How to read a man’s character?

[janieh]

Ok, so I've read a lot of comments with some of you ladies saying I will never take care of a broke man again and or I'm not dating anyone broke. It was nowhere in this message that Tony said to take care of or support a broke man(i.e. no job). He said specifically the man may not make the amount you desire them to make. However, he has an income(lower than your expectation), ambition, and drive. So because of these characteristics along w/emotional security. He is going to end up rich financially at some point. Whew, chile! Some of y'all was stressing me out in the comments.

[skwilson]

Sadly, there are a lot of broke men with no character either.

[bprincesswilliams]

In 2008 I met my husband, he was a construction worker raising 4 kids alone. I am a registered nurse and I also owned my own business. People (family and friends) thought he was beneath me and urged me not to date him. This man was everything I asked God for, kind, calm, a good heart and he loved God. He is now my husband and I have never been happier. I am so glad that I was celibate and praying when I met him.

[nikkirowland]

“Emotional security will produce financial security” 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[ladyshenna]

Soooo true my fiancee was dead broke with no job when we met. Let me tell you this, that man was my best friend, inseparable and before he passed away he left me financially secure.

[jessicac.]

“A dream is rooted in purpose, a fantasy is rooted in pleasure.” A mans character has to be backed by ambition and goal to complete the work God has given him to do

[aspiring...]

I don't mind about the money.
I hate to see a man (or woman) without purpose, vision and lazy.

[arleciawhite]

Well, I did it, and we got married, we both eventually got good paying jobs, raised our kids, bought a house, and had a good life until he passed. I will always choose a good moral character. My husband also traveled as a drummer, and he did carpentry work. He's was so sweet to me, he treated me like a queen, with his loyalty, love, communication, and the way he spoiled me.

[keysham]

Sometimes women also have to stop 🛑 looking at what other couples doing and envying them. We see you Tony and your wife where you are now but we didn’t see the years where God had y’all grinding it out. So people can envy the Promise Land but didn’t see the sacrifices made in Egypt.

[ADR-xndg]

I'm just now at 35 getting into the career I've always wanted, prior to that I never made much money and my degree will triple my income. Some peoples growth in financial terms may take longer than the time frame people expect.

[Krys]

A man with character will never be broke

[ashterrezao]

I swear, nine of ten broke men will leave you, as soon as you help build them up. It's severely risky to help a dusty( broke men) Most women ain't taking those chances these day. Sad to say, but it's was it is. Sorry Tony.

[kimberlymmcguire]

Who shot John and forgot to kill'em? Tony you keep me crying. Never heard that comment in my life until today!

[ForeverMattison]

I stopped watching tv and just started watching you the last man I dated was a demon himself. I’m learning how to read spirits and your helping me realize what the physical body should do or not do when it comes to dating and just deciding who’s a good person and who’s not ! A million thank you’s Tony

[angieb]

Money comes and goes. I would choose a man with Godly character! I definitely understand this.

[shereses.]

As a new divorcee, who has dated quite a bit since getting rid of my narcissistic truly believe if you trust God, and wait on him, work on yourself, pray for your future husband along the will come. In whatever package that is, it will be just right for YOU. Effortlessly.

[jamie]

Emotional Security + Peace = Purpose and Prosperity

[ilciataracena-delcid]

I remember my husband's first job he was making $4.25 an hour we got married 4 years later we just made things work late 30's he said I know you want to be a full time mom to our son's go ahead I got this just make sure they graduate High School and get a Degree last year our oldest finished his BA Degree and this year our Youngest will complete his BA Degree as well both debt free..He is awesome we respect him but most of all I trusted his vision for our family. I didn't understand his work ethic but supported him and that's what he needed support..

[lanniedee]

I could listen to this brother's knowledge forever. I'm about two seconds close to strapping both of my "know it all" adult daughters to a high chair and make them binge watch him...

[psbringyourpassport]

The men I previously dated weren’t broke but they were brokeN in character and mindset. As I got older, I realized that mindset is CRITICAL.