10 Proven Compliments to Give a Girl That Build Attraction

There's a certain art to determining what the best compliments to give a girl are. It might seem easy, but say the wrong thing and your well-intentioned compliment could turn your flirtation ice cold.

Let's picture this scenario: you're at a bar, maybe even a nightclub or a wedding, and you see a gorgeous woman by herself. She's got a great smile and the most beautiful, soulful eyes.

You finally get the courage to talk to her. "Pardon me," you say, "but you have the most beautiful eyes…" Her response? She rolls her eyes and you and turns back to her drink. What went wrong?

We have put together our ten favorite compliments to give a girl or woman that will put you in the best place to actually create attraction. You don’t want to come off as insecure or flattering her and this is how you can do that.

Compliments can be great but they can also fall flat if you don’t know what you are doing.

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[jimmy]

Here’s a compliment...
“I noticed how passionate you are about your alcoholism.”

That one always works for me.

[dvvalant]

"Your eyes are the same color as my Lambo."

[robertyou]

You will never ever lose with this one: You have to talk to the girl for at least 15 minutes to get to know her somewhat, and try to build some rapport with her if possible. When you feel a kind of "connection", just say: _"It's hard to explain, but you have this wonderful energy, it feels good to be near you."_ You will never ever crash and burn with a compliment like that. Always compliment their lovely "energy". Women are totally crazy about "energies", I promise.

[Rob]

If a woman rolls her eyes and turns away after receiving a compliment from you, she’s not what you’re looking for fellas.

[joep]

My favorite compliment, “For a fat chick, you don’t sweat much.”

[binaryperspective]

Only compliment women that you have built a closeness with. Never compliment her to get close to her. Make a genuine approach that is both open-ended and allows for commonality and discussion. If she is interested, she will roll with you and, if not, on to the next one. If she requires a compliment to gain her attention, then she is very likely shallow and narcissistic, which is excellent for sport but not for a long term investment. Choose wisely.

[JasonSmith-irzz]

“Your eyes are as blue as my toilet water”. 😂

[Kingfisher]

"I love your new dress, I'm surprised they make it in an XXL". They love that one.

[allthecolors]

"I love how passionate you are about not looking my way"

[seanado]

My go to compliment is “you’d look great without all that makeup caked on your face”.

[LordByron]

"Is heaven missing an angel, cuz you've got nice cans!"

[bruceliggett]

I absolutely love how you’re so passionate about making videos :)

[notyourgrammascrafts]

I know everybody is sitting here making jokes in the comments but this is actually really helpful for gentlemen like my son who has social anxiety and is a wonderful person but doesn't know how to approach young ladies I would like to be a grandmother one day and these things are helpful tips for him to be nice respectful young man and not be a pervert weirdo like the rest of you

[celestial_crash]

See girl at wedding for the first time
“The way you stand there really inspires me”

[Qpoueoor]

I walk straight u to a woman and ask... “did you just fart”. Works every time. 😂

[billcaddell]

My favorite compliment to a woman is " you are much more beautiful when the lights are off"...

[EasyMoneyGoat]

The best compliment I’ve ever given was in the produce section when a girl was looking at watermelons. I said ”Wow. Those melons are almost as big as yours.” Worked like a charm.

[sergioruiz]

Oh my god the way you phrase these answers is exactly how a woman at work compliments me especially the "I love how" or "You have a great" and "The way you.", ....this was scary accurate.

[t-p-h]

Best advice I got on how to pick-up a beautiful woman was from an older women when I was a young guy. She said 'Ignore her and act like you're not interested'. She was right.

[jeffdawes]

Hi Melanie... your videos are great. The video production is superb and of course I find the content absolutely incredible! Thank you.