3 Rules For Dating Someone You're Not 100% Attracted To

Is there a girl or guy that you're thinking about asking out but there's something about them that you're not 100% attracted to? Maybe it's their looks or conversation skills or even the pressure from others not to date them. Here are 3 rules to follow to make that relationship work and to prevent others from forcing you to make a decision you don't want to.

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⏱️ Timestamps:
0:00 - Introduction
0:20 - Attraction is not a choice
0:55 - Rule #1: Be honest about what you want
1:40 - Rule #2: Give yourself time to get to know them
2:56 - Rule #3: Don't worry about what other people think
4:04 - Attraction is only ONE part of a relationship

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[dominicgervasio]

Attraction can grow. So true. Great advice

[prod.gregupnext]

The girl that i dated once wasn’t attracted to me but she still liked me and stuff it never made sense to me because I thought looks had a big thing to do with it

[ScepticValk]

Hey Josh i just wanted to say that you helped me so much with your videos i really appreciate you thank you for making these videos!!!

[edwardspence]

Thanks to Josh, I made it through high-school. I am immensely grateful.
see ya Playa.

[tatiana]

Hi!! Thank you so much for your video!! I am a little worried about someone I've been talking to, I think we have some things in common, and I think I like him. I have asked him out during vacay, but he refused saying he had to travel with his family on a trip, but he didn't propose alternatives at all (I'm always asking him out and he always says no), I was thinking that he is not really into me, and I'm trying to make sense of this, so I think it's probably my physical appearance. 😣 So your video makes me believe someone someday will not pay attention to that, thank you! 🥺💕

[morganordi]

I'm crushing on a girl and feel like she likes me too but I don't know what to do? I'm scared of been rejected.

[Dancediva]

How much time exactly is "over time"?

[campthechamp]

Hmu bro i wanna exchange info on attracting someone.

[ikehunter]

hey Josh review great video I just want to say I have a girl likes me and I don't like her like that it's like she likes me and she want to date me I don't know what I should do

[jaylencninjaturtlesandbarn]

Hey Josh the girl that I like and I are about to head off to collegeand since we're going to the same college I don't know if we're going to be in the same classes I have her Instagram I'm just in case I can't talk to her on Instagram because of some internet issues I wanted to ask her for her number how do you think I go by asking for her number by DM?