how to be happy single. coming from someone who has never ever dated

hi everyone! so yeah uh i hope you guys found this video helpful and sorry about the excessive caffeine energy lollll. you can just tell I was caffeinated with the loudness and how fast I was talking. editing thru that was jebffjefkenjffjjrgb. anyways

you guys already know that I'm single since birth lol so this should be no surprise. however I don't think I have talked much about how to be happy single. I think being happy single and being happy alone has a little bit of a difference since when I think of being single, I take into consideration of those who have had a break up. idk.

anyways I hope you guys enjoyed this video! I'll see you guys very soon! hope you guys have an AMAZING WEEK! Ilyyyyyyyy bye byeeeee

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[toxicchxrry]

My boyfriend broke up w me last night.. I’m still grieving over it, this is just what I needed!! Thank you so much, Via. Perfect timing. <3

[im_just_vidu]

"Don't run away from your emotions. Embrace it. These are my emotions, this happened, it's okay. Tomorrow's a new day. I think hope us one of the most important things in the world". I agree with this a lot. Most of the time, people afraid of being single because they have to deal with their own emotions by yourself. It's scary at first. But once you start being comfortable on your own, it's such a nice feeling.

[Notintime]

I’m turning 22 this month and I’ve been feeling insecure about my lack of love, romance, dating, all of that.. but honestly, hearing you talk about your experience makes me feel a lot less lonely. I feel like you are literally me, and that brings me comfort knowing that there are people like me.. i struggle with my sexuality, I find it hard to connect with men, I feel a lot more comfortable around women, I love fictional men too.

[Emmyyxyxy]

i got cheated on and dumped but you know what? that was a blessing in disguise. i allowed myself three days to be sad and now we are on a journey to heal and be single. He doesn't deserve the time i wasted over being sad.I want to find myself, I want to learn how to be alone and do things alone. Your channel is such a huge safe place to me and i wanted to say thank you. I don't feel as alone.

[corry]

I've been single for 21 years😂 this video really helped, ESPECIALLY since both my sisters and my four close friends are in relationships.
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[mrfredbasset]

32 and single. One of the main reasons people want to date is that they want a partner who will always be there and support you. Let me tell you. That's not guaranteed! Many of the relationships I had, I was more alone than when I was single, no support, no help, nothing. I'm happy to stay single now. I won't reject a relationship if it happens to come but it's not my main priority anymore and I'm not actively looking to get into one either.

[qisthyputrisholeha]

I'm 24 but still single, having relationship can't guarantee you'll be happy forever 😂😂

[meromero]

You explained it so well. I am 23 no boyfriend since birth and this is exactly how I feel (when I was a young girl I used to say I won't marry ever, I think had always known 🤣), I just get frustrated with my self sometimes because I can't articulate what I think about choosing to be single/alone to others who ask why.
The only thing different is probably being with friends. I realized that I don't really crave or need the presence of friends, I have great friends and we don't really talk much now, and I realized I don't miss them. It feels kind of strange sometimes but I feel more comfortable and at peace when alone.

[jennie-jtyi]

I dont think she realizes how helpful these videos are❤☺

[Chloe-K]

The man whom I considered my best friend and boyfriend for four years broke up with me last week and it has been insanely difficult to cope. Thank you for this video this is exactly what I needed to start healing myself and start being okay with being on my own again❤

[andreapallinlopez]

When i was younger, i used to hate being single and wanted a relantionship soo bad. Fast forwards to my mid 20s, I realized starting dating late allowed me to know myself better and know what i wanted in a relantionship as well as my boundaries

[vqbl]

For any person in their 20's watching this. Y'all probably here because you're also overthinking life and where you should be and who you should be with. Don't sweat it. You'd be surprised with the amount of people you'd meet in your lifetime and the different kinds of emotions and experiences tied to them. Just go with the flow. The art of wuwei~

[rhythmangel]

Me, in a happy relationship, watching this to try to find out how to come back to myself when I’m by myself. Always a great reminder no matter your relationship status <3

[anneonymous]

Thank you for posting this ! I am in the exact same spot (22 and never dated etc.), and I do find it hard sometimes, I really want that deep connection and I feel like I've put so much pressure on myself it find it.

I think the worst part is I got so caught up in averages of 'milestones' and honestly kind of panicking because I never got to date as a teen, I never experienced the "teenage dream", I never experienced my first kiss at 15 in the same way Taylor Swift made me feel like I would because of her song. I never even found one person to date in my 4.5 years at college.
As well as this, I remember being 16 and looking up "is it weird to be 16 and to have never kissed someone?", and now I look back on that girl, and I feel so sad for her and like I've let her down, because I had no idea I would still be waiting for all of that to happen 6 years later.

I honestly still struggle with this sadness and anxiety everyday, but seeing your videos, and how happy and well-adjusted and genuine you are makes me so reassured and I feel so much better about it.

Thank you for showing me I'm not alone in feeling like this, and having these life experiences ❤

[nekesa]

yes. it’s always important to know how to be happy alone. a relationship should add to your happiness; but not be your only source of happiness.

[kincheese]

I've had relationships but they never lasted me more than a month. Either I get ghosted or I just didnt feel comfortable. I hated the awkward stage of the relationship and I couldn't bare it. I feel so much comfort of being alone and being single... that I started to feel scared that there's something wrong with me. I'm so glad I found you. I yearn for love, but at the same time, when presented an opportunity, I get scared that I won't be something they expected so I tend to push them away. Thank you for being so relatable. I stayed up until 4 am watching all your videos the other day. I don't go outside a lot like you do, but I feel motivated to walk around myself and enjoy things on my own. Went on shopping spree on Saturday alone and I had so much fun.
Thank you for bringing me peace of mind Via <3

[jemieona]

Before I went to college, during my school years, I never dated anyone. My parents encouraged me to date and have a life after graduating from school and college. However, I have found solace in being single and enjoying my independence.

At 24 years old, I haven't found someone I can rely on yet. But being on my own has taught me how to treat my partner well and not depend on them completely. For me, dating is not just about chasing my feelings, but finding someone special whom I can cherish for a lifetime ~~~

[Leobooki]

LOVE the video ❤️💯As a single man I have learned to really enjoy outings for myself . I actually really love sketching, art ( maybe water color painting soon !) and going to book stores myself and creating chaos in my kitchen !. Just because I don’t have a girl in my life at the moment doesn’t mean that I can’t enjoy these things so I treat myself that way and go for walks or hikes . Nature always has a way of bringing out your inner peace 🪴 great time to reflect to ! But definitely everyone should treat and be good to yourself so much happiness can be found within by being gentle with yourself . Hope everyone who reads this has an beautiful week ahead !

[neyssa]

I'm glad there are people like you out there that value friendship and self-growth as much as I do. Gives me hope in a world where so many people just focus on their romantic relationship. Great video queen!

[asmir]

I just wanna say, there are so many twenty-somethings attempting to navigate this crazy world (me being one of them) and your videos have been such a comfort in the chaos 😌 ❤️