Can a Single Mother REALLY Give a Man the Love He Needs?

[Mr.Boring_Man]

Single mother's definitely love this talk.
I married a childless woman that had MY kid.
Go where you are appreciated.

[atlantasfaithsmom]

The pondering man must ask himself, "Do I want a woman who doesn't prioritize her child(ren) over me?" and "Would I have wanted my mother to put a man or men over my needs when I was a child?" As a single mom, I didn't have men around my children. I waited until they were away with other family to go on dates. To me, when you have to wait to be "free, " it's more enjoyable and precious. A good man will see you have your head on straight and respect you for being a great mom. ❤

[whitechicacooks]

Thank you for the words of encouragement! All the negative videos all over the internet are disheartening, to say the least! To think this dream of being in a mutually loving, respectful & reciprocating marriage, is a beautiful thought. I'm thankful I don't have to give it up!

[jonbarnes]

Dealing with it right now. Her and her son started out struggling with it but they both came from an abusive situation. Through love and time they’ve both started healing. I’ve shared many of your videos and would be glad to share our story

[nancybrown]

Your so true, I absolutely agree only Kings think that way, I really enjoy listening to you every day ❤

[madeleinebruna]

So true, I do agree as a single parent we need discipline and be intentional and balance and then again, depend on the relationship that we are in, we can love our men and our children together, that way no one feels left out. I like the quote that said God will not put you in situations were his grace is not there.may the grace of God be with you all ❤

[EmeraldLuvsYouALL]

Absolutely agreed because if it's a fit you can't shake it lol True love can't be stopped❤

[Goldenheart]

This is something that men think about when it comes to dating a woman with children and also when deciding whether they want to have children with their spouse. In either scenario at some point they are going to wonder if they are going to be put on the back burner and have to play second fiddle to the children? The reality is that in either situation if children are involved the dynamics of the relationship are going to be different. Respectfully, relationships that involve children are not for everyone and should never be entered into lightly. It takes a very special person to choose to enter into a relationship with a man or woman that already has children. What some may view as a burden and a headache others may see as a blessing and opportunity to experience a special connection with not only their partner, but the children as well. What's so important to remember is that in a healthy relationship between two mature adults love isn't a competition and there is more than enough to go around if we are open to giving and receiving it.💛

[tipically_me]

This is valid. Is it also a fair statement that the man may struggle to make the woman a priority if he has children with another woman? I agree in these situations you have to dig deeper because these are relationships that are case by case.

[stephscreations]

Stephan you definitely have a clear understanding of life, hats off to you, you are on point 💯 percent as always, blessup 🙏

[AfroNerd-cvdl]

This kind of scares me, I'm a 22-year-old guy who's still in college studying engineering. I haven't had much luck at all when it comes to talking with women. Mainly because autistic and super high energetic and nobody else seems to reciprocate that.

I don't see myself right at this moment settling down with a single mother, especially if there's an opportunity for me to graduate school and make some good money, I wouldn't choose a single mother if I had options and this is not to be rude, but this is because from a man's perspective, who is looking to be a provider for the family, I want my own family, my own children, and if I get with a single mother, I have to deal with baby daddy issues, and it will always be this feeling like I'm spending resources on something that isn't mine. I'm not saying I won't care for them or love them, or want them to be the best they can, but that feeling is still there.

However, if I get to about 30 or 32 and I still haven't met anybody, I'll probably settle down for one. But I hope it doesn't come to that

[maribelmejia]

If he's a good man we'll make time for them.

[janicebrown]

If She Isn’t Lazy ! And Everyone Share The Love It’s Great !

[MissTaylorMade]

Hmmm good question. I think it’s all about prioritizing what’s important.

[deeholmes]

Interesting statement, and I agree with your answer.

[lynettenorwood]

NOOO SHE CAN BALANCE BOTH THE MAN HAS TO UNDERSTAND THAT HE WILL GET HIS QUALITY TIME AND ENJOY EVERY MINUTE. AS LONG AS HE IS NOT BEING SELFISH

[jeanettekelly]

Yes if the lord sends the right godly man I will

[Vivrantthangg]

If that’s the case then stop having kids all together😂

[shespeaks]

Both parties need to agree that the children are a priority and the mother should not expect the man to become their "daddy replacement".

[tammytaylor]

Especially if you have one adult son! Arrgghhh!! ☺