Why Gay Relationships Are Hard

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Timestamps
00:00 Road trip recap
3:53 Why gay relationships are hard
7:44 Gaming with Donny
8:24 Dinner and a movie
9:20 John Wick review while eating a taco

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[isaacflo]

I think a bigger problem with much of the dating is it’s all based around hookups, open relationships, and lack of commitment

[steveparker]

Two years ago my husband of 21 years died from COPD. Now, if you think gay relationships are hard, try being 72 years old, widowed and trying to "belong". In our community I am totally and completely invisible. I've been "ghosted" and I hate it.

[zackcamara]

I am 31 and if there’s anything I’ve learned from gay dating or a relationship is how emotionally exhausting it can be and I think it’s hard primarily because of the standards and social hierarchy that exists within the community, FOMO has made a few men I’ve dated back out because they think they’re missing out on more, the “Gay Pornstar” standard as I put it, there may be someone better looking out there etc, I felt like the more gay men I met the less I wanted to date because I recognized the lack of substance they all possessed, and rather they were more surface and obsessed with physical appearance.

I have been single for 4 years and I’ve noticed my preferences and standards have changed based off of the respect I developed for myself, and I understand now that if I were to develop a relationship with a potential partner the key factor that I seek in them is peace.

A peaceful partner is who I would open myself up to, someone who has found peace on their own and brings that peace into the relationship and gives no reason for caution or suspicion, and that takes a certain level of maturity developed only by experience and recognizing patterns in certain types of men that you don’t value, and setting your bar for kindness and authenticity in a partner. They should give it as much as you give, it’s an exchange of trust, and having peaceful partner gives you a sense of calm and trust.

Open yourself up to someone who who opens themselves up to you 🙏🏻❤️

[JB-pliu]

Just turned 40 and I'm completely over dating or trying to find "the one". Its too time consuming and mentally exhausting. I like being alone honestly and the thought of having to answer to someone daily really isn't for me.

[Benniibennii]

Im 35 and I stopped looking at 32. Apps don't work .In person has failed. People flake, are a mess, or want an open relationship. So it's gonna be me and my Golden Retriever Crew, for the next 50 years!

[jamesmcarthur]

Thank you Mark! Many people dont realize that dating and love in the gay community is a completely different world and its ten times harder to find love and be loved.

[drewwho]

Living alone can be hard, just as living with someone can be hard. I like living alone, but I must admit I've struggled at times when it's only been me, myself, and I. The independence is great most of the time.

[branj]

I’m 30 and I find navigating gay dating is difficult. I was in a five year relationship until he passed away unfortunately. I thought I had a good friendship developing with someone, but I had admitted to blocking them for a short time. That’s when they decided to ghost me. I hate that feeling, but it just puts into perspective where people are in their season and how you can’t worry about them. It’s hard trying to move forward but it’s even harder when you can hardly find someone worth talking to.

[ncw]

Hey Mark, followed you for over 10 years and comment occasionally. I love your personal growth and your evolving perspective on the world. As a gay man in a relationship for over 20 years, I can counter that gay relationships are not hard, in fact any healthy relationship, be it friendship or or life partnership is not hard. If it’s hard - get out. Obviously there are times when we need to compromise and learn from one another, but that shouldn’t be hard. With mutual respect and love it’s all easy baby! Just find those people who mutually respect and love you. I love that you are now testing the healthiness (compatibility) of the people you surround yourself with, good editing with the people you invest time in will pay you back with endless years of love and respect, even if that means just having two or three great people in your life. Much love N

[jeffrobinson]

Me and my partner celebrate 40 years together this September 2023. I can tell you relationships do require work, as any relationship has its shares of ups and downs. We both have great senses of humor, so lots of laughter together has got us through many curve balls life can throw at you. Being each others best friend is essential, along with respect. Communication is always a key essential as well. Having shared interest and the same passions in life can carry you far together as well....

[WHATTHEBUCKSHOW]

I have been deliberatley solo (single) for 6 years. I have never been happier or more fulfilled. Thanks for reminding people! ;-)

[alex]

It’s so reassuring to know that no matter how long I go without watching your videos, I can always come back and just have this sense of overwhelming peace and tranquillity. You are such a beautiful soul- inside and out. Thanks for being you

[HansKr]

The problem with many relationships is that it looks like partners own each other. What many people actually do is create a kind of mould that the other has to live up to. What they are actually saying is "when you behave this way and do this and that then I can be happy". Problem is, it never works. You will have to work on yourself first to have a healthy relationship and see your partner as a mirror that reflects what needs to be ''healed'' internally.

[danielesteve]

Everything as gay is harder. I still don't know why they call us gay.

[lovhy]

“When life comes in your face…”

- Mr. Mark

[jrthiker]

Really enjoy your videos. Virgo here, like you, so a lot of what you do and say resonates with me. You're on track, figuring it all out. When you're ready, you'll find a great relationship, but as you say, you have to take care of yourself first. 63 here, been with my husband for 32 years, we both weren't ready until we met each other around your age. And it's not always been easy, but you know when it's the right person and you work it out. One of the big things in gay relationships is re-establishing yourself and your friendships after the honeymoon period is over. This usually happens around 6 months to 2 years in and is the first big tough hurdle you both have to navigate. Communication is key.

[chrolli]

Stop looking! What you need will walk right in front of you when you least expect it! Know your worth! You are sweet, kind, lost, and trying to find your way!!! You are not alone ❤

[dashdingoasen]

I’m turning 40 this year. I’m at the stage now where I just prefer to travel and do solo activities. but doesn’t mean that I’m not open to be in a relationship.
The happiness I feel from traveling and independence is amazing.

[iwnunn]

What a great friend Donnie is. Keep that man in your life!!

[Eric]

It’s because people now a days are so picky. For me personally I like to give every guy a chance even when we don’t like the same things 😊 People also are very toxic now, like god just be respectful to each other ❤