Falling For Someone You Can't Have

Are you falling for someone you can't have? Maybe someone who's already in a relationship or married? Maybe someone who doesn't like you back? Or maybe someone who lives so far away that it makes relationship success highly unlikely?

- Why you fall for someone you can't have
- How you could be sabotaging yourself
- How to avoid falling for someone you can't have
- How to get over someone you can't have
And much MUCH MORE!

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[TheTeddyFPS]

Some say "the greatest tragedy in life is when you meet the right person at the wrong time."

[onitvaldez]

Falling in love is something that is very hard to control. When you got stuck with someone, it's really hard to find a way out. I tried staying away, kept myself busy... but the memories of us together are just too much to handle.

[anto]

I remember my professor saying that, the worst feeling in the world is when you both love each other, but you can't be together

[jeydondestiny]

Lol I hate the way I think is like this:
“there’s plenty of fish in the sea so forget them” but then I think “I want this one specific fish tho”🤷🏽‍♀️😂

[terrancemak]

The problem is that I don’t have the time and money to travel around the whole world to find another person like him.

[miyayikay]

i’ve fallen in love with someone i can’t have..

[santostracey]

Why stay hung up over a married woman when I could get with any girl I want?

Because that wouldn’t be love. To me that isn’t love, it’s just some fling that isn’t even worth fighting for. When I met this girl, she was literally EVERYTHING I COULD EVER ASK FOR. It’s more than just physical attraction, my love goes deeper beyond that. And when you’re THAT deep in love, you convince yourself that’s the only kind of love you want, and you won’t settle for anything less.
If you’ve never felt this love, you wouldn’t understand.

[Kronus]

I fell in Love with my Best Friend. She is amazing. but doesn't see me in the same light. I need help moving on.

[ramyaakshay]

No matter how many people you meet, you will always be drawn to that one person and most of the times you can never tell why.

[chadcaramanna]

having the person you love stuck in your head, the memories you have with them, the thoughts of what you should’ve done when they were in your arms, and what you could’ve done differently to take advantage of having them with you at that time, and then realizing you’ll never be with them again, is the most heartbreaking shit I’ve ever gone through, and i don’t know how I’ll heal

[BleedingSnow]

Falling in love is nothing, someone falling in love with you is something, falling in love with the person in love with you is everything

[conkervertex]

Believe it or not, if you go out and meet other people, the person you were hung up on will start to notice you moving on and finding people that are much better. It is at this point that they may react to what you're doing. If they contact you, stay civil. Don't get angry or bitter because they came back asking you how your life's been. Be positive and tell them that you've been working on yourself and meeting new an interesting people. They MAY become more attracted to you. Why? Well, they don't want to lose what they had before.

It is at this point whether you want to talk to them again or not. Personally, I wouldn't. UNLESS they prove that they WANT to be with YOU and NO ONE ELSE. If they can't prove that, giving you "Oh, I don't know..." answers, tell them that you appreciate checking up on you, but you can't continue this kind of contact any further and if they ask why, be honest and tell them why. Tell them that you're looking for someone who doesn't want to give you "I don't know..." answer and they you want someone who actually want to be with you. You'd be surprised at how this kind of remark will impact their life.

Overall, you must remember that they're the ones who put you in this position in the first place and that you MUST move on if they're still playing games. Be the better adult in this situation, swallow all that you have and find someone greater than this person. It's actually good for both of you because you both move on and you both end up being with someone who you WANT to be with.

The only redemption they can show to you is that they need to prove that they WANT to be with YOU. Actions speak louder than words. They can talk all they want, but they need to show that they want you with their actions.

Unfortunately, most people are cowards and will do nothing, but will regret what they did. Let them regret all they want. It's time you move on to someone better than this person.

Good luck to all of

[conkervertex]

It is extremely difficult to overcome. I really liked this girl. She liked me back as well. She told me how handsome I was and I tell her how beautiful she was....but she never wanted to be with me.

I've made moves. We were intimate. We had a really strong mental, physical and emotional connection, but...she just didn't want to go there with me. So, we stopped talking. No need to fight for someone who doesn't want to go to that level with you, y'know?

She ended up dating some other guy. But...she's still attracted to me. I can tell. Leaving me Snapchat selfies (specifically sent to me), liking my statuses and even messaging me. I had enough and just cut her off. I don't respond, make myself unavailable and just occupy my time with meeting other women and working out at the gym to better myself. I'm already good looking as it is, just a bit lean. I'm going to gain about 15 pounds of muscle to better my appearance and build even more confidence with the trainer who's training me. I also got into rock climbing and snowboarding. So much fun!

I think I will be "the guy that got away" when it comes to her and at this point. She deserves someone like that that will make her regret her decisions. I really think that her and that guy won't work out. I just have that gut feeling. If it doesn't, then you can be sure she will come back my way to "check up on me" in an attempt to get my attention and validate herself to me.

No. No more.

I'm finding someone much better than her because I deserve better. It's time karma hit her hard and I find someone awesome.

[extendedpinky]

You will have many soul mates but only one twin flame. Sometimes even if it hurts you must let them go because it is for the best interest of both parties. You can't avoid falling in love. You certainly cant avoid meeting your twin flame if you're that lucky. But when you love someone so much you just want them to be happy and not be alone even it is being with someone else .

[KrisRenegadeAngel]

I'm totally hung up on a guy who's in a relationship right now. I'm freaking out about when I'll see him again or if he suddenly disappears if I'll ever hear from him. I think about him all day and go about my business trying to keep the thoughts of him away. He's so perfect to me in every way. I just wish I had a chance to make him as happy as she does.

[cresv]

I was in this situation, it sucked. I had to reflect on it and it was a whole week of feeling crappy. Sometimes it still hurts to think about it lol

[dinosaur]

It's literally the hardest thing ever. My best friend married the girl that got away and now I live with them. She recently told me that she has feelings for me as well. FML

[isoldmysoultoyoutube]

I'm a girl who fell in love with a girl I can't be with. She says that she'll be mine one day but she's with a guy. I hate it. I love her so much but it's hard when she's whispering I love you at night to another person. It absolutely crushes me

[swiyaharmonizerhever]

That one thing called HOPE, is a nasty lil thing

[amanogawaaa]

The thing that makes it so hard is, that you can’t just stop with loving someone. You can’t just move on. I mean you can try but it’s not something you can do in a month. Moving on is hard, loving someone is hard.