How To Compliment A Woman

What’s up YouTube? I hope you’re all doing well! For this video, I wanted to dissect the proper way to compliment a woman because the other day, I was stopped on the street by a man, one that I’ve never met, and he just wanted to tell me that I looked happy and to, “have a great day!” Now, I’m someone who is always very apprehensive when I’m stopped on the street, but this man actually made my day. His entire approach was non-threatening and, quite frankly, inviting. I felt like I could take him out for coffee and listen to him compliment me all day. It was friendly, without any expectation attached to it. This interaction added a little pep in my step. And I thought that complimenting people is one of the easiest things to do to brighten someone’s day and it makes you, the complementor, very likeable. Which is why I thought that I would make a video on this.

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POLL: Quick question, when you approach women, do you pay them a compliment or do you use a pickup line? Take the poll and let’s see what the majority is up to.

I don’t know anyone who doesn’t love to receive a good compliment now and again. They give you a confidence boost that someone has noticed something about you and has gone so far as to tell you that they like it. Knowing that you’re appealing to people, let alone the opposite sex, is a great feeling. Genuine compliments are what we’re going for here. The goal is to compliment a woman on something that is chosen or that she’s worked on and not something that a girl is genetically predisposed to like height, eye color, etc.

The thing to understand about women is that they want to feel special, but they don’t want to feel idolized. The difference being that if you give a woman a bunch of ordinary compliments, like “you’re so hot, pretty, have nice eyes, etc.” She won’t feel special or unique. These vague compliments can pretty much be used on anybody. So there is no originality and the girl with whom you are complimenting won’t pay it much mind. However, if you are to pinpoint something that you particularly like about her that she has worked on or chosen, then you stand a better chance of keeping a conversation going and inviting some intrigue. Here are what some specific compliments look like.

The Physical Compliment:

1. “Wow, you look like you’re in great shape. What exercises do you do?”
This one is a compliment on her body but, unlike the overused you’re-so-hot-compliment, this one is paying particular attention to the effort and hard work that she has put in to maintain her physique.

The Style Compliment:

2. “I really like your style, it’s very unique.”
Again, here we have a compliment that is acknowledging the thought that this woman put into her outfit. You’re not saying, “you wear those clothes really well.” You’re recognizing that you like the way her mind works in putting her clothes together.

The Personality Compliment:

3. “You’re quite witty, aren’t you?”
Telling a woman that she is funny is a great compliment! You’re telling her that you like her personality and it show that you like something about her that is more than just her looks. It’s a genuine compliment, and it can lead to trust. When you share praise for a woman’s personality, she feels good about herself and, in turn, will want to spend more time with you. Because people love to be around those who make us feel special.

The Intelligence Compliment:

4. “I like your perspective, it’s very unique.”
Complimenting a woman on her perspective is another way of telling her that you think she’s intelligent. And this is one of the best compliments to give someone. Who doesn’t like hearing that you value their opinion and perspective on different topics? I know that that compliment would work on me.

Tailor the compliment to the girl. Make it specific so that she feels special. When you’re complimenting a woman, always do it with a smile, make sure it’s sincere and that you actually believe it because the girl won’t buy it if it’s not genuine. Genuine compliments can actually make you seem more trustworthy and not make a woman want to shoo you away, which is ultimately what we want!

Trust is essential when you’re trying to connect with a woman and build a foundation upon which to create some attraction.

And that, YouTubers, is how you compliment a woman! Not too difficult, right? I hope that you enjoyed this video!

[starshipdjs]

You not only make me a better man Kate, you also help me try harder to be a better person, in doing this for myself, it also makes it even more worthwhile, fulfilling and rewarding to help others.

Very much appreciate all your time, effort and persistence Kate, that gently inspires and guides, to help those that want to develop in to a person of quality and integrity.

Your advice Kate, gives hope to many of those that have none and helps those in need to cross over troubled waters (with building a relationship bridging skills, with your designs and specifications) that otherwise would be in "sink or swim" situations, that seem impossible to cross over alone, if not for you.

Your genuine beauty Kate comes from your heart, as mine is now, obviously beating in time with yours😘

[slexusa]

Seriously there is nothing like a heartfelt compliment from a random man passing by, non-sexual but more about the aura/beauty of the woman he's complimenting, smile, tip of the hat and he's on his way. it's a beautiful interaction

[nycdontstop]

Kate thank you for the time and energy that you put into your video (e.g. editing, typing out the dialogue)! Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

[YeshuaIsTheTruth]

Thanks Kate, I really appreciate the way how well-thought out and easily understandable your videos are. I think I know at least a bit of what I've been doing wrong now. Thanks again :)

[jamesbrown]

Kate I subscribed because you are a good communicator.
Your video was to the point and hit the nail on the head.
Looking forward to future content you post.

[teg]

I'd like to reiterate 2 things in this video that will almost always work if the girl is even mildly interested/available:
1- If you're going to pay her a compliment, pick something she achieved or attained, not something she was simply blessed with.
2- Be genuine. It used to work wonders when I was single.

[jayd]

Times have changed. Things are very different now from they used to be. This could be seen as harassment if the woman is not attracted to you. Men who refuse to change with time, will learn the hard way.

[grantsmith]

I love your perspective and your skin is flawless.

[ChaceBonanno]

Compliment her looks by complimenting her style/clothes.
Say she looks like she's in good shape or healthy/fit, not hot/beautiful.
Compliment her personality. Her humor, intelligence, or perspective.

[itslife]

Hey I really like your perspective. haha But really though. I appreciate the time you take to make these videos. It really helps a lot. It's not that I have trouble in these types of situations, however your videos build on top of that and help me become a better person and I find your videos very informative. I learn a lot from these videos and like I said it doesn't just help with just complimenting women, but with making me a better person. The same goes with your other videos too. So thank you. Hope all is well.

[joecastella]

Another one is when they have a low self-esteem, and they might think to themselves "my feet are ugly" and you by accident compliment her on her Beautiful feet. It works they love it because you are the first to show her that to you personally her feet are perfect.

[markford]

Nothing and nobody can make you feel special. You are responsible for your own thoughts, feelings and behaviour.

[jmath]

that was a thought provoking video. Thank for the tips and insight you shared !

[grs]

👍 One of my favorite video so far! I can see how much effort you are putting into it! And this simple white T-shirt fits your body perfectly 😉

[DJharold]

Kate has this pretty humble-looking and neat smile in almost all of her videos.

[rickscorpio]

Thank you for those vids. Highly informative. Helped me clean up the rough spots. Your vids are short and To the point. Not long and boring like others

[DrellHator]

Kate, I really value your perspective on this. It's made me think.
Thank you

[rhanson]

I always use a specific compliment, never a pickup line

[vinnyno.]

Great video. Always great to be reminded of such important concepts!!!

[hawkeye]

Kate, your insight not only intrigues me, and inspires me, it gives me hope,
that one day, I'll actually get it right, so till then, "Here's Lookn' @ chu Kid" 👀