BTT# 83 - Men's 5 Biggest Mistakes With Women

In todays show, Troy Francis joins me to talk about the 5 biggest mistakes men make with women, that lead to train wrecks in their lives. In this show we will discuss the following 5 points.

1) oneitis
2) manipulative and gold digging women
3) drama queens and energy vampires
4) transactional sex
5) reduce the likelihood of cuckoldry

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[brianscott]

I learned at a very early age (22) that ”you are only renting it” and your goal is to have fun while it's your turn

[c.q.mcwilliams]

This might have been Rich's quote, that women are never embarrassed, but they are always offended. So true.

[forgotten]

As my dad would say, " Any fool knows his mother, a smart man knows his father." 😂

[turnaround]

I'm stuck in one itice and trying to get over it. This subject was perfect timing

[rawedawg]

24yrs old and grateful for this information. Everything the red pill teaches comes to fruition. Keep up the good work.

[VoiceOfThe]

It’s the neurochemicals which cause Oneitis.

And yes, it is absolutely crippling.

[mayorofthenonsense]

Good point about the energy vampirism. In practical terms you really just gotta keep it simple - if you repeatedly feel drained, burnt out and anxious after spending time with her - you gotta get out before it eats you up, because it will.

In theoretical terms though; I was with someone like this a while ago, and it took me a long time after we separated to grasp what the problem was. We could have the most romantic and exciting weekends together, but at the end I would always leave feeling exhausted and confused, and I could never figure out why. There was just something wrong, something missing, but the reason was always a mystery.

In this case she was mild BPD, but lots of women can be like this for various reasons. In any case, the reason you feel drained is that your subconscious is working overtime looking for patterns that it can recognize and relate to, but it never finds them. The conscious mind sees the person in front of you, but the subconscious sees empty space and can’t reconcile it.

This is why you feel drained. Your brain is burnt out from trying to determine whether this person really ‘exists’ in the way that you would expect them to. You are pouring mental and emotional energy into a black hole trying to solve the enigma, but you’re not getting anywhere and none of the energy is being reciprocated.

Energy vampires are sad, empty, and desperate people, but your gut will screen them out if you listen to it and trust it. 😎

[joannegibson-lucas]

Good discussion. I was the youngest child and very spoiled by my mother and sisters. I like being spoiled by my husband too. He buys me jewelry and brings me flowers. He cooks and fixes things. He has a great sense of humor and entertains me. We've been married for 30 years. He is my lover and my best friend.

[markdanielsmarksinspiratio]

Yea, I had it. I had options with other women but it was still tough. I had to walk away and cut it off completely. I was going down hill fast. The distraction was brutal. Pulled me off my purpose.

[slartibartfast]

Best way to avoid *oneitis* is don't sleep with them till you find out who they truly are. More often than not, you find out who they truly are... You're not going to want to sleep with em anyhow. If you're needing/hungering for the intimacy more than she is. You've already lost anyhow.

[fourthmarker]

Biz Markie was warning us about when she says he’s just a friend back in 1989.

[stevieG.]

Love when Troy say's 'Don't reward bad behaviour'...we were told that about our kids when they were about 2 years old.!

[Manish-rfyu]

With women’s, friends, employees, and business associates, always hire slowly and fire Cooper. ( The Unplugged ALPHA)

[leinatural-legendadoemport]

It is shocking to learn that transactional sex happens so often in normal relationships.

It is proof of how poorly women develop their own sexuality. If having sex with your man is akin to washing the dishes, it shows how women are completely dysfunctional regarding sexuality, orgasm, intimacy and real female/male connection.

IMO this is the result of a highly sexualized culture where women are taught how to look and act “sexy” but are taught nothing about their own sexuality, orgasm, etc. These are still taboo subjects even among women.

Thanks Rich and Troy. I am a 46 y-o woman learning a lot about female behavior from your content. You are very intelligent and eloquent. I greatly enjoy your videos.

[DJToneRI]

5:15 bro you didn't think she might be bad news when she was cheating on her boyfriend 10 times a day with you? Bells and sirens bro

[R_Thomp]

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4. 38:31
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[bolt]

It's the HOPE that the situation with the OneItis Girl will change to 'whatever it is you want' that keeps you attached to an unhelpful relationship. You need to recognise that HOPE is unrealsitic/false/not based on real world feedback, as a the 1st step of cutting it off.

[logandailey]

WOW. Had no idea how deep the programming ran! Watching Simpson's and I gotta say- homer is the DOPE! Never good enough for Marge yet she begrudgingly accepts him- and than theres flander! The king of all BETAS! And he is THE MAN! -Terrible message but a big eye opener for how deep the programming runs! Keep up the good work! Keep opening mens eyes to the truth!

[wez]

Best played at 0.5 speed, they both sound stoned 😎