How to make yourself immune to love bombing

Put up strong boundaries #narcissistic #narcissist #narcissism

[Corina-dqmy]

Yes. People with NPD or other cluster b disorders tend to not have healthy boundaries themselves. They rush intimacy. They rush the relationship. I don't mean physical intimacy, I mean emotional intimacy. They rush the relationship. Like it's more progressed than it actually is or should be, given the reality of the courtship. Run.

[c.h.r.i.s.t.i.n]

The best way to get rid of a narc is to have boundaries. The best thing your boundaries will do is save you from a life of hell.

[johnnyjames]

I found myself with a pressurer. I had the novel idea of telling them that I was extremely claustrophobic from some vague ptsd. Lol. From there on out it was ridiculous to see them work to break thru anyway. I'm not claustrophobic at all. So it was really funny to watch how they worked to bull thru it. I had plenty of time to wait, watch and see them make their pushy push for their demanded on demand closeness. Theu wanted control and they tried to off balance me by coming on quick and heavy..just too offset me. They were actually working to use it as an off balancing tool..they weren't that attracted to me. They were purposefully trying to use pushy lynch loving to offset my calm quiet unrattled.Self

[FSantiago-kvzt]

TRUE. Currently, I have a few Women hitting on me (not that I'm a prize) and suspect they're narcissist. Most of the time, I'm correct. Read the red flags my Friends. 🙏

[taraQcoo]

Yes you are absolutely right… I kept telling him to live and he would not 9yrs. Later I’m working through a trauma bond😮

[Paul-rfxs]

Can sex be lovebombing? As a guy I can say from my own personal experience that it is really difficult to say "slow down" when my body is physiologically saying yes and often times at the point of no return. I could be wrong on this but my belief is that women have way more control in that area. Not to mention that during this i will be gettinga huge hit of dopamine and she knows that. I tell ya with the few women that I've been with. I felt like I was being taken off to their spider web. Not during of course but long after when I was able to think again.

[JacobCarlson-uqmy]

Wait, so people who fall in love easily or fast/ quickly are narcissists?