Dissecting R-Strategist Males

[austinjrb]

He makes a good point about training men who ordinarily would invest long-term into becoming more short-term oriented. Particularly because the men playing the long game are punished and overlooked, whereas the short term oriented men have more mating opportunities which in essence is positive reinforcement.
Women are voting with their time, attention, and bodies to say "this is the behavior we want".

[kindcounselor]

I thank God for this wonderful man who has the bravery and intelligence to see through societal craziness.

[katyapizano]

I remember my mom telling my brother back in the 00's when he was in his 20's "Be a gentleman to all women, not because they deserve it, but because YOU are a gentleman". That hit me and I began to behave like a lady too.

[obviouslyasockpuppet]

Wasn't brought up to be an r strategist but that r strategy works like a charm. You get more of what you respond to or reward, ladies.

[zezfezl]

How disgusting they are❗️❗️ Thank you for saying it out and summarising this blatant way❣️🙏❤️

[markmeme]

Women choose these men ... equal responsibility.

[articulateit-andgetwhatyouwant]

Women have such power... responsibility!
Let's step up, ladies!

[journeywithin]

We were sexualized and brainwashed. Remember in the “girls gone wild” era of the 1990s. I remember my friends replicating that stuff at parties in highschool.

Women, we hold the key. Delay access sexually and see if he sticks around. If he doesn’t, then he wasn’t worth providing access to. We are biologically wired to get emotionally attached after sex in case of pregnancy.

[ArchimedesPie]

This is why religion was important to civilization. Forget the silly doctrinal stuff - at its core, religion is about gratitude, self-discipline, accountability, and moral guidelines. All of which have been thrown out the window starting in the 60s. 60 years later, the fruits of this movement are unmistakable. "God" help us...

[justinmitchell]

But if a woman does the exact same thing, it’s liberating Professional oriented overachievers independent.

[Aussie]

What is the incentive to not be an R-strategist male? If psychopathic behaviours are rewarded more highly than pro-social behaviours, why behave pro-socially?

[andulasis]

Pretty much my best friend who would have been a good mate for sure, is now convinced monogamy isn’t made for humans.

[speakingout]

In my studies these mental processes are HEAVILY influenced by diet and also cleanliness of water in and around the body, the environmental influence on our body is profound when it comes to higher consciousness, our ancestors were rich because instead of cars, the air was clean, instead of money, the river had fish to eat, instead of houses no one could afford we had trees to live in and under for a lifetime

[petergonzalez]

I definitely found myself becoming exactly that type of guy when I was on tinder. Having sex was only cool for like a week or so and then I would just go on to the next one. It was bad. I felt surprisingly lonely during that time.

[markgalbraith]

He just described pre- and post-divorce me.

[brndxt]

It takes two to tango. Analogy: If there are many cheaters in a society, it may reflect that there is also a significant number of suckers in that society. Being ignorant, careless, or unwise isn't a virtue.

[Ufosdahoes]

So Jordan comes from a generation when this was mostly males. As a 1990s kid who is in his 30s I can 100% say with confidence this is mostly females today.

[nzbklfu]

If you're going to have thus dynamic.
Do so responsibly.
Don't hurt partners you are already with.
This is something that is very complicated n takes a connection like no other to be handled healthily.

[alexlilano]

My former best friend was a female. She slept around a lot. Old people, our bosses, young kids, and our clients all told us we should date. We super get a long and even love each other. I was super attracted to her physically and personality. I couldnt do it. I guess I friendzone her, but she had no trouble attracting a guy. I will always question if "my" kids will be my kids if I got with her. I had to drop her as my friend when I dated my current wife. My wife didnt need to say anything. There no way there will not be drama if I kelpt talking to a beautiful woman who I super get a long with who also sleeps around. No woman in the world will be okay with that. It got to be an evolution thing that I pair bond with my wife and selected a woman who didnt sleep around. Im super involved in caring for my kids and dont want to adopt either. I dont want to invest my energy on kids who arent my biological children. A lot of animals pair bond for life. Swans, Gibbons, beavers wolves, and Bald Eagles. Bald Eagles are my favorite animals since I saw a documentary how the males and females take turn hunting and caring for their young like my family.

[lances]

I feel like I got dropped halfway into a convo. What's a r- strategiest