How I Knew I Was Bisexual | Keara Graves

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[jay-]

12 year old me: am I gay?
13 year old me: am I bisexual??
14 year old me: aM i PaNsExUaL???
15 year old me: wtf...
16 year old me: I’m floating in the void.

[billiebitch]

I’m Bi in a catholic school as well. My teachers don’t accept it, but luckily my mom is accepting and supportive of it, even though she’s very religious. I wasn’t scarred to come out because she told me from an early age it was okay to love whomever I love.

[helenafisher]

I don’t see a lot of people who are like me, meaning they’re only sexually attracted to girls and romantically attracted to both guys and girls. Thank you so much, you’re gorgeous and I definitely plan on watching more of your videos!💞

[yoncho]

I am bisexual, and I am an Asian women. And I never came out to anyone as bisexual. This is so frustrating. I love ur video. Thank you for giving me hope ^_^

[MsLarisBeauty]

You’re so gorgeous and I definitely have a girl crush on you 😍😍😍

[eva__clark]

Omg Keara, honestly this video is so inspiring. I've never been in love so I don't know what I am but I think I might be bisexual because I feel attracted to both genders and this video has also helped me realise that. Thank you so much for opening up and being honest to us, that's something that a lot of people can't do. You've actually taught me so much about life, for example not to care what others think about you. You're truly an inspiration to anyone and everyone and deserve way more recognition than what you get❤

[jihyogglypuff]

I think I’m having a big crush on Keara... 😂 She’s so damn gorgeous 😍

[hannahreq]

you are so confident, and so comfortable in your identity, which is an admirable trait in itself! are you still religious?

[softerhaze]

Honestly, I think I found out I was bi after seeing Billie Eilish...

[alana.fayeee]

I think I’m definitely attracted to both guys and girls but more sexually attracted to boys and romantically attracted to both. I think growing up that was definitely hard for me to grasp that I may be bi since I always did like boys more and little fetus me thought that that meant straight. Although now I know I am ANYTHING BUT.

Still haven’t told anyone though. I know I’m fortunate enough to have a family and group of friends that are accepting, I have both bi, trans, and gay friends and my mom has always told me she’d be fine with it if I wasn’t straight. Thinking back I’m pretty sure my mom knew before I did...

[brothervssister]

Please talk more about your biromantic homosexuality! That might be what I am, because I have had crushes on guys and girls, but when I look back I realize that none of the guy crushes were based on physical aspects. It was all on their personality. And now, I am super against being in a relationship with a guy for whatever reason, I am still trying to figure it out. And girls, as far back as I can remember I can recall wanting to befriend the girls in my class who I found beautiful, even though I would never talk to them. I even remember in first grade I made a girl a paper bouquet of flowers for her birthday. Yet I did not realize that this means that I like girls in this way until six months ago. I have accepted that I like girls, but I still don’t know what exactly to label myself. And I feel like I need a label. There is little to no biromantic homosexual representation, and I feel so alone so please help!

[lillinicoll]

I love how you’re so open about your sexuality and that you’re so supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. I love you so muchhh Kearbear❤️ Love your bisexual baby x

[kzadelaide]

you literally seem more and more beautiful and confident every day i love it

[rattattack]

This video helped! Up until just a few months ago I believed I was straight, because I very occasionally crushed on boys. Then I developed a very strong crush on a girl I know. This lead to me questioning my sexuality a lot recently. There are factors that make it quite complicated, but I felt like I was most likely bisexual.
My only problem is the sexual part. The definition of bisexuality is feeling _sexual_ attraction to more than one gender. The idea of sexual attraction makes me uncomfortable and I have never experienced it. This might be because I’m still in my early teens, but a lot of my friends my age talk about it sometimes and I can’t understand the feeling. I think I might be asexual, but I keep thinking “maybe you only feel that because you’re too young to understand the appeal of sexual attraction..” and it makes me feel very doubtful.
But! While I was watching this video I took note of the term “biromantic” and a switch just clicked! I already knew what it meant but thinking about it more the term feels like a comfortable way to describe myself. I don’t feel like I can confirm my asexuality but until that day comes, I now feel like I can almost confidently call myself biromantic.
Thank you very much for helping me realise this! And to everyone who’s read this far, thank you for taking the time to read my story :)

[haifahanania]

right now im realizing aloooot more that im atracted to girls to, but i also dont want to lable myself, and when i think about its always kinda been that way i just surpressed it bc i didnt want it to be that way, i was never tought loving to same sex was wrong but just withing myself i thought it would change the way my girlfreinds look at me and treat me and im still keeping it a secret, idk im. rly confused, im not ashamed i just think they wont like changing chlothes i front of me anymore or have sleepovers, even though jm not crushing on any of them, i just dont want to loose the bond i have with my girls over this, i think its always going to be a secret for me

[americamartinez]

Watching your videos helped me come out to my parents as bisexual... They were surprised about it at first but now they're totally okay with it.

[Th-lkhj]

I'm so glad I've seen this video because two years ago I was like ''umm okay i am not straight because i like girls'' so i defined myself as bi, but i realised that i wasn't attracted sexually to men, only to girls, but i was attracted romantically by both, and i thought it wasn't normal... I thought *_I_* wasn't normal. But now I know it's normal, because you're like me, homosexual and biromantic, and for helping me realising who I was, thank you Keara, I love you :)

[katesharp]

Omg your hair! I love it! I'm so glad you have the courage to speak up about subjects, like lgbt, because a lot of people avoid the subject and not a lot talk much about it. Your honesty is so refreshing and your videos never fail to bring a smile to my face xxx lots of love from England <3

[lunatonkens]

The fact that girls as pretty as her can like girls too gives me hope 😂❤

[keyla]

I saw your hair and I clicked so fast in the video. Love it. 💕