Girls when they finally made a guy friend…💀😱😐

[donnyannessa]

Don’t be “just friends” with a girl you fancy, you’re just torturing yourself and it never ends well.

[killerjoshyt]

The problem here is that I won’t usually date anyone who I’m not friends with first, I’ll usually become friends with a person then develop feelings so the people I like are usually always my friends first

[Mrhostil]

Look, as a guy I can speak of behalf of many. If a dude finds you attractive from the get go, it's not a two way friendship anymore. If you don't want this to happen, set your boundaries from the start and let him know that you don't want anything intimate with him. Many girls just go along with it enjoying the perks of having a guy that likes them (mainly attention) and act oblivious when the inevitable happens, even though they knew all along. Classic case of leading somebody on.

[Judeko]

Either you reject the friend zone and move on, or you stick around long enough to see yourself become the villain in her eyes.

[DragonFroot._.Dragons]

“ so baby dont worry, your my onl-“
“ *youll be lonely* “

edit: its sarcasm i know the words are “ you wont be lonely “

[Hala_MadridSiuuuuuuuuu]

The only reason why this makes me sad is because this is literally me💀

[RedneckAnarchist]

I'm seeing a lot of very confused people in the comments.
I won't say every time. But the overwhelming majority of the time, this is the case:
If you (a woman) befriend a man, and at least one or both of you aren't already romantically spoken for; then unless that man doesn't find you physically attractive, it is incredibly unlikely you will be able to be any more than acquaintances. Because if they do think you're beautiful, and you eventually become very close, it is damn near a guarantee he will develop romantic feelings for you. That isn't his fault. It's the natural response to this happening. No one chooses their feelings.
And unless you've been through this yourself, you're not going to understand that simply remaining friends at that point is excruciatingly painful emotionally.
No one was tricking you. There was no ulterior motive. They went into this intending to be your friend. But that's not always how things stay. And that just is what it is. Unrequited love is unfortunate for both parties involved.

On a semi-related note: In order to potentially (still no guarantee) help prevent this from happening. Under absolutely no circumstance ever, should a woman ever be flirtatious with a man to any degree that she only wants to be friends with. Friends do not flirt. Flirting is specifically intended to test the waters introducing romantic interest, or to pep up someone you're already romantically involved with. You WILL give them the wrong idea.
The only time flirting is acceptable in a friendship is between bros, followed swiftly by "No homo"

[voicedrabbit]

Dude my guy friend originally said he would never date me 😃

Now we're 8 months into a relationship

[SkelitonWren]

for me it was the opposite but even more opposite-
So i make friends with a girl, she confesses to me, I say "im sorry im not interested", she says she'll respect my boundaries and then we continue being friends

Edit: me and the girl are no longer friends because of.. strange circumstances

[TheSimonJiang]

There’s always the scenario where you really did start out as friends. Then you genuinely developed feelings for her as time goes by. Then you are too afraid to say anything because it may destroy the friendship. Then after watching many guys treated her badly, you decide to put everything on the line and take a chance. Then this is her reaction… life is not black and white.

[jackhutton]

The issue is that women and men often approach friendship differently, and that a woman treating a male friend the same way she does a female friend is misconstrued by men as romantic interest.

It also does not help that society has put “being friends” with a girl as meaning “not good enough to date” and that being friends with a girl is likened to second place which is horrific since it essentially reduces women to the concept of being a prize to be won.

Also people differentiate between genuine romantic interest, a crush and simply being attracted to someone. Half the time you don’t actually like a person the way you think you do.

[itzelmontalvo]

I've noticed that the prettier and nicer a girl is, the harder it is for her to have male friends because they always catch feelings. That's why they usually have way more female friends or gay friends.

[jeanpg]

And if you don't like them, the girl starts showing interest lmaoo

[mayaamelia]

Me who doesn’t pull anyone: MY GOALS ARE BEYOND YOUR UNDERSTANDINGS

[ajscott]

I've been attracted to almost all of my female friends at one point in time but I've never acted upon it.

[Yukii]

The worst part is when he get's a fake gf and says "are you jealous?" like wth😭💔

[woofwoof]

I’m so early that Meghan trainor hasn’t made anyone look

[sprightlyrandom]

The problem is a great friendship is only one step away from a great relationship. And that step is the sexual intimacy

[warriorstrength]

I got my friend to ignore me so that I can forget about her. 😅

[indigo]

And when it's a flirty friendship it's even worse 😭😭






Edit: Bro what is going on in the replies oml