CIA Spy REVEALS #1 SPY TRICK | @Andrew-Bustamante x @lexfridman

In this clip of the Lex Fridman Podcast, we discuss the #1 spy trick that anyone can apply to their life.

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[luddity]

To most people, empathy is the most natural thing in the world. To others, it's that one weird trick to succeed in life.

[traviswadezinn]

Take on board as many perspectives as is possible - it's a way to fine useful truths and do skillful systems analysis - good points.

[Mark--]

The most important spy trick to change everything immediately is to shift from perception to perspective.
Perception is your unique interpretation of the world, while perspective is observing the world from outside of yourself.
Empathy is about feeling what other people feel or understanding their feelings, while perspective is about understanding someone's brain, feelings, and logic.
Practicing perspective and empathy can lead to better connection, intimacy, and collaboration.
People want to feel understood and connected, and validating their presence and feelings can create powerful and intimate relationships.

[stephengriffn]

I read a comment by a SF guy talking about how important it was to look at everyone's hands when entering a room and I believe what he said, but I also thought how important it is to assess the emotional state of everyone in the room.
I have no doubt it is a trainable skill, but if you have studied people your whole life to figure out the psychology of what they are and what they are doing, you are way ahead of the game.
We could argue about definitions, but I would call that kind of person an empath, I believe along the lines of what you are describing.

[StuartLoria]

How do move from guessing what other people’s perspective is to confirm or debunking your guess?

[Budog_Actual]

My instructor used to tell me the same thing: perception is reality

[レモン-eh]

Actually no…
Sympathy is more a feeling of pity for another. Empathy is our ability to understand how someone feels while sympathy is our relief in not having the same problems.

[InteractiveDNA]

If you are a father you will always think and try to understand how your child is from all angles. Your perfection is no more, it is all about how your child is seeing the world. Unless you are not build to be a father. Your life belongs to the child's well being. You try to see how your child is all times.

[azorian]

holy sht andy whit lex... i know what im doing tonight !
he's so right each.
i been aplying that on arguments, before or instead of pushing to be right. Understanding the way pepeol see the dif situation gives u better picture not perfect but sometimes ur opinion becomes more acurate... that helps also to understanding behaviour

[Thomas-ofu]

I'm going to listen to your first podcast episode on repeat now ❤ @everydayspy #Freedom

[Hannu_H]

Very good and truthful advice. Unfortunately, your advice doesn't work here in Finland, where you are considered a threat if you think outside your bubble. But that is the problem of a small country and nation.

[MinistryofTruth]

This is actually a very good tool for job interviews or in bartering.

[flfunno]

I've been stepping out of my perception and into the perspective of others for a while now.

[charlesbrightman]

QUESTIONS: What do people remember after they are dead? Nothing at all. Who and/or what remembers society when all of society is dead? No entity at all. Reality matters, until it doesn't.

[shogun]

Lil Bro didn't know the word "empathy" and wrote a whole wikipedia page in his own words and called it "spy trick number 1" LOL

[tuoyoedukugho]

He just put it into words for me, most people think of what makes me feel good, but in order to understand God, not that i am claiming to understand him completely, i asked the question, 'what does God want'. It made me to understand how horrible our situation is and we should be begging God for forgiveness continually.

[edwardcroce]

If he was a real spy he wouldn’t be all over YouTube. He obviously doesn’t know where the bodies are located.

[eleonoraformatoneeszczepan]

Sounds like legal fiction ... what would, the average person in the scenario discussed do, in a situation also being discussed.

[gdk]

Love your content! One constructive criticism though! Change your intro/outro music and animation, it's not on par with the quality of your content.

[franbritotsa]

all of these videos are from an interview that's over a year old...