4 Signs God Is Telling You to GO NO CONTACT Towards Someone

Should you "go no contact" towards someone? What does it mean to go no contact towards someone? Here are 4 biblical reasons God may lead you to go no contact towards someone.

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[adamwillhite]

Going no contact most of the time has nothing to do with making someone miss you or like you more .Most of the time if you have to do that it doesn't matter if they like you or not because how toxic they are. And most of the time it has nothing to do with Making them treat you better because at that point you no longer want or can handle having them in your life. It's more about protecting yourself. Not changing the other person's feelings or actions .

[SuperKarineka]

"No contact" should never be used as a means of control. It's ultimately for protection.

[switchpathbyamypreston]

I had to go no contact to let myself heal. Then I was able to reconnect and not suffer because of their bad behavior because the Holy Spirit helped elevate me above the troubles of the other person.

[InitiateChangeSparkPeace]

Whoever is reading this I pray for peace, wisdom, understanding, knowledge, and great health. May we come together and walk in unity so we can have love for one another.

[ForMySoulSistas]

God told me in 2016 to break up with my Muslim bf and go celibate. I obeyed, that was the toughest move of my love life. Later, God told me with an audible voice "you must choose! " I directly understood that he was talking about my ex so I'm blocked him from everywhere, prayed and fasted to be released from his heart and him from mine. Folks, If God insists so much it's because he loves and protects us, has much better for us, marriage is a tremendously important lifetime decision.
I've also sent this video to a friend who is in an abusive relationship. 😩

[aliciawoods]

I was JUST praying about this. Wow, can’t nobody tell me that GOD isn’t real.

[ethanplacella]

My moms a toxic narcissist and I went no contact 2 years ago. It’s the happiest I’ve been. I’ve been growing and getting healed ever since.

[vjones]

I know God answered me clearly through this message. Right on time. May God continue to bless you and your family Mark! In Jesus name, Amen!

[DonettaSting]

*Its actually unloving to keep hugging the person to hell.* Ugh! this was a punch right in the gut for me but, I clearly see how I needed to hear this. I keep thinking if I keep loving and trying and forgiving they'll see and come to Christ and be saved but, at the same time if they aren't receiving the message its ok to move on, guard your own heart and continue praying for them. I see now sometimes if you stay and keep trying you can end up doing more harm than good. Maybe in those times I'm just a planter and someone else will be the waterer and sometimes I'll be both depending on the person receiving the message. God bless you all.

[effie]

Yesterday, the Holy Spirit told me he wanted me to stop contacting someone I like and separate from him. By separating from the person I like, God can bring us glory in a relationship. I didn't understand what the Holy Spirit meant at the time. He also said he'll confirm this through ApplyGod'sWord YouTube channel. This morning, I was very distressed, and my heart was heavy. In tears and wanting to give up, I told God everything that burdened me. Then I went onto YouTube, and this video was the first to pop up. Mark, God used you to confirm what he shared with me yesterday when I desperately needed to hear it. Thank you, Lord, for directing my path with your light!

[philphil]

If someone hurts you without reason you have the right to ignore them.

[donh]

This is one of your best videos. Great to hear a Christian perspective on no contact. I recently went through a break up and this video reassured me that my current actions are the right ones.

[PrettyIndependent]

Thank you for this. I needed the vindication. I even shared these scriptures with them in the past of why God was telling me to go no contact with them. Yes we are called to love our enemies. But that doesn’t mean we tolerate abuse. Especially from fellow brethren. Jesus never meant for us to be door mats. We are the head and not the tail. Continued Unrepentant Disrespectful behavior is not to be tolerated. We leave Grace and mercy for people to change, but we are not responsible to wait around while they figure that out for themselves. It’s their own personal walk with God. You can’t hold their hand and let them tag along with you to heaven. It’s personal relationship. I pray everyone reading this can have a release of comfort. I’m sorry for the trauma you’ve been going through. But look at the beautiful resilient heart of Gold it’s given you. You were refined by fire. You are actually a better hearted person than you would be having lived a life of never feeling hurt and pain. Look at some of these silver spoon rich kids. They have “everything” in the world, and yet they still not happy, joyful, content, or even mentally stable. But you. Your trials have made you perfect. Count it all Joy brethren. I pray peace and forgiveness and contentment on your hearts. It’s going to get better. ♥️

[bradwhitt]

The only relationship that matters is one with God. Follow him without question. He will put your right where you should be. Quite honestly it's a perfect relationship where the other party won't let you down and will always be right there. The only relationship that gets you into God's presence and the only one we keep beyond the temporal.

[Thankful]

I think of the verses that say ..."Have nothing to do with them"
Just like Mark said, Protect Yourself!! Boundaries are to protect us.
Those kind of people drag you down with them ---b/c they are in darkness.
We are NOT! We must live as children of light---HIS Light ☼ His light enfolds and heals!

[mammabear]

The sign I've done the right thing is this video . I feel peace about going no contact with my father, he was a very abusive man in my childhood/ teenage years. He has no remorse and being around him was causing me to sin ie, negative anger and resentment, I forgive him and honour him from afar now

[lfn]

Thank you for this. This has been heavy on my heart the past few years. The Lord used you for clarity and confirmation. Amen 🙏

[justbargelle]

Thank you Pastor Mark... I have been crying out myself to sleep for aways giving someone a chance to realize my worth. I am tired of holding on, I am eveng getting tired of asking God how come it’s hard to love an old man. I mean “a Godly man but also a man who always goes back to his old self”

[hjanejandayan]

This is indeed God's provision for His children. God really knows what I needed to hear as of this moment. I know this aching heart of mine will be healed in its perfect time, in accordance with His will. Thank you God for allowing me to hear these wonderful truths, especially when I needed to hear them the most.

[Grace-love]

This is so true, we don’t reward our children bad or wrong behavior, however we reward the same wrong behaviors in adults simply because they serve a purpose in the church. Wrong is wrong. Abusive behavior of every type should be handle quickly and in love, lined up with God’s word. Not lined with the money in the pockets of the leaders. Abuse comes in various ways, allowing a toxic relationship to continue hurts everyone involved more than we can see at the moment. Walking away may be someone only option.