This is Why You CAN'T FIND Love... | Matthew Hussey

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[womenwhodate]

The more you focus on trying to find "someone" the more it won't happen, go out and be the best version of you and it fall into place at the right time ❤️

[loryjones]

"There is no such thing as The One." THANK YOU. God, I feel so much better! I don't want to set myself up to something fantastical. Instead, manifest (that other magic word) what you want by taking ACTION. He won't fall in your lap.

[christinareynolds]

I have found the ONE! It is real and it is possible!
IT IS ME!🙏🏼🥰

[ghadamamdouheskarous]

I think rejection in early stages is cool . What is painful is being in a real relationship and then breakup happens. Thats really painful because of emotions

[AtiAnthony]

I loved the 'firing up the generators' analogy. It perfectly describes that a good relationship should be easy but some work will always be needed at the start

[jonertaprenga]

This video was so entertaining, funny, intelligent, easy to listen to and so insightful. So glad you guys are putting out this valuable content. I appreciate it a lot 🙏🏻. Thank you for that

[JoeAUnCloneD]

I've been hooked on his videos. He got talent for explaining people like I havnt seen often. I'm here for the long run. Such insightful stuff

[andysam]

so spot on about not want(eliminate person don't want) as i seeing it all the time...seeing 2-3 of them recently and end up living same reason and their previous ex.

[elysunrise]

I really like this guy. And very grateful for all his videos. Great content 🙏

[MoMo-vbzq]

I love your conviction Matthew. It’s very reassuring to think that there are many possibilities out there for us 🥰

[carterwatson]

"the one doesnt exist" ive been feeling like this but at the same time I still cant get over my high school sweetheart there for its been really hard to give my heart to new girls. I really miss her I didnt fall out of love with her but I needed space its been hard to get over her for multiple reasons. It felt like we were a team we were mutually obsessed over each other she would always put me first even on her worst days we argued and had our fair share of drama but at the end of the day everyone knew she and belonged with each other She doesnt have any social media ive tried reconnecting with her a few times more recently but her mom continues too keep us apart I needed space because my senior year was really difficult but I didnt really want to lose her forever even if we just reconnected to be friends would be more then enough right now. Because Im scared that ive become too broken or jaded over the last two years idk theres alot too it but I do really miss her,

[dianedemarco]

I’m done dating and trying. I’d rather concentrate on my Family, friends, career and starting to travel and explore the world more. I’ll be 50 this year and have never been married nor had kids and I’m fine on my own. Yes even at almost 50 many men are not ready for anything.last guy didn’t want to stay friends after but in my 20’s I met men who I managed to stay friends with and nothing happened but friends. How were they more mature back then but men can’t just be friends in their 40’s - 50’s.

[poojarana-kh]

I have watched most of your videos. This is the one i appreciate the most.

[jacquelynlinn]

Wisdom!! Thank you Sir. I needed to hear this one today! Be well.

[natural]

Ladies, please don't find love in somebodies else. Please. You don't need validation

The love that you've been looking for is already inside of you

[neerajagoud]

Hi Matthew, I'm from India, I recently started watching ur vedios last month, bcoz the way u explain the values of relationship it's amazing n u look very smart n intelligent.Y can't b around the world follow like our indians only one birth one marraige for this only life, v indian women sply make marraige successful till death bcoz for us children, family n society matters, n v b with only one men who n how ever he's bcoz v treat husband has God of love who take cares responsibility of his wife children n his parents n everyone of family dat y v had Joint families to teach value of relationship.sorry for sharing about our culture.
But this vedio ur speech was brilliant n heat touching n i saw ur worry about relationship y thy breakup n moveon n go for next partner like both men &women
It's very bad for society n also by health being in physical relationship it effected by AIDS disease.

[pkxyooj]

This was great! Thanks for the insightful information Matthew 🙏🏼❤

[esthersuzan]

Am glad to get this video and it gives me caurage to love myself and know that am not the only one who is looking forward to getting the right one.

[cm]

I live in So Cal too. People here do think they are entitled. Very irritating. Dating culture horrible. Egos, arrogant, entitlement. People have a zero attention span here. I am talking about adults who act like children. They are all of Peter Pan syndrome everywhere. They never grow up or want to be mature. It makes it hard for me as a woman who is honest, dependable, consistent, never cheated. But I was cheated on past, it was devastating. Plus am a widow. People here are always looking at the horizon for the next goal, person, opportunity. But if you are always searching and starting over, you never reach your goal. You have to stick with something or someone in order to get to a better place or deeper relationship. People in So CA are so flakey. My family moved here from Back East, but I was born here. Even though I still do not feel like I am from here by my values. I am honest, do not lie, do not BS, am dependable and consistent and responsible in life. I have had a very difficult time finding a good man here. Very frustrating.

[RenaWith]

agree ....as I commented before ..if you feel that lightning, that chemistry it's just the sign that ....it's familiar. Brain loves familiar, releases hormones and chemicals and it says yes yes I know this...we know how to do "This" don't we? So if you had a great childhood, seen, heard, validated, cherished but not spoiled, supported, never abendoned in any way, parent didn't have adicton, didn't divorce, you didn't walked on eggshells....well then enjoy your chemistry, enjoy your One. But if your childhood was not ideal ..well then...that One...that just gave you butterflies is about to bring out all your insecurities and childhood wounds to the surface. Which is good if you want to heal....painful but good....but if you are looking for happely ever after...that's not the person! in fact....run! Run like hell.