Women that say they don’t want daughters shouldn’t have kids 👀

[combs]

I always wanted a daughter everyone always talks about how they’re scared to have daughters. Maybe it’s bc I grew up a tom boy but I always been excited to raise a girl to be themselves and that there is more to being a girl than just your appearance. Life is fun as a girl!

[aubreebaker]

The worst thing is when said women have daughters they feel like their daughters are competition to them. Your daughter should not be your competition they should be you opportunity to break that trauma.

[raychbez]

I wanted a daughter more than anything!! 😊 and I got her!

[ashleysalazar]

I say this the time. It is so beyond sick and strange. These broken deranged women need therapy, not a son.

[BreyaniH]

Yeah that’s always been strange to me when ppl say that. I agree with u Shelby!

[kathymagana]

We should adjust this to
“Women who say they don’t want daughters do not deserve sex, at all or SHOULD NOT be engaging in it. Cuz worse case scenario she gets knocked up and aborts it or she keeps it, has it, then mistreats the poor thing for her entire life…

[julisacastillo]

It’s weird how women can see their own daughter as competition

[Inana.musique]

I have a daughter and honestly I dont get how people can think that way. Daughters are the best

[Catmesp]

It should never be a competition, we’re here to give our children what we didn’t have. The generational internalized misogyny needs to go! A lot of us were taught to hate ourselves so most bring that trauma to their own children, it’s sad.

[MillieMonay]

Whew I have this convo with women and they can’t stand me! 😂 lol

[kikibanks]

Shelby out here spitting straight facts once again! Yes mam! ❤

[Kayindiglo]

“Rock your guts” is a crazy ass term especially the way you said it 😂😭 but literally bestieee and if you’re afraid of her acting like you then maybe (not maybe more like quite literally) that says more about you than it does your daughter. Children are very much ‘monkey see, monkey do’ so if she’s acting like you and you don’t like it then maybe that’s just karma or a lesson you need to learn (clearly) cause your child shouldn’t be seen as your competition or something you should fear or dislike. You’re literally the one raising it, you should be raising someone you would like and if you don’t want her to act like you then you clearly don’t like who you’ve become 😬

[dward]

I used to want a son due to having a bad relationship with my own mother.
My brothers were treated better than I, which also contributed. I realize I really wanted to compensate for not having a great relationship with my father or any other men in my life.
I have a daughter now, and she’s
my everything! ❤ I never want her to feel like she’s unloved, or we’re in a competition.

[ninalove]

I grew up with majority of all the women in the house my father was the only man that raised us so I always said I wanted to have all girls when I grew up and now I do have a child and I have a daughter now sometimes in my life it can be Rocky but that's part of parenting but I am glad to share every bit of my journey with my daughter.🥰👩‍👧

[FittedMisfits]

This is SO true . And if you dig a little deeper you can see why this can be a dangerous desire for some mothers to want a son or “male boy toy” . I was my mom first son and the way she took all of her emotions out on me it was like I became bombarded with emotional baggage like a human punching bag because I was the first “male figure” she could vent and “throw up” on. It became a BURDEN due to the fact my mom is so dysfunctional and emotional.

It has made me ISOLATE from people because I’m so burned out emotionally over the years . I don’t connect with people because I feel like they will always treat me like a punching bag. I feel like this has disconnected me as a human even but it is just the cards I was dealt .

Ladies HEAL yourself if you don’t you will burn your children to the core .

[highmaintenancelowbudget]

I love my daughter so much!!! Don’t understand this mindset either! It’s such a pleasure to be able to teach her to be confident and self assure, which I never was! Just a Queen raising another Queen 😌

[Winniedemux]

I remember the dating coach who ended up behind bars for scamming said she didn't want a daughter because she didn't want "competition" it's no surprise she said that and who she ended up being. Women who think like that are looney and are willful participants of misogyny.🗿

[autumnloveent]

Not only daughters, older women IN GENERAL towards young girls and women as well!!!

[jenniferoslowski]

SO TRUE!!! I WAS SO ECSTATIC TO HAVE 4 DAUGHTERS AND ONE SON! I ALWAYS THOUGHT THEIR WAS SOMETHING WEONG WHEN WOMAN WOULD SAY SHE DOESN'T WANT A DAUGHTER OR WOULD CRY WHEN FINDING OUT THEY'RE HAVING A GIRL AND LEAVING HER UNNAMED HAS ALWAYS MADE ME CRINGE

[trobinson]

So true. I've said this to girls before and I say girls because I was young when I was saying this but I was to stupid to innerstand the trauma I was witnessing