I healed my feminine energy and this is exactly how i did it.

Hello friends! Today is just a casual sit-down where I’m chatting about how I lost my feminine energy and the exact things I did that helped me get it back 💕

Over several years, I developed wounded feminine energy and was living in my masculine energy all the time, and it wasn’t making me happy. Once I discovered that my disconnect from my own feminine nature was negatively affecting me, reconnecting with my feminine energy has made me so much happier of a woman.

Of course, these are all things that I did that helped me. So they might not all be relevant for you and your specific journey. But I truly hope you get value from this video!! ❤️

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WHAT I’M WEARING:

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 I healed my feminine energy and this is how i did it.
0:51 How I lost my feminine energy
5:05 How I healed my feminine energy
5:24 Appearance
6:49 My relationship
8:33 Let go of this
10:46 Quit my job (and got a puppy lol)
13:36 Journaling exercise that gave me an epiphany
16:21 Romanticizing my life
17:53 Healed this part of me
20:16 Stopped watching + reading this
21:56 Play is healing
22:51 Got off the pill
23:32 Changed my work
24:53 High vibe women
26:30 How i learned to love myself

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[nishasankaran]

‘Feminine energy cannot exist when there is not safety in the body’ . Exactly. I’m 46 and just now allowing myself to embrace my feminine energy and outward femininity… took me this long to inhabit my beautiful woman’s body and feel safe and secure within myself ( in boundary-keeping, standing up for myself as needed etc)

[ziggyseyepatch]

To those who are in college and are about to get into stressful courses like medicine or law just remember that this demands a lot of the masculine energy that jillz talks about but don't forget to take atleast an hour or two off to really appreciate yourself and embody your feminine to the highest degree. Try things like skincare, dressing up or whatever makes you feel secure and feminine. if not, on the long run you'll be burnt out.

[zeitunhussein]

I felt more feminine when i started to accept my flaws, working on my insecurity and just relaxing.

[totadol]

Dancing! You forgot to add it to the list. It’s one of the most sacred feminine and healing activities

[Alexia]

Jillz, you're young enough to be my daughter, but I'm learning so much from you. When I watch your "feminine energy" videos, it explains so much about my own life. Never heard about feminine energy before.

My generation was the first after the women's movement. We were encouraged to go after the big career, "lean in", put your career first, " have it all." I was a total failure at all that. Just couldn't make myself do it. i tried. But all I really wanted, deep down inside, was a peaceful, quiet, slow life. Now I have it and I'm allowing myself to enjoy it and no longer beating up on myself for not having that big career. I do work, part-time, at a library. (I'm semi-retired.) It's the perfect job for this time in my life and I love it!

[paulinahdz]

I lost it few years ago, life forced me. I escaped from a toxic relationship, I got cancer, I lost a job, corona time started, my mom got cancer and died. I live alone in Germany and yes, all happened at the same time. Thinking that I got a second chance for living I forced myself to build my life again. After 3 years, of hard work, I realised how much I changed, I am super proud of me but I feel that it is time to balance my feminine energy. I need more relax time, accept to receive and enjoy my life. Thanks for this video

[mwolfe]

This is a beautiful perspective of healing the feminine. But there are some caveats.
1. Becoming feminine can easily lead to submissiveness of the emotionally and physically destructive type. There has to be a balance, cause not all of us have the luxury of having a guy who will appreciate us/protect/ support us. I come from a culture where women don't stand up for themselves due to perceived female roles, and domestic abuse and femicide is rampant.

2. Becoming feminine should not mean you quit working entirely, because relying on a man leaves you in the dust if he decides to cheat and leave you. We all have stories of the women in our past (moms, grandmas, great-grandmas who suffered greatly due to this). Jillz still works technically, with YT ads and sponsorships. Not everyone can just go ahead and be a YTer.


3. Becoming feminine should not mean you become a housemaid. Point blank. Our grandmothers from the old country are obvious examples of what a miserable life that was. You can't romanticize your life, be in cute clothes, and run around frolicking if you are constantly cleaning up after the people in your life. As Jillz said, get creative. Do art. Do something that ISN'T just caregiving.

4. Do not make the mistake of "becoming feminine" with the wrong partner. This leads to much suffering.

5. Not every woman is meant to be feminine. Nature has made us mutable. We can be strong. We can lead. We can direct. We can be loving. We can be compassionate. We can be creative. We can be communal. Life is NOT just black and white.

