Do Guys Feel Bad About Ghosting A Girl?

[sharoncherryontop]

I think it's such a coward/Rude thing to do.. Men and Women!!

[HoseG]

As a guy, I’ll only go “ghost” if I notice that the girl I’m interested in no longer shows interest. Such as responding late to texts and keeping her responses short. Also if she says she’s “busy” every time I try to go out with her without offering an alternative. At that point I would simply give up trying to pursue her because for me the worst thing in the world is trying to be with someone who doesn’t want to be with you.

[Jenable]

I understand wanting to avoid the situation, but I'd rather you just make it clear faster than ghosting. Someone could just think you're busy for a couple days then when you never get back to them, they feel even worse.

[SuperNovaGirl]

Well this sucks. This happened to me and I was so in denial and actually believed he liked me.. It sucks that he'll never feel bad about it. :(

[tannopk]

They do it on purpose, that way when you go crazy they can point the finger at you For leaving you in the first place

[theconfessionsofahebrewisr]

We were planning on getting married and then PROOF ! Gone !

[BeautiNSuccess]

Wow that’s sick People think it’s OK to really play with peoples lives like that????

[autumnmoon]

I honestly had no idea what ghosting was and the first time it happen to me I got very scared because we were not fighting nothing... Ended up calling the police to make sure the person was okay...

[reneedavis]

I totally agree, and that also goes for women as well. One of my girlfriends is a prime example. She has definitely ghosted men. It is also very sad, disrespectful, and utterly rude as hell to play with one's emotions like that. Falling victim to being ghosted is not cool at all. As grown adults everything should always be made clear from start to finish. Period, Point, Blank! At all times. Thats like them telling you everything you want to hear just to get some nookie, which is childish and down right unattractive as well.

[nightwalkerr]

It sucks but I guess all we can do is to not sit around and wait but to move on and meet other people who are interested instead of spending / wasting time on those who aren’t interested in sticking around.

[christina]

I wish you were my dad! The world is not a romantic comedy 🤕

[Bella-Mae]

Majority of the time when a guy ghosts the girl he isn’t gonna care about your feelings bc in his mind you’re not important enough to him. He gave you a try and realized he didn’t like you so he leaves.

[nikkik]

He ghosted me after a 3 year relationship

[Lidia.Bella.Italiana]

He sais he was all in... and all this shit over time like he wanted it to be something... then woke up to silence outts nowhere.

[chavezhurtado]

Considering the fact that most girls eventually lose interest and stop replying to me, I usually go ghost on purpose to avoid this.

[rachellecalahaan]

That's not nice! It says to other person, "i don't give a fuck about you, and your feelings, and i don't even respect you enough to tell you why" ... Move on with your life Thanks to God, there's still some good people on this planet ^^

[salsaqueen]

I had a guy leading me on so I ghosted him first. I'm sure he never had a female identify his nonsense that quickly.

[NinaBlow]

My thing is if ur gonna ghost somebody, stand on it. Don’t try to double back that’s weak af.

[carlycrafts]

What about a co worker situation where you do not want to date them (you are not available, they are not either) No its not like that. but you feel ghosted as a Friend but no one else you work with gets that from them- no they get their friendship, help from them etc. A sense they matter as a Friend- not seeking more but for some reason- they were nice where you were New to the company but now- no you get stiffness, even rudeness ( but you are nice, helpful etc to them) You do your job well, your boss likes you and other people do as well . All but this person and the crux is you have to work with them closely and you know how they act around others. Thats me and I dkw how to make sense of it.

[RichardHartl]

Happened to me, honestly hurts so bad