Why Men Lose Interest After You Get Emotionally Attached

Why Men Lose Interest After You Get Emotionally Attached - Surprising Reasons
The moment you fall in love with a man, when you become emotionally attached, he might lose interest. He could stop caring and gradually pull away.

Have you heard this before?
How many have experienced it?
It's a common narrative in many podcasts and videos, impacting self-esteem and confidence. So in this video I will explain why that happens many times depending on the dynamics of the relationship and how you should choose the right man.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Topic Summary
01:34 Why Men Lose Interest 01
02:29 Why Men Lose Interest 02
04:21 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
04:55 Why Men Lose Interest 03
06:30 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
07:00 A SECRET

Types of Men
The difference between takers and givers. You may believe you understand, but be patient and read. Takers drain love and affection, leaving you unfulfilled. Givers thrive on mutual exchange, genuinely caring about your happiness.

Identifying Takers
Takers prioritize physicality, disregarding emotional connection. They induce guilt or shame to fulfill their desires. Poor listeners, they prioritize their problems. Possessive and controlling, they manipulate to maintain control.

Recognizing Givers
Givers value quality time beyond physical intimacy. They're curious about your past and future and respect your boundaries.

Even though you may disagree, most men are actually givers, yet they may act as takers when less interested.

Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban-American author, coach, and speaker.

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[plouifasol]

That's bs. If he loses interest in you once you get emotionally attached, that person was just playing you and it never was love/genuine interest. Just let them go and focus on you value and people who treat you well.

[nahiananjumpromi]

Sings of a Giver:
Enjoys quality time
Genuinely curious about u
Respect ur boundaries
He invests time and energy
Consistency in his actions

[main_momin]

After four years i realised he was a taker.... He never showed his love he was just there to take my energy and love... I don't know how to move on but I'm trying

[chandanishiningstar]

For all the girls…love to the fullest but with dignity and self respect…and even after giving all of u, he leaves, then leave it but u will atleast be proud that u had the courage to be a true person and love truly. Do not take life too seriously

[indyd]

Good distinction between givers and takers.
Sadly, I've found that some men will initially act like a giver, and once they think they've "got" you, reveal their taker side. Once they think you won't leave, some bad men start the disrespect.
Not all men are like that, but there are some bad apples. Be careful, ladies.

[naomia]

Taker:
All about physical not commitment
Make you feel guilty
Only talks about his problems and needs
Mixed signals/words don’t match actions

[sassygal]

this is BS. and I'm not as an adult playing games. if a man runs when i show love... he better keep running.

[kristinej.]

My ex was a taker. My new man is a giver. There are so many differences between the two of them.

[nicolejennings]

Men forget how easily replaced they are, if she is a pretty woman, it won't take much for her to find another guy if you don't love her keep her.

[Free_spirited_sunflower]

I never met a giver in my life... now i understood I'm the giver😅😂🥴🥺 all my ex and crush# takers 💔💀

[Free_spirited_sunflower]

Yeah i learnt this lesson from a hard way.... I'm non committal and emotionally unavailable person now. i don't want any serious😂😅.... I'm drained and exhausted 🌻

[clanaer]

He never talked about the title of the video - why a man will lose interest when the woman starts getting attached.

[janewasson]

Because he's won, and the chase is over. He got you, slept with you, had you. Now, he's bored, and wants something new.

[weqzick]

I love when you tell us stop multitasking & give me your full attention, I immediately stop reading the comments & look at you!..i love when you tell us Beautiful Too! Since I subscribed to your channel I didn't Need or want anyone else's advices about relationships on you tube, thank you so much Sweet Ismael for being Sincere, Decisive & for not wasting our time you are the essence of the word gentleman.. V pleasant to look at & to listen to As well !

[emgee]

Ismael. Everything you've said here, so true . There are the men who simply want to get something FROM you. And then there are
those who want to SHARE things WITH you. A man who doesn't really put in any real effort for you or with you? Walk away, quickly.
And unconditional love? It doesn't exist - other than in people's fantasies and wishlists .

[snigdhadas]

He has always been a giver, he has taught me much life lessons, he has healed me at my worst, he has been my backbone and suddenly he left me ! I'm just trying to put myself back on track which has been going not so well types and Ig I'll just keep loving him ✨🕊️

[Breeze]

Yep after having met the right one this is NOT even a question...

[sheekha]

Yes, it's true. Men only fall love once and if he does he's consistent. He'll never leave you

[aswa]

If u are in un secure relationship, it shows ur not secure, heal urself first

[ixfirzl]

Men can be 1) Takers. Or 2) Givers. Takers are energy vampires. They suck off your energy. Its all about physicality. When it comes to spending other time with you, he' s just not as interested. Sign 2. They make you feel guilty, ashamed, broken or old- fashioned if you dont give in to his physical desires. 3. He is a poor listener. Every conversation revolves around him. 4) His words dont match his actions. He makes promises but.does not deliver. 5) He is not consistent

A man does not love you like you love a child, ie. unconditionally. There has to be a constant interchange of shared values and vision. The reason he leaves is not that you have got involved in him emotionally, but that he came to extract from you, not to get emotionally involved.

Signs of a Giver
1) Enjoys quality time.with you even if it doesnt lead.to sex.
3) Respects your boundaries and doesnt make you feel uncomfortable.
4) Does things for you that require time and energy.
5. A giver is about consistency.
Most men are actually givers. Some men who are takers with some women are givers with other women.
Key is he will need to perceive you as a high value woman in order to be a giver.