How to Deal with Disappointment

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Quotables: "Everything that has made humanity great came from setting high standards and having high visions for ourselves. There is nothing wrong with expecting a lot of ourselves. Having a learning mindset prevents you from being disappointed." - @BrendonBurchard

This is Brendon filmed in a single take and unscripted, just ranting about life and high performance without notes or a prompter.

Brendon Burchard is a #1 New York Times bestselling author whose books include THE CHARGE, THE MILLIONAIRE MESSENGER, and LIFE'S GOLDEN TICKET. Larry King named him "one of the top motivation and marketing trainers in the world."

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I can feel the positive energy emanating from this guy.I was feeling upset sad 5 minutes ago, but now I feel invigorated!

Jamsome
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I was so excited about something but I couldn’t do that thing and I’m SO DISAPPOINTED

rwrukpu
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Its either I WIN OR I LEARN. No space for dissapointment. Noted Brendon!

afieyuliana
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Disappointment was a big thing for me. Whatever I did, my parents thought I could do better and I always felt I didn't perform well enough. I held a burden to not let people down in any way and when I did... It killed me! It fueled rage, depression and... well this is all gone now and these tests of life are now just testimonies...

Nobody needs to be disappointed. The only person you can disappoint is yourself if you allow it. Other people may not like your result for whatever you do only for a bit, but youre the one that holds on to that seed of negativity that grows into self destruction.

Stjohn
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I always feel like I'm disappointing someone, especially my parents, I have such pressure to do good and make people proud. I haven't made people proud in a long time, I especially haven't made myself proud.. I want to be a good, I want to be great, I want to know how it feels to put a big giant "I'm so fucking proud of you smile" on someone's face, I don't want them to make me feel guilty anymore, I feel guilty and disappointed a lot and It makes me sad. I just want to make someone so proud one day, and I'm there trying and trying to be great, I want to inspire. I did something 2 years ago that was terrible and it really disappointed my parents and me, it made me feel extremely angry and sad, I wasn't me, I was disturbed, I just kept thinking of how much I disappointed the people around me and it made me cry a lot, especially at night, when I'm going to sleep because that's when I can cry all I want when no one can hear or see me. I wrote down what happened and how much I had disappointed my family. But a year later after the incident I had gotten better and tried again, I still feel like I need to be better and better, everyday I feel like I need to prove something, like I need to be amazing. I want to make them unbelievably proud, I want them to be shocked in a good way. I don't want to be a disappointment anymore...

dixienormous
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We should except a lot for ourselves, understanding that nothing will be perfect and accepting reality as they are.

PortoBelo
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I've been disappointed so many times before and I thought it was because I wasn't good enough, but now I feel confident whenever I'm disappointed! Like, how?! ❤

lovebirdwillingten
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Thank you Brendon. Since last night I have been feeling disappointed with myself as I asked my partner for some work at his restaurant and his response was you don't do anything. It made me feel undervalued and worthless. But now after watching this video I have a better outlook. I need to show him that I can do everything! Thanks x

ThePurps
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Didn't get the job I thought I wanted. Working in a job that doesn't make me want to 'jump' out of bed in the morning.  Checked out your video yesterday. So,  I reset my thoughts to a 'learning mindset'. Remembering that the Universe rewards action- I woke up this morning with lots of  ideas and new outlook. Ordered your book today. Thank you so much.

patriciamoore
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I was so happy to create this project but the grade I got wasn't what I expected. I keep telling myself that I did the project for myself and not because it's a requirement.

ellap.
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Besides all his good advice you can feel that Brandon is giving you such a great energy. This guy is pure gold ! ❤️💪🏼

costin_ilie
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I subscribed before I listened . Something about his face and smile and don’t regret . Thank you 🙏🏾

lisettenlj
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What if I’m disappointed by everything, all the time? Experiences that should make me feel good just don’t anymore, and the bad ones are easy to absorb.

bunsenn
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When you give everything you can to someone day in and day out to hear the words of rejection is Disappointment and heart wrenching.

ilovejclove
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Thanks so much Brendon for this video. What a coincidence you put this video up a few days before the day where my group and I will present our project. I know that if I have a "learning" mindset and anticipate the lessons I will learn, I will not feel disappointment whether if the project is not done or if the project is not how I want it to be. You don't know how many times me and other people dealt with what I would like to call this "disappointment" curse. I'm grateful for seeing this video

TrinJeto
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Omg when you gave the example of a woman being told her expectations are too high and people telling her to lower her standards, I instantly had a flash of my entire life. I've been told practically since high school that my expectations are too high for my self and my life in every area, money, career, friendships, love and romance, and that I need to lower my standards. I've been told over and over to lower my standards until I actually believed it. As a woman it was so encouraging just now to hear you restate what I've believed in my heart to be true all along, that I don't need to lower my standards, that I just need to figure out a different way to get my needs met and my deepest desires fulfilled while keeping my standards just as high as they are now. Thanks so much for this message!

AzizaBrowne
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Thanks a lot that really helped!!!

1\ There is nothing wrong with me having high expectations about my self !
2\It is all about trying & doing my best ("perfection" is a legendary word) 
(perfection is NOT a goal to approach)..
& that is exactly what i needed to believe in .. 
3\It is all about learning and being excited, optimistic and positive about what you are doing :D
 best of luck sir !  

bebesq
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once you show that you are great at understanding life, people with ask you all kinds of questions, because we kind of believe that you know almost everything. it is really a complement.

danafurumori
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When i was born, my parents said oh look what we have here
a disappointment.

IDMYM
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I learned to take away my pride and to strengthen my faith in God's mighty plans. Thank you for this video and for helping me validate that finding light in a dark tunnel and shifting disappointment into life appreciation can indeed be easily done with the proper mind set. Thank you, Brendon! ❤️

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