She Turns The Tables On Me…Watch My Reaction! (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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Oh God. I made a huge mistake...And now a woman is punishing me for it…on stage!

In the video you’re about to see, I’m caught in a scenario which, back when I first started as a coach, would have left me absolutely TERRIFIED and frozen with fear!

After a rookie error on my part, a woman at my San Diego seminar decided to totally turn the tables and call me out, potentially leaving me completely embarrassed and lost for words in front my own audience.

For a tiny split second, my brain said what it always said in these awkward moments “Oh crap…”

Crap. Crap. Double Crap.

Luckily for me, I’ve been in this situation dozens of times before.

A career of standing on stage in front of hundreds of people every week has enabled me to learn more than my fair share of Jedi-mind tricks and powerful techniques for dealing with crisis scenarios like this.

In this week’s video, I’ve decided it’s finally time to open up the kimono and share some of my most carefully guarded secrets to maintaining your power in these difficult moments.

See, in life, things don’t always go the way you plan.

You can try and map out every scenario in your mind, but the truth is, when you get to that interview, that audition, that first date, or that difficult business pitch, it’s much harder than we imagine to respond on our feet without allowing the pressure to knock us off our game.

If you’re someone who needs to make sure you’re able to have impact and remain confident even in the most unpredictable moments in life, make sure you watch very closely as I put into practice my own shortcuts and processes that have taken me years of failed attempts to learn.

Make sure you view all the way to the end, because in the last minute I’m going to share something completely for free that has already changed the lives of thousands of women who have been luckily enough to get their hands on it.

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[thenightking]

The biggest turn off for guys is probably when a girl gets aggressive and angry over something so innocent.

[sloebone]

Imagine a guy saying to a woman “....I’ll break your head, I promise!”

Her face isn’t the problem, it’s what comes out of that face that men don’t want to deal with.

[cinnamonflan]

“I don’t know why men I like don’t like me”
“What’s your name?”
“I BREAK YOUR HEAD!”
Okay I wonder why too... 😒

[Shannyrulzeva]

she made me laugh LOL.. but now I see why she's a "bro-friend"

[tanyaakh]

This woman seems to have great energy and is pretty bold. Matt actually nailed it that she just has to channel it in a different way (no shouting and nagging).

[SnakeAteMyDog]

Honestly, I’m a guy and more guys should be watching your videos. The information and insight you continuously provide for relationships and attraction are so key and uplifting.

[kailingreen]

Funnily enough, I feel more and more I come to Matt’s videos will less intentions on finding a guy or getting a guy, and it’s much more about building myself into the person that I want to be, having the right attitude, a productive mentality, and confidence.

[toshi]

So the difference between berating and flirting is the way you say it. The way you say it equals sexual tension.

[xbutterflyx]

CORRECTION "The reason I decided to do the video anyway with my wet hair and tshirt is because I look WAY HOTTER if that's even possible" hahahahaha, Matt you're

[maybememory]

I like that you go from standing straight and open to bent over and closing off as much as possible. And then, when the conversation improves, the posture opens back up. It's interesting to watch.

[misho]

She is extra. That's why they are not interested in you cuz he just met u and u already started nagging

[amirahassan]

The reason why I made this video when I still have a wet hair because I'm handsome any way 😍😍

[PortnoyII]

She was in an indian tv show called roadies, which is a super aggressive, road-trip version of Survivor. Didn’t think the show would become her entire personality.

[KripaBadri]

why did she start yelling? he said 'let's go for a BEER', he didn't call her BRO.

[collinsmugodo]

as a guy I do like this guy's advice. but I reckon that some men are able to handle an abrasive woman if she can contrast it well enough and leave enough space for us to respond. But it does take a lot of confidence and self assuredness on our part to be able to do it.

[LordWinter]

She's witty but she takes a slightly severe tone

she says she doesnt have a friendly face but I think that really means she doesnt have a friendly AURA

[tsukitohateru]

In his defense, he wasn't directly expecting her name. Although it's always the norm to introduce yourself when you're asking a question. He was only expecting a question. And with that brief moment of introduction, it's so easy to miss it especially when you are in that very moment. It's not when you are actually asking "What's your name?" is the actual moment where you are expecting someone's name and take it to the heart. The fact that he recalled that she mentioned her name and ask her very politely to say them one more time, was him being attentive. You can't just have a go at someone when it was obviously an honest mistake. I'm pretty sure that a normal people would've answered that with just one word of their name and continue the conversation as if it was a normal conversation. I can't remember how many times I had to correct my name when someone mispronounce my name and I completely understand just because it's so hard to remember my name, since my name is so rare. On the contrary to that, whenever I met a person who remembered my name or know what my name means, just from me mentioning my name once, made me feel moved. Her having a go at him, is like trying to make an enemy out of everyone, when that person that she likes might genuinely trying to get to know her.

[Bassywassy]

This is no magic. He likes himself, I'm sure he likes the way he looks, and he has a huge female audience sitting in front of him that confirmes everything he thinks. All he needed to do is be flexible -> not get offended, sit it out (hence leaning on his leg for a bit saying nothing), keep his spirits up and wait for an opening to bring in an uplifting comment.

Now the Indian woman did have a charm I liked. She's honest, she can laugh, and she actually came for her question to be answered - so she was focussed. Not to mention she looks decently attractive. Now what turns me off as a guy? That vocal artillery fire. Lack of flexibility is NEVER attractive in a human, wether man or woman. Key is always making the best of every situation, not stomping on something because it didn't go the way you wanted. More than the information Matthew gave, his ATTITUDE (positivity/flexibility) was the actual lesson!

[Lishkafe]

That GIRL. How could she miss that opportunity?

[robmort]

With all due respect to Matthew, he is in the top 2-5% of guys, just look at the women in the room, pretty much all of them would jump at the chance to date him.
Much of what he says is true in how difficult it is for normal guys out there to start with