How To Take It Slow With A Guy | The 4 Reason Why You Should To Find True Love!

Would you like to know how to take it slow with a guy? How to make this relationship even stronger?

You know that it isn’t good to rush things and you really like this guy, so here are four things to keep in mind when you want to slow things down.

1. Keep busy
As men, we love to fight for something that is challenging and we want to put our partner on a pedestal. If you don’t have time for him, then he will see that it’s going to be challenging and he’s going to have to fight for you. Men love this!

2. Reduce communication
If you are talking all the time, he’s going to see that you’re readily available to him at all times. You’ve got to have your own things going on and show him that you aren’t at his beck and call! Your time is valuable and this is exciting for a man. This is another way to guard against being taken for granted.

So avoid making the first move. Focus on your friends, your family, work, hobbies, and put your phone away so you aren’t tempted to text him.

3. Don’t lose sight of your personal life
When we fall in love, we tend prioritize our love life and let our other “lives” drop off the radar. We stop focusing on our professional life, our friends, our family, etc. This is so common, and I often see the women that I coach canceling preexisting plans to make time for the guy they’re seeing. This is no good! Even if you’re already together and in love, you’ve got to dedicate some time to yourself.

4. Be aware of your intentions
Very often, I see people using a relationship to validate themselves and give their life purpose. This is not good because you’ve got to have your own dreams, goals, and purpose. Then you can share these things with him and add dimension and excitement to your relationship.

Organize your life so that your dreams are still very present in your mind, and if you can remain in control of your emotions, you can make this relationship stronger than ever (no matter what stage it’s in!)

Remember, when a guy meets you, he’ll try everything in his power to make you fall for him but if you fall for him too fast, he’ll take you for granted. If this happens, he’ll start to have doubts about whether or not he should commit to the relationship!

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[sarahb]

Omg Alex you're so right! The last time I spoke to him he joked about me falling in love with him. 😂...these men, its the same game but with different players. 🤣

[stardustastrology]

Your accent and energy are so cute, I enjoy listening to you :))

[merselinoliguori]

This is very helpful. My ex and I are back together and thanks to you Alex. I'm learning more about you every single day. We are taking things slowly right now. We do have a relationship but for the both of us we want to take things slow. It was his decision so i feel good about it. I'm doing meditation aswell and it helped me a lot too. Thanks Alex

[kimolofson]

This guy was so into me and said he loves me and wants to grow old with me, but then once he knows I want the same thing he wants to take it slow I’m confused

[luzbaez]

Thank you for reminding us to take it slow ask that he does not get overwhelmed to soon

[ATD-ttif]

Yes... you're right!
Perfect analysis.

[angelaguirgis]

Thank you Alex for your video. I appreciate it. I was recently seeing a man who came from a past of broken relationships (a marriage of hurt and betrayal). I have come from a loving marriage where I lost my husband (he passed away 3 1/2 years ago.) When I met this new partner 2 1/2 months ago he explained he wanted to take things slow. He lives 1 1/2 hours away from me we were seeing each other twice in a fortnight. He has his guard up and is cautious which I understand. He gets anxious when women tell him that he have feelings for him because they expect him to express his feelings straight away. I struggle with this to a point because my late husband and I were very verbal and emotionally connected. And because of this Corona virus we decided to see each other for 3 days but we both felt over whelmed like we were living together and he has 2 children ( i don;t have any children). I got scared and pulled back which has now resulted in him doing the same. Can you please advise on how I can make this right and how I can understand this beautiful man. Many thanks

[sandrinebartoli]

Your tips are very important to know how to slow down a relationship. Hey girls ! Don’t forget men need to hunt, it’s in their DNA 🧬 !!! So keep going but slow down !!

[simi]

Agreed Alex. Freedom to explore eachother should be important!

[mondohdz]

I’m a male dating a male (long distance) for 2 months and I sense this can apply to me too. I’m a busy guy however he is super busy. After college, I simplified my schedule to have more free time and to be less stressed. He’s in healthcare and remains busy from dusk to dawn. We have an arranged trip in a couple months and he’s keeping consistent on communication. I suggested to label us exclusively dating however it’s way more than that. I shared my feelings recently and he said he felt the same but no rushing as he’s super stressed and wants to see how this goes. I suggested then I’ll support him as a really good friend then he started to increase his messaging to me (emphasizing the use of the nickname baby). I don’t know if that scared him but it’s confusing.

[zaararosestars]

Hmm. ..exactly. ... because feel disappointment that he's not mine..but never leave him. ... love him the distance from far away. ..always he's in my heart forever. 😌💖👍👒

[fatimamumbua]

Thanks so much mr Alex for your beautiful advise

[missindependent]

I met this guy and we know each other for like 40 days. I feel like I love him and I confessed but he is not sure and I am too stress. Like if should move on or hold on hoping he might love me.

[florescuandreea]

Your energy is really sympa! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 9 months now and he said to me he wants to take it slow. I would have expected that the situation will evolve, not regress to an earlier stage. What does it mean?

[blancarosasmusica]

This video is so cool, thank you so much for this video.

[AbcAbc-dozn]

Susan
Alex have just join your you tube channel but thanks because i was doing so many mistakes in my relationship and i end up breaks but i have learnt thanks

[cindycinn]

So true Alex..once a guy wanted me to spend so much time with me at his house 4 days he didn't want me to leave we we're inseparable...i wanted to go home change my socks underwear wash my hair do laundry...he didn't realize this? I went home anyway after 4 days...he kept calling me drove me bananas..he doesn't give time for me just for him..I can't be on my phone he calls it his time...I couldn't do this anymore i have a life to..what's the matter with him? I choose when to see him not always him...enough of that!!

[carolparedes]

I love your Energy, you are such an amazing coach.

[kenle]

I'm the wrong guy to slow down, trust me...and don't regret it

[vivianeehui]

You have to have ambition to understand that. Every woman aspires to marry, but must first ensure her financial independence, her social sucess. Society is like a jungle where the law of the strongest is the best. Women are increasingly aware of this so as not to focus solely on the relationship. This leads to unmarried unions and also explains the fact that the couple is no longer a priority. But we must return to those values that made the stability of society because there was tolerance, indulgence, forgiveness, and so on.