Parents Treated Me Like Trash Bc I'm An Affair Child But Now Are At My Doorstep Bc ..

Chapters

00:00 Introduction
00:10 Story 1
03:03 My opinion
04:40 Story 2
06:43 My opinion
07:15 History 2 Commentary
08:20 Story 3
10:15 My opinion
10:46 History 3 Commentary

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[TheRoseAlchemist]

Sounds like OP might need to get rid of the girlfriend too, she seems the "FAMMMBLY ABOVE ALL" type who will let them in when OP isn't home. Simply because the "kid" who OP has no emotional ties to needs a HOUSE!

[johna]

Story 1: the second he let them in, the "parents" would try to take over as if they owned the place, the brother would continue treating him like crap, and he and his GF would be treated like servants in their own home...and likely be expected to raise the nephew (in the guise of "babysitting") too.

[jackchop]

OP in story 1 needs to ditch the sister and the GF too.

[thelittlelady]

How did they have that many adults and no one could make enough money to pay the rent/mortgage?

[jimhatch]

Ignore the suggestion to let the nephew and his parents stay as I would be 100% sure they would give access to the others as their guest. DON'T DO IT

[juanhaines]

Story 1 nta the fact that the sister told them to go to you is grounds for going no contact. Plus the gf has no ground to stand on.

[MarkLeel]

OP 1 should’ve been given to the bio father. Keeping a child that will be resented is not fair to anyone and involved. He needs to permanently cut ties with that awful family.

[whitneybennett]

Situations like this make my blood boil. Yeah, sure, treat the innocent party like shit and let the one that jumped into bed with someone else behind their spouse's back completely off the hook. I'd also be telling the gf that if she doesn't stop putting pressure on me, she'll no longer be allowed in my house, either. Yes, the little nephew deserves to have a home, but it's up to his parents to provide him with that, not OP.

[yvonnefobbs]

Story #1: Are you telling me that four adults couldn't pay the bills?? I would be suspicious of your sister too but she was thinking about the child. It's telling that yohr dad tried to force his way in. Call CPS and tell them about the child being homeless. Get your lawyer and protect your home. I would talk to your girlfriend too and tell her not to fall for their bullshit.

[sobeitone]

Story 3 would be easy for me….I’m no longer paying your rent, let bio dad pay. if I’m not worthy of a phone call weekly

[McBruce]

S1: Just because they have a child, that doesn't mean they deserve a sympathy card. Can't help it but the fact is that the child has to suffer regardless, it is all part of the equation and is justified. These are the consequences for their past actions. If you put your hand in a pot of fire, it is going to burn your hand regardless of what kind of a person you are. So the child has to bear the suffering. People should stop sympathizing, and stop feeling bad for what is justice. Justice is blind and doesn't discriminate your age, gender, race, caste, or creed, and punishment (Karma) will be served.

[jacobgomos]

Story 1: it is a clear nta for me. It is bad enough that OP was treated terribly because he is the result of his mother’s decision to cheat. But then they came to him acting like they never were horrible to him for all those years only because they wanted something from him which unfortunately was never to apologize for the mistreatment. Odds are that they were not planning to be there for only a couple of months but instead wanted to see just how long they could mooch off of OP. And I can’t even believe that OP’s “dad”, the one who not only was the first to start mistreating OP and who was also encouraging his own son and wife to do the same, had the audacity to try to push past OP and force his way into OP’s house. There is a reason why OP cut them out of his life and if he did let them stay then it most definitely could have been worse. With all the usual stories the most likely scenario would be that they wouldn’t clean up after themselves, they would just leave a mess whenever they would be in the kitchen, the rooms they would occupy or the bathroom and they’d expect OP to suck it up and clean up after them. I don’t get OP’s sister’s logic. I know that OP’s brother’s kid would be homeless. But what makes her think that since his kid would be homeless that it should be a valid excuse for OP to just forget about the mistreatment that he suffered from the hands of these people and open his door to them, even though it would most likely end with him being even more miserable? I would definitely recommend for OP to set boundaries with his sister. Because even though she is aware of the mistreatment that he went through for years she willingly went behind his back to give OP’s address to the very people that he didn’t want in his life anymore all because there is a kid involved. Clearly she cared more about the housing situation of the people that she is fully connected to biological than OP’s mental and physical health. Because she is basically trying to force a situation onto OP that he isn’t in any way responsible for from the beginning. It wasn’t his fault that the people he removed from his life ended up homeless and it certainly isn’t his responsibility to help them out of their problem regardless of who is involved or hurt by it.

[Puffafish]

Blood doesn't make family, it just means that you are related..✌

[EnDB]

You can't use someone's money and cut them off at the same time. Even the simplest of people know that. She needs to be cut off. Get a job and step into the real world.

[DrownedInExile]

S1: Gigantic NTA. Glad OP was able to keep the trash out of his house. He owes his bio & step-unit nothing, and nephew is not his responsibility. But the sister is also trash since she ratted him out, so cut contact. And the g/f needs a very stern warning to stay in her lane.

[kimlehman]

Story One: The two year old child does not need to be homeless. CPS should be called so that he can be placed in a foster home.

[benny]

My god, trash people are still trash even if they have a kid. What is so hard to understand about that. People that use kid(s) as a weapon are stupid...The GF is a red flag now.

[yvonnefobbs]

Story #3: Even after everything and you told her the truth, she's trying to emotional blackmail you!! Cut her iff! Let her find out the hard way what her bio father is not who he says he is. Let her bio dad pay for her!

[standinthegsp]

Get security cameras with sound, LOUD alarms & other security. I’d even get bars on the windows. Contact the police & an attorney as a proactive move. Have the attorney send them a letter telling them they’re not allowed near you or your girlfriend.
Put no trespassing signs around your property. But give your postal delivery person permission to enter your property.

[merlinbrother]

#1. They would stay. Parents demand master bedroom
Never leave and start making housewives for op. They are older thus you need to listen. Nc on sis and possibly make Gf homeless as well.