'The Most Crucial Step in Judging Someone is to Determine Their Character' Robert Greene

"The Most Important Thing Is To Realize That Determining People's Character Is The Most Important Thing You Have To Do In Judging Them" Robert Grene on How To Determine a strong character vs weak character; How to judge people Non-verbal Communication.

“People Reveal Themselves In The Past, They Reveal Who They Are Through Their Actions, They Try And Disguise It But They Reveal It. Nobody Ever Does Anything Once. So you want to be able to look at people's patterns and look at their past and see trends and understand that if they’ve done certain things in the past they will continue to do them because we humans have compulsive behaviours’; we're compelled to repeat the same mistakes over and over and over again.”

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👇 OUTLIERS INSIGHT SHORTS 👇

ROBERT GREENE
Robert is the author of the New York Times bestsellers The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction, The 33 Strategies of War, The 50th Law, Mastery, The Laws of Human Nature & The Daily Laws, he turns to the most important subject of all – understanding people’s drives and motivations, even when they are unconscious of them themselves.

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[ziwer]

To add to Robert Greene's insight: If you want people to show you who they are, present yourself as lower status than them or just look poor.

[frderickhoe]

There's one thing that my mom told me that I've been sticking to since young. "Be the man who treats the janitor with the same respect as the CEO".

[carltwidle]

Sometimes it's best to follow your intuitive nature. If you get a negative vibe from someone no matter how charming they are, then avoid them.

[chimeljibji-bukar]

A lot of people here miss the main point, no one shows you who they really are they show what they want you to see. You have study them and understand their patterns to really get a grasp of who they are

[steph]

Can someone please give this man some water.

[troyvan]

Find you're own code of honor...and stick to it.
Carry yourself with integrity, block out negativity. Treat others like you would like to be treated.
Love yourself.

[Musiclover-bgnn]

I think understanding people and social cues is far more critical in real life. Most people hide behind their cell phones and their lap tops now, without wanting to get out and socialize anymore. There is something to learn everyday even by going out for groceries..Learning patience while waiting in line, and trying to understand the needs of others while you observe what they buy. I thank God every day I have people skills, because academically I struggled...but determination, and the willingness to learn new things has always kept me successful.

[radishwhite]

1. Adaptable
2. Can get along w others
3. Look at their patterns

[beautyshines]

It's true that you can see a character of a person thru their actions because their deeds speak louder than words.

[kenswireart]

Most people lack this word these days. Most are loyal to no one. No integrity. They can beg and plead for help and soon as they get it they turn on you. most chase money and not true passion. Most. Need quick fix rather than to go through a journey that builds character..

[captainalazharalyusof]

🤔✍️"When you Act with the integrity. You do not have to make people like you. In fact, you do not care if they like you or not. You can live and justify the decision that you have Made, and if the decision are wrong, you know you wil learn from the mistake get up and never give up to try again "
"When wealth is lost, nothing is lost, When you health is lost, something is lost. When your characteri is lost, all is lost ". -Billy Graham - 😀👍

[deelynn]

I can recognize an abused female child or an "on their own" child by their toughness. I recognize it because of myself. You have to become tough, pretend things don't hurt, be aggressive, be smarter, stronger, quicker than others to protect yourself.

[pastelmoon]

Most of the times my gut feels about people been right. It saved my life once
in my early 20s met a man and never felt so much cold from person
he acted normally, were polite but still I sensed something bad about him
that he is not what claim to be. I left the group quickly
5 years later turns out that he was predator
dodged the bullet

[tbobtbob]

The more I try to discover people on a deeper level, I find them even more uninteresting. I almost never meet anyone who's worth a second of my time. I finally found peace when I retired and didn't need to interact with people much.

[lisaproustresearch]

Character is what is carved DEEP inside
Look for good character that includes being:
- Flexible (bend) while being strong,
- Empathetic
Look for :
- behavioural patterns, as past actions will likely repeat
- how they treat others
- being interested in others not only themselves
- hidden vulnerability via hyper opposite behaviour

[InterestedCitizen]

There was an extremely sensitive, intelligent, popular co-worker people easily confided in. At first. In time, sadly, he showed his true self. Backstabbing the female boss, calling her a "b" once. Called people "fat" if he was angry at them. Bragged about hacking into people's emails out of revenge if they crossed him. Totally the opposite of how he appeared at first. Awful.

[gtiszavari]

When Robert Greene said " non verbal cue's" that really resonated with me. Character never lies. It shows you all you need to see, we all have good and bad aspects..

[siiNke]

I cant stand people that mock other people or don't show respect.

[marketingsam]

The whole if someone does something you don't like they've probably done it before and will do it again is a painful truth of life.

[brinta]

Yes, in my exeperience, I have to Always BEWARE the soft spoken ones. Behind those extreme soft spoken exteriors lie some of the most insidious, nastiest agendas you could ever meet. I prefer the overtly aggressive over the shady soft spoken any day.