This is a guy with self respect

[rambolambo]

Solid point. She's clearly ashamed about her OF work, otherwise she wouldn't cover it up by saying she worked in "social media".

[everlastinglife]

He doesn't want to share his partner with everyone else. He was polite and respectful about it.

[bradleyharris]

Mad respect to this guy. OnlyFans should be an instant dealbreaker.

[acratistrevour]

Also let respect that he didn't Ghost and had the guts to say it directly.

[Beneaththeburn]

Got yelled at one day because I said that women lower their chances of being with men if they do onlyfans. 😂

[robertwright]

Contrary to popular belief, most men don't want to "SHARE" their woman.

[AlexanderCampbell-wo]

Respect. Also he was super respectful about the whole situation. He let her know that he's
No longer interested, let her know why, and did so politely. Kudos.

[ditherdather]

"...you work w/ other people" 😂 At least the guy had some dignity and backed out.

[Izzy_shelto]

We have failed as a society when sex work is just considered social media

[melissasaint]

On the other hand, if I were a single woman and found out he spends money on OnlyFans, I would also bail on that date.
I personally dont really want to be on a date with either side of a sex work transaction.

[gaithrislife]

Only fans and social media are two separate things. Also he’s allowed to have standards and also good on him for sticking to his principles. Mad respect to this guy.

[MrPsalms]

"It's your bed. Maybe you should lie in it." - problem is EVERYBODY'S lying in it! Lol

[glitterwise]

At least he didn't just ghost. He was so respectful.😅

[Axandra]

He was respectful and communicated his boundaries. He's not wrong at all.

[uypyiht]

If these people actually thought their OF career was nothing to be ashamed of, they would say they do OF instead of phrasing it as “social media”.

[drivinginthedcbaarea]

It was her bed and she did lie in it. And then she uploaded it for the world to see. 🤷🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️

[themurrrr]

“… also you work with other people”…. So sex work with “colleagues”…. And she’s surprised he bailed?

[brandyfritz]

I feel so bad for these girls as a lot of them lacked proper guidance in their life and never realized their worth - or even worse, some endured trauma at the hands of those who were supposed to keep them safe and guide them. I don't blame them for doing what they felt they had to due to a lack of support and community around them but it makes me feel unbelievably sad when they realize that others will not see them as a healthy choice for a partner. I hope for a world where we look out for kids facing these challenges in order to ensure them happiness and freedom in their lives. I do not judge those who do this kind of work because I know it could have been any person I know if they weren't lucky enough to be raised with the right set of circumstances. I truly wish healing and happiness for those on this path and may they find someone who will love them and show them how they are meant to be treated.

[hooks]

How is she surprised? She lied to him about what she does because she KNOWS. She should quit feigning shock and surprise. Homie dodge a bullet.

[extremeresponsibility]

It is great that more people are speaking up and men are taking The High Ground