6 Steps to SUCCESSFULLY Negotiate with Narcissists

If you want to stand a chance when you negotiate with a narcissist, you must prepare seriously. They are masters at manipulation, lies and deceit. If you are not prepared, they will control the conversation and will take advantage of you, as they always do. If you argue with them, you lose. If you’re not prepared, you lose. Preparation is not easy, but it is your best hope to get something rather than nothing.

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0:00 Introduction
0:33 Give YOU tools
1:04 Take time to prepare!
2:04 Learn and Practice
2:35 Identify expectations
4:09 Heal
7:13 Prepare

[jacksavage]

Education is liberation against the narcissist.

[arashigumdrop]

Narc literally tries to rile me now by saying things to MY DOG! Things that he believes will upset me.
Triangulation via canine.
Tragic & ridiculous simultaneously.

[steviecrow]

If they are malignant enough, they are completely capable of arranging to make you “disappear” - like putting trash at the curb. It might be worth covering danger signals… it’s too easy to underestimate what they’re willing to do to “solve their problems”.

[cherrybacon]

We need to be emotionally healed before we put ourselves in the same space as our Exes or we won't be able to cope with any attempts of hoovering. Whatever healing we have accomplished will be erased and we'll be back at square one otherwise. 🍒

[uk]

Wow. The YouTube algo gets it right sometimes. New to your channel. Yours and some other channels on narcissism are really helping me. Thank you for sharing this knowledge. Incredibly powerful.

[maiteblanc]

As always, very helpful advice. Thank you! I guess one needs to learn to pick which battles to fight at a given moment, otherwise you end up exhausted. Some may be saved for later when, as you mention, one feels better prepared. Others need inmediate attention and there are some that are best left alone, not worth the time and effort. But, one needs to acquire the discernment to know which one is which. Congratulations on your 1000 followers!!!

[eponymoususer]

Thank you. This is very sound advice, every point. I’m interested in hearing more about #5 and 6. Particularly, more about recognizing and prioritizing goals, both for yourself and in understanding of your antagonist.

You’re right in that our desires often conflict. There’s a personal rebellion involved at having to sacrifice any of those desires… especially in situations where it’s easy to perceive it as a sacrifice to the antagonistic or toxic person. Perhaps you could address how to overcome that internal rebellion?

Interestingly, the people who seem most competent at knowing and prioritizing their goals are psychopaths. Their attention to their desires is absolutely focused and uncompromising, and there is no length they won’t go to, often including self-destruction. That is obviously extreme, and I’m curious what the middle ground looks like.

[LifeChangePlans]

😢 Im being forced into homelessness when legal advice was negotiate.
I followed advice got a signed agreement in 2021.
He still went for precarious eviction .
In Spain and UK negotiations are prohibited in cases of gender based violence.

There have been violations of Article 6 no fair trial June 10th 2022.
Suspended eviction March 2024.
Resumed eviction 19th December 2024

[Mimi-frnp]

Good choice, question, until last week he wanted me to give up on everything and leave, because I filed on divorce, which he didn’t expect. now he sent me an email through my work because I blocked him on everything. He told me that he wants to give everything to me. How can I read his mind that what is he trying to do this time?

[NilfNilf]

…and you are surrounded by people who tell you ‘Stop whining, you’re making all this up. Mike Tyson is just like any other person’