6 Subtle Things That Might Push Your Crush Away

Have you ever felt really anxious when you’re on a date with your crush? Do you worry that you’ll do something to mess up your date or to say something that will push them away? It’s normal to feel stressed out sometimes when you’re with someone you are attracted to.

Here are a few subtle things that might push your crush away so you’ll know what to avoid next time you’re out with that special someone.

Writer: Xinyi
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Khin Fong
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

References
Brainy Dose, 2020. 13 Things Women Do That Push Men Away.

[Psychgo]

Do you have a crush? Comment the first letter of your crush's name.

[highliving-animatedvideos]

My crush told me that I'm pretty.

Well, the whole sentence was "you're pretty annoying", but being into self-development, I focus on positive things only ❤️🚀🌙

[Cpt.Capacitor]

Your tips not only apply for the person you seek, they apply for everyone you know... it just helps you become a better person with yourself and with others to apply those tips with everyone in your everyday life.

[funnyvideoguy]

I'm guilty of overanalizing everything, but mostly over texts. I'm just mostly worried that something I said offended them, but it never does

[highliving-animatedvideos]

*6 Subtle Things That Might Push Your Crush Away*
0:47 - Overanalyzing everything
1:22 - Not giving enough space
1:53 - Expecting them to read your mind
2:30 - Trying to change them to fit yourself
3:05 - Expecting and giving too much too soon
3:38 - Obstructing their life goals

[alinle]

Can we please talk about how cute this art style ist >.<

[anime_lober]

Now I can watch this and know how bad I am at telling my crush I like her, thanks!

[datboi]

1. overanalyzing everything 0:47
2. not giving enough space 1:21
3. expecting them to read your mind 1:54
4. trying to change them to fit yourself 2:29
5. expecting and giving too much too soon 3:05
6. obstructing their life goals 3:39
I hope I could help!

[renderscott]

"overanalyzing everything"
INTJs: we...cant really not do that

[sassyghost_]

I recently broke off my first relationship because of the point “Expecting and Giving Too Much Too Soon.” It was a red flag that he was on the fence about dating me because I didn’t know if I wanted kids. He also rushed to introduce me as his girlfriend to his family and he talked about the future A LOT. He told me he loved me around the 2 month mark. We barely dated 3 months before I broke it off. (Update: I want to say he’s not a bad person just not the guy for me. Also some info: We’re in our late 20s but I have never been intimate in any way before. He was my first partner. I also have anxiety and major depression which he knew about. So I know half of the problem stems from me because it takes two to tango. I just needed to vent and this was an example of what can be considered too fast for some people.)

[yutagayrights]

pls make a video on how to politely reject ppl that have a crush on u or signal them that you don't like them in that way
without ruining the friendship

[riyangistyle]

ugh the “expecting them to read your mind” really got me. i tend to think I show too many signs that I like them, when I really give almost none :0 according to my friend haha and when that crush likes me back they tend to back off a bit since I seem to not like them so I feel bad but I can’t really help it since I don’t really like talking about myself and when they would ask me I would answer simply so eh it’s getting better though so I’m not too angry at myself :)

[wyaveil]

This channel is a gold mine for me right now. I'm currently talking with a girl that I've liked for about a month now and these videos are giving me so much useful advice especially this video. There was a time when she went inactive for a little bit and I thought something happened between us and I ended up getting paranoid and started overthinking it. Turns out she was having some family and school problems so when I found out I felt so stupid and kind of annoyed with myself. This goes to show that having a crush will make you overthink things but it's best to just calm down and think about it rationally.

[LordBrittish]

1: misreading it when your crush doesn’t pay attention to you
2: paying too much attention to your crush

Oh boy have I been there! People are complicated sometimes, and everyone’s different.

[lunangellus]

Yay! Amanda is back. Your voice is so shooting and calming that all my anxiety and nervousness left me (:

[ykzr]

overall, it's mainly just respecting them and treating them like someone special to you.
and what one of my main habits that i usually do here, is that i always expect them to read my mind and i overanalyze everything about them. but im working on that!

[nuclearocean]

"1. Overanalyzing everything"
Oh no. OH NO. ｏｈ ｎｏ
Guess I'll die alone then

[floriankyn]

This video should be posted as public! This was helpful and amazing !

[thecottoncandylamb]

Finally I have unlocked the secret of time travel

[nodwolf]

How is it that every time you post a video about mental health, or relationship advice, that it's EXACTLY what I need/want to see/hear??

Regardless, THANK YOU SO MUCH!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