Some Narcissists will block you on social media first in order to unblock you whenever they want to

Some Narcissists will block you on social media first in order to unblock you whenever they want to. It's controlling

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[shirleyvasquez]

I don’t care if they block me or don’t since I’ve gone no contact

[onlinebusiness]

After i unfriend him, he blocked me 🤷🏻‍♀️. I didn’t understand… but i got it now… it is all about power

[motherofintuitives]

I've finally got him on block after months of him torturing me with this blocking

[candaceurquhart]

My narc literally waited for me to unblock him just so he could block me 🤣

[kimberlyblunt]

He's been blocked in Social media going on 5 years.

[bellezanegra]

He’s blocked me on his phone. I definitely made the mistake of telling him I absolutely hated being ghosted when we first met. Why did I do that?

[derricksimpson]

Who the hell said women can't be a narcissist? Probably a narcissistic woman!! I am going thru this very subject myself!

[Kct]

That’s why I blocked him as well!!! Narcs are SO MESSY

[teresacotton]

I discarded him 2 years ago and blocking hasn't worked because he comes up with new names. So now I set the settings on FB to friends only. He can't see nothing and doesn't know what I am up to.

[robanjel]

See now this is a classic move. Source of control. There was a time I was on the discard phase. She was drinking all day. It’s like the Narc prepares for the discard. Pay attention. They will reverse, or create conflict. Anyways, the discard and block comes in. From all platforms. There was a time she had her Karma. She got a dui after discard. Even when I checked on her after the fact, she answered the phone aggressively “what?!” And after the call the unblock came in. Because of her shame. Until this day I wish I didn’t accept. Narcs will reach out to you when they have nobody.

[jennawelsh]

Lol this is my ex🤣🤣 He left me for a catfish then came crying back Tried to get me to break up with my boyfriend none of it worked he blocked me on Snapchat for a few months I ignored the friend request for two years, on Snapchat. (he does an annual once a year checkup) so he resorted to Facebook on a backup account I still ignored him and he came back on again on Snapchat and started adding/stalking me again when that didn’t work he blocked me again but is still watching to me on Facebook. I was dying laughing because he thinks it hurts me🤷‍♀️

[candaceurquhart]

I understand the logic behind it but that's so childish 😂😂😂

[sarahlanthier]

If a person has blocked a narc, how far are they willing to go to mess with a person? I blocked a violent narc and she decided to send back all the birthday gifts I had given her over the years, the gift I gave her for her wedding, and a bridesmaid gift I gave her at my wedding to my house out of sheer want to hurt me. Now I'm being harassed by strange calls and I can hear giggling on the other end. When do they realize what they are doing is crazy?

[yasmindagarza]

I’ve been focused on protecting my space. Removing his family members off my social media sites. Not allowing any them access to me. I realized I needed to let go of any hope I had of building a friendship with them even though they may have sympathized with my story. But they are still his family. So the goal is to limit access by controlling who sees my success. Not everyone gets that privilege and it took me awhile to let go of the past but I can say I am healing. Loving my self is a strong boundary. Good luck guys!

[kristenwillmarth]

And sometimes you have to block them bc whatever you post or whoever you’re friends with on social media will be used against you in the next surprise conflict.

[godsfavor]

The blocking game is crazy, but yet some people always want to play. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Thanks Lee 💜

[l.m.]

Omg. YES. This is exactly what happened to me. And now he keeps hovering trying to bait me back. Giving me breadcrumbs of “I miss you”. Texts. Pure insanity and childish mind games.

[SLJ]

Well I would have to take full responsibility for all the BS I put up with for 10 years because I just wasn’t seeing it. He never would allow me to be on his friends list on social media and along about 2014 I could see that he had a primary source as it all unfolded she had a lot of money… Fancy trips to Hawaii to the southwest, cruises, to the Caribbean. You can bet he treated her different. So I have to take full responsibility. Then along about 2017 I began to see that there was a disordered personality and gaslighting and I fell for it one more time in about August 2020.

[emjaybravo]

I went no contact for over a month by blocking her. She was super upset about being blocked. Once I didn’t have an urge to contact her, I unblocked her.
I got the “you have memories” notification from Facebook and as I’m looking thru the memories I see things she was tagged in that she wasn’t tagged in a knew I had been blocked.
I’m guessing her doing it to me was some kind of power move cause she was the one begging to come back and I refused

[Tanae]

Not all people that do that are narcissist… just smart with control issues 😆😆🤷‍♀️