a man with edge…. Or a man who was a heaux (I’m from Louisiana) in the past…. And the majority of us dudes out here whether we know it or not are corny…. Whether raised by a good household or not…. Especially those raised in the church. That has been an issue for quite some time. We just aren’t appealing to what a lot of women want nowadays…. It’s unfortunate but it’s the honest truth.

[carolinelvsewe]

Thank you again for your daily wisdom…just the right amount to chew on….(meditate on😊)