reflections on moving out of my parent’s house

I moved out of my parents house about a month ago and these are my initial thoughts!
Let me know if y'all want another video on the biggest lessons I've learned so far.

[anewno]

People who have great parents get the sources to move out while people who have toxic parent is stuck with low income and can’t move out because of parents forcing them with guilt trip. moving out means finding peace and happiness for those who grew up with toxic people, having no negative energy around you is peace. Being safe is a blessing.

[lamiahbt]

I m moving out soon, I m afraid of being alone, no roommates, no friends, no family, new palce, new journey, I am feeling like starting an other life and leaving my old one. As a girl, who is related to fam and friends, this step gives me feeling of loneliness and fear. but as a muslim girl, I always remember that Allah is with me in every step.I feel safe even with all the bad feelings.

[suereenawatkis]

I’m not ready to move out yet but this video was so beneficial for me. You’re clearly a very smart young man and your parents raised you extremely well. I took everything I needed to from this video. Thank you

[NaeemaJannat-oepx]

My mom would kill me if I talk about moving out even at 40😂😂

[amiinatii]

You just said what was in my heart since 2 years now. I'm studying abroad, so I've and am passing through everything you said. It's true ; you miss your old self, family moments and friends .but i learnt the hard way that we have to sabr even if it's difficult and be our own cheerleader and parent, push ourselves and tawakul 3ala allah . Its difficult all by yourself and in a new country especially for a nostalgic girl like me, but i hope it's gonna be all worth it at the end

[Iammoneyman]

Moved out at 18, 22 now. The one thing i wasnt prepared for is how agonizingly lonely it is. Every day when i come home from walmart i just feel like squidward in that white void. Where do i go from here?

[salmanmemon]

Very wise, mature and balanced take. Not everyone can handle it.

[keziahherman]

This is the first video I found, maybe even the first person I’ve heard talk about their experiences moving out and growing up, that feels the same way I do. It’s overwhelming and scary, There are a lot of emotions that I don’t even know that I’m feeling. It’s the first time I’ve ever felt so lost because I was a person who was perceived as driven and diligent and self-reliant, but now I’m starting to realize that even if my parents or teachers or peers weren’t pressuring me, I still was motivated by wanting to impress them. Now that I’m doing things by myself, for myself, I realize I may not have actually been so “self”-driven

[niehsasimon]

I want to move out as well. I love my family and I enjoy spending time with them and the thought of being separated from them for just a week is heartbreaking to me. This is the reason why I know that I got to move out because I am dependent on them, but I want to learn real life, I am building discipline. I know that I am going to miss them so very much and it is heartbreaking. However, this is a decision that I have to make for myself in order to function as a normal adult in the real world.

[maryamabdul-nasir]

The family part...
A year ago I was so excited about moving out because of the errands and yelling and chores. But now I want them all back. I wish I could see my parents and hug them so tight
🥲

[EthanVGaming]

I have the greatest mom in the world and I love being with her, but It would be nice to move out when im young and still live near by, just wanna have that experience with being alone in my own house/apartment, but even if I can't move out when I turn 18 or whenever, I dont care cause living with my mom will always be great and she is so supportive!

[hyunwoopae]

This was very relatable to me and made me realize even more how important family really is. They are the only people who truly care for you. I think moving away was good, only for the fact that it made me more independent and develop skills that would eventually help me and them, and also to appreciate them for all that they've done. I was living with a older person (mentor) who convinced me that my parents were narcissistic and evil, but in reality he was speaking from his own particular experience and was even financially using me and my parents money for his own gain in another state. Still having trouble accepting this right now.

[PassiveEarnings]

You got this! accountability for yourself was a big learning curve for me too!
Good Luck brother!

[randomtv]

Great advice brother. It's very important to set some rules to yourself, It will really help you stop wasting time. I used to waste a lot of time watching YouTube videos but once I started this new productivity system, it changed alot of things.

[lolaxd]

I have 16 and i completely agree with everything that you said, parents are a really important pillar for our mental health, they used to put pressure on me, as a dumb teenager, i got mad at it, but, now that them gave me a little a more freedom, i strongly feel how my discipline, my grades, everything, went downhill, luckily i recovered (guess thanks to who)
All of this freedom that they gave help me understand the importance of their presence.
Love the vid, cheers and good luck with this new life
(used google traductor btw)

[mss_djiboutiful]

“Also everyone loves a guy who cooks..” ✨

[altruex]

Respects to how humble and open you are to talk about your family in such a respectful way and grateful for them. It's not something you see a lot in many youngsters these days who have no respect. So thanks for sharing!

[vlogsbyrow]

Sometimes it doesn’t even take moving out to realize you’ve botched your own habits and mindset, it just takes a major change. I started college a little over a year ago (still live with my parents) and developed a severe case of depression. No one was there to motivate me or tell me that I needed to do XYZ, so I started falling into terrible habits. Alhamdulillah things have gotten slightly better, but that learning curve is steep. Maybe my case was a little severe, but it’s a classic “I was spoiled and now I don’t know how to take care of myself” case. I wish things could be easier, but sabr is being developed. I just want to take a deep breath and let it out.

[elbarbryf]

We love you habibi and we are always very proud of you ❤❤

[T.C]

🥰🥰. Absolutely love this as a mother.God bless the family that raised such an insightful and wise young man❤