r/OffMyChest - Spilling The Tea 🍵

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Title: Tea Time by GoSoundtrack
Genre and Mood: Cinematic + Romantic
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Piano & Sax by Joakim Karud / joakimkarud
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Title: Piano & Sax by Joakim Karud
Genre and Mood: Hip Hop & Rap + Calm

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#reddit #theclick #subreddit

[maironelfstone]

That first story is the reason why so many of us chronically ill people worry about our relationships. So many of us see our health problems as burdens and don't want to "put up with it." I mean in this case she deserved the breakup but still, it's a real fear

[Milo-qqvy]

I just want to say this really quick:

I have been in a mental trench lately and my partner was comforting me right? He knows that I have comfort youtubers that I watch when I'm really down. He is sitting there rubbing my back, telling me that everything is OK and he asks this question: "do you wanna watch the attractive Swedish man? Click?" And i started laughing so hard. He looked at me, wide eyed, and goes, "that's what you said once, I'm just agreeing with you. He is a conventionally attractive man."

God damn i love this man so much 😂😂😂

[tornado]

It’s not transphobic to not want certain genitalia in a relationship especially because it’s trauma related whoever is calling her a transphobe is just a jerk

[leihaddock]

As a (gay) trans guy, yeah it's frustrating (and dangerous) to date. And someone not wanting to date you cause of your bits stings, but so does someone wanting to date you specifically because of your bits (comes across creepy). Does that mean preferring one set of genitals over the other is transphobic? Nope, not at all. It's a preference, or more as in this case

[suburbanmama]

My kids are adults. When they are here and their doors are closed, we knock. I wait for my son to come to the door or if he yells it's okay, I crack the door enough to say something, then shut the door. If they have company and they have their door closed, I just text or call them. My husband does the same. The kids would rather die than come near our door if it's closed and call or text if they really need something. Mutual respect is part of it, and, part of it is that none of us care to see something we'd rather not see. Knowing your parents/kids/siblings do adult things is different from having that confirmed.

[peepopopo]

Even if there wasn't trauma involved, I don't think there's anything wrong with genitalia preferences. I understand that those "super straights" are annoying as hell, but this isn't that.

[Ecofriendlyant]

OH MY GOSH HE'S SMELLING US AGAIN FOR INTROS

I'm so happy

[chaoticayana]

I'm a trans woman. Not wanting to interact with penises isn't transphobic. People have sexual preferences for literally everything, if theirs isnt towards penises, for whatever reason that's valid. It'd only be transphobic if you were suggesting people who did interact with them were in some way no longer lesbians.

[NikNak]

I've raised 5 sons, the youngest is 17. Never just walk in. Some things cannot be unseen.

[austinmoe]

The update to the "Overheard my wife and feeling kinda off" story is so freaking wholesome. Made me so happy for them

[Misstborn]

there's a lot of hostility in the trans community for any exclusion based on our bodies and to an extent, I think it's reasonable.
And yeah, it really sucks to not be able to enjoy something with someone because your body isn't what they like, but it's not their fault. They aren't saying no because you're trans, they're saying no because of your body and that has to be valid, otherwise we're telling people that they have to enjoy... activities... with others regardless of whether they actually are comfortable with it.

[Lee-ylul]

My favorite response to those stories where someone is questioning paternity when you're 100% certain is to be like:
"Alright, how about this? I get a paternity test done, in whichever and how many testing facilities you like, and if you're right, I'll pay for the tests, and even throw an extra thousand bucks on top of it. But if you're wrong, then you eat the costs of the tests, and have to pay me the thousand bucks for wasting my damn time. Also, we'll of course be getting this agreement in legally binding writing. What do you say?"

[ItRemindMeOfHome]

The girl who said she doesn't like AMAB bits, totally get it.

Like, I'm a pre-op trans woman and I totally get it, I've dated a lesbian who had a similar aversion.

Girl, I hate it too.

Certified not transphobic.

[ScarletShade]

Falling in love with your therapist is something that happens to a lot of people (so much so that it's part of any licensed therapist's curriculum to learn how to deal with that situation ethically and empathically) - So talking with the boyfriend and/or therapist would be the best step to take.

[TheDarkstar]

He always tells us how we smell absolutely amazing but have WE ever told him that he smells amazing too?

[bobchisholm]

Regarding homeschooling: I'm a very withdrawn, introverted person. What I got out of going out to school was learning how to interest with other people, which is just as vital as learning facts and figures.

[CassetteGlitch]

According to the testimonies of several escorts, "emotional escort" is already kind of what being an escort is for a lot of people. I've only ever heard stories from female escorts who had male clients, and basically a non-zero percentage of male clients pay escorts litterally to hang out with them, listen to their emotional troubles, and spend quality time together. Several have reported having clients that don't even want to initiate anything sexual and just want someone who'll give them affection and lend them an ear.

[mika-san]

okay so for the parents in the "i caught my son having gay time with his bf": god's already watching over your son, yeah? so why do you need to snoop on him? let the big man do his job

[wardrobewings]

Ok, that "That's okay, I'm ready to be a mom. " line is brilliant. Mentioning you have a family member who specialises in family law would probably deal with anyone who didn't immediately wrap it up 😂

[anqeal]

i wish more people realized the K-12 online program also counts as homeschooling. parents don't have to do the work, and kids still get access to structured school at home, supplies, and professional educators. i was homeschooled for a year and a half with the program during high school and it saved me from horrific bullying