4 Ways to Smartly Tell if a Narcissist is Lying to you

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chapters
00:00 introduction
00:44 4 lesser known ways to tell if narcissist is lying to you
00:54 The question.
03:03 instance
03:31 2. They give too much details.
05:18 3. Face and voice dont match their words
06:22 4. They can't keep track of all details

[narcabusecoach]

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[madeleineperry]

Future faking was the thing that sucked me in. Promises of how our life and marriage would be. I wanted to go to Africa and work in an orphanage. I was 23yrs old. That was 40years ago. I’m going to Africa in 6 months, 1.5 years after I left him.

[lennie]

A perennial favourite of his, "I never said that. You're not LISTENING to me. " (This, after I have literally repeated back whatever preposterous thing he has just said!).

[Greenwings]

They often simply give you a snide look and do not even answer. They are masterful at this. They change the direction of the conversation by asking YOU a question. They'll act mildly put out, like they're tired of the conversation and make a move to leave or change what's going on.

[wendyapfeldorf]

A narcissist who believes that they have successfully lied to you will act happy and even giddy. The narcissist will become irritated and angry when their lies are met with skepticism and additional questioning. A narcissist’s facial micro-expressions will reveal their lies, such as nodding their head to indicate “yes” while verbally saying “no.”

[corbinhbucknerjr]

I found out about narcissism and all the problems and symptoms AFTER I went through Hell, and it was all over with. Looking back, reading letters, emails, recalling specific conversations, I've come to realize every single thing she ever said, or told me was a flat out lie. I loved her, and I believed her then, she had a very easy target with me. It's been almost two years, and I am still in awe that a person can walk around and seem normal, while their every word and action is a lie and a show. Not one thing genuine there. It's like living with a demon.

[WinterWarlock]

How to tell if a narcissist is lying to you:
1) They're talking
2) They're NOT talking
3) They're breathing
4) They're NOT breathing.

[MichNative]

He never told the same story the same way twice, 5 different versions were more likely.
The story always fits his agenda.

[coolvanillac]

The majority of the time they are lying or lay groundwork for a lie yet to be told. It's unbelievable how devious they can be. Sad really...

[amandaserle]

They lie lie lie all the time and think nothing of it. Unbelievable.

[dbnyssg]

The lie can be a very long story, as if they think the more detail they give, the more believable they think it is. They will change the story anytime they tell it to fit the situation. So remember the lies they tell!

[tamiclark]

I came to the understanding that everything he said was a lie. Seriously!

[angelakeely]

My ex Narc, constantly lied about people we both knew, he did this to isolate me, so I needed to ask the person he told lies about, to see what the reality was, that way I discovered he was lying, I also would ask him a question, then ask the same question a week later, then I knew if the story was different that again they were lying 🤔🚩🏃‍♀️

[mandytol]

Not blinking the eyes !
Go to another room 😢💚💚

[jessemacaluso]

The one I know, any time I ask further details or question why something needs to be a certain way, this person will go silent and cold and stare off at a spot in the distance. If you call them out on clear nonsense, they would say "I don't like the way you're talking to me" so honestly if you're not paying attention you could fall for it and think you're mistreating them.

[lexiipepsii]

Yes! I literally know when he was lying. He would either go too much into details or no details at all. The last lie was the last straw though. Telling me he wasn’t even talking to her for a week. Smh but he was though. She even mentioned that they were in the talking stage while I was 5 months pregnant! That broke me for the last time

[sameeraaftab]

You nailed it, this is exactly how they lie, making rhe empath anxious and doubtful .

[DGray]

Look for the pause that go on and off for the entire night until you are tired (exhaustion is their favorite weapon) …also look for a smirk 😏 or weird chuckle that is totally outta context

[terriwhalen]

I didn't know most of my 8 year marriage was a lie. I found out after we separated for the last time that I just thought I knew him. It was crazy 🤪

[terriabraham]

yes, i was completely fooled until the lies started to add up to a devastating end. thank you for your fast way of confirming my suspicions. i also discovered that they tell on themselves before they do things if you are tuned in. then you can expect it to happen. it's much the same as you see in politics, today, when some accuse others of something and then, themselves, do it in a few months or so, while the accused remains innocent.