[nataliefields]

I feel this so hard. I quit my matrix job in June 2022 and since then, I have been slowly healing my feminine energy. Part of the work was tapping into my inner child and playing. I’m healing from a SA so the sensual and feeling beautiful aspects have been a rollercoaster for me. I do things I love like cooking, rollerskating, being creative, dancing and being outdoors. It’s really helped me to step up in my true purpose on this Earth. Similar to what you said, I had to reframe how I thought about success and being seen. I had to get comfortable being seen as myself, no matter how society views me. Leaving my job and going on this journey has been the best thing I’ve ever done for my adult self! I started my own spiritual business and Im so excited!

[keks]

It's so funny, I did so many of the things you mentioned when I was healing from depression without even knowing what feminine energy means. I guess I inuitively got back into my feminine energy because that was what felt good to me.

[dreamiedips]

@27:46
*_The feminine energy wants to feel loved, they want to feel cherished and that is not just the job of the man in your life it's your job as well!_*
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This line was the most eye 👁️ 👄 👁️ opening for me. Thanks for sharing this. I love it and feel grateful for spending my time to listen to this in my hectic schedule. It's worth my time. 💗💗💗

[anastasiakraft]

Wow! That was powerful. I realized that over the years I became full of masculine energy. I am the CEO of a startup, always driving, always pushing, leading men made me tougher, I ran marathons listening to a bunch of hardass military guys like David Goggins and Jocko. I always wear armor trying to be strong. This year I am trying to find my feminine energy without quitting my role. I believe it's possible. Thank you for the great video. You spoke to my soul!

[Bamboos]

I feel like so many women including myself fall into this trap of working hard, achieving, and fixing everything trying to be super women. This also hurt me too. I took a year off and it was the best time of my life when I didnt have to do anything that I didnt want to do. And you know what happened, I got to know ME. I did not know who I was. I knew myself through what others thought of me. When I got to know ME, I realized what a beautiful feminine person I was. Its a beautiful feeling for sure.

[deneanjohnson]

I'm 52 years old. I work in IT. My life has been defined by firsts...first grandchild first black at my Catholic school to win in forensics, first black to be a majorette at my high school, first college graduate in my family, first at various jobs to accomplish this or that. Let me tell you how your words healed me. Yes, the love of my life for 7 years finally told me why he is challenged with marriage with me...my masculine energy is serious and I'm not a submissive woman. 😮 Gut punch. This video has given me insight on that point of view. I doubt if marry him, but I think I will marry myself. This is so much more and it is life changing. This video is life changing for me sweetie. Thank you!❤🥰🥳🍾💋

[UC_Podcast]

As a guy I feel this info is important for all parties involved in the human experience.

Thank you for sharing ! 🙏

[EmmaLouisePole]

When you mentioned imagine yourself as a child and how you would treat her, that really hit me. I have recently embraced my femininity and it has truly changed my life for the better, including my relationship :) x

[XOChristianaNicole]

Because of my situation, I have found that embracing going make-up free and not fixing myself up (however, still have proper grooming, of course) has been one of the key things to stepping into my own divine feminine — being comfortable and feeling good in my natural-body, with minimal enhancements.

Which, I think is especially important, what with the fact of my desire to be a wife and mother, and all the fears I had developed around such, due to my upbringing, family, and all around circumstances.

Myself, my husband, and my kids are the only One’s who will be around me when I am both beautiful and frumpy.

When I am strong or breaking down.

It’s been necessary for me to accept that — and trust I am always worthy of being and receiving love, loyalty, and support, no matter how I look/present myself.

[MighTestimony]

I feel like this is where I am at right now.. I am 28 and have been in my masculine energy since 16. Trying to stay afloat. Take care of myself, pay rent pay bills etc.. and Now I am trying to take a step back and be more feminine/explore my feminine energy

[terrilewis]

This is PROFOUND. I believe this is one of the reasons why so many young women are either A) Angry or B)Commit suicide.
They are immersed in an environment and taught in school to hate their Feminine Energy and operate in Masculine Energy.
They are taught that Masculinity is Toxic and is the same as Bad Patriarchy at the same time being encouraged to embrace masculine actions/ behaviors. This creates discordance and discomfort. So sad and such a waste of lives well spent!
Bless you Jillz for this lesson. I am 60 and desperately needed this RIGHT NOW. We need to spread this message of healing.

[soulserenity]

this video was meant for me! perfect timing. I've been in my masculine energy all my life due to growing up in a dysfunctional broken family environment, just starting my feminine energy healing journey recently after diagnosing what was wrong with me. yes I have the health issues as a result of the imbalance too. praying I will heal completely soon. and frankly I'm tired of the rat race and being in flight or fright for so long, and I hate how so much career pressure is placed on us women when the fact is our delicate bodies are not designed for this. therefore, I just want the soft life now. to simply look after my home and family, that would be my dream life.

[dearyuniverse]

I don't need to prove anything, I am worthy as I am ❤ Thank you so much!!💗💗