When He Says This, It’s Not A Compliment!

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[banyana]

When he says you're too good for him, believe him sis.

[michelleevans]

You ain’t never lied. Learned the hard way…

[bphoxay]

Include the phrase. " I can't give you what you deserve." Knew a lot of guys that used this. Ladies run immediately like he's about to set you on fire.

[ayingi]

"You remind me of my mom."
The look in his face when i told him, that's not a compliment.😂😂😂

[karlareadstheclassics]

You better run 'cause when he destroys your life, he's going to say "I told you you were too good for me." Meanwhile, your credit is destroyed, you've lost your friends, your job is in jeopardy or you've been fired, your family loses respect for you, etc. Never worth the destruction & hell he has in store for you!

[aqua]

My ex said this to me when we broke up. I blocked him soon after and he's been trying to contact me through Facebook and trying to text me since we broke up 8 years ago. Once I'm gone I'm gone.

[elenakalashnik]

You are so right about these words. A friend of mine is a wreck because this type of guy.

[stargates]

Makes me wanna cry. Wish I had known this. 😭

[saggiestar]

I wish I would have known this earlier on in my life. But I guarantee you I'll never forget it

[NinaAngelina]

You ain't lying!!! I can firsthand attest to this! They knew they had nothing to offer. Deleted and blocked!

[enmodelife]

It also means: "I know things about myself and my character that she has NO CLUE about yet".

Ladies, please know this is his "fair warning" to you, and even HE considers it his fair warning. I speak from experience.

[womanwithaplan]

Oh and another one! If he says things like, “I tell myself EVERYDAY not to mess this up.” Please RUN!!! First of all, if you truly love and care for someone, you not messing up should come naturally and you shouldn’t have to remind yourself not to. What he’s REALLY saying is that I’m trying my best everyday NOT TO GET CAUGHT because I don’t want to lose you! (YES, some men don’t want to lose you even though they refuse or don’t have the capacity to do right by you!) If you encounter this as well ladies please

[inmyownwords]

It's a warning. He's not ready for whatever the reason

[Christin-np]

In my opinion, it's also a sign to either raise your standards and seek men better than him or pull back on what you do for men at whatever stage you were in.

[Professor_Kaos]

This happened to me in high school. When he said that it broke my heart into pieces 😢. Later on he came back and I realized that he was right the first time. He wanted to be friends and I said no and never saw him again...he did me a favor the first time.

[GodsChosenMekAmoR]

This is facts. Divorced the 16 year narcissistic husband off this. All of a sudden I was the worst woman ever who no one would want other than him and no one would love me like him if I left 🙄. These predators are insane.

[ravenpriestess]

If a man's family says he's too good for you, RUN!!! Usually that's a sign that he's a demon incarnate.

[sarahpaesfrare]

There's not enough love in the world to heal this kind of man lol

[ana-nim]

The only time i heard this "i don't deserve you" was from the most vile guy i've ever came across in my life. Only a few days after the "i don't deserve you" he proceeded to call me any name possible, telling me how much he hates me, how im the worst person and basically a slut. He completely switched only in few days because i said that i want to focus on my mental health and don't want to date anyone, only friendships. So yeah, he wasn't lying, he really didn't deserve me or any other woman tbh.

[devinebeaut]

If he says, "No matter what happens, I value our friendship over anything, " he's going to be on some bullcrap one day.