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Actress Millie Bobby Brown has a polarizing but effortless charm that has made her incredibly popular. So in today’s video, we’ll break down 8 habits you can steal from Millie that will help you immediately make people like you.

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0:00 - Intro
0:10 - #1: The magnetic effect of having fun
0:57 - #2: Soften your tease with a laugh
2:17 - #3: Mix in compliments with your teases
3:15 - #4: Use warm platonic touch
3:32 - #5: Make your life relatable to others
5:30 - #6: Give expansive answers
6:34 - #7: Turn the conversation back on the other person
7:30 - #8: Be a likeable listener

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[junejunejuniejune]

I'm really surprised you've never done a video on Dolly Parton. Shes absolutely magnetic, tactful, and makes everyone around her feel wonderful. Her energy is genuinely beautiful.

[adriannelson]

Hope this helps:
1. Magnetic effect of having fun
2. Soften your tease with a laugh
3. Mix in compliments with your teases
4. Use warm platonic touch
5. Make your life relatable to others
6. Give expansive answers
7. Turn the conversation back on the other person
8. Be a likeable listener.

Also, read 'How to Win Friends and Influence People' by Dale Carnegie. It's good.

[efi]

I found that a way to make people let their guards down is by talking about those things that we usually try to hide. When you confess to those embarrassing yet universal experiences, you can really see the relief coming out of people, and it’s really likely they’ll confess back.
It is important, however, to keep in mind who you are talking to, the context, and how you deliver it

[SuzDn]

I am on the Autism spectrum. Thank you *so* much for this entire channel and taking the time to break down the social rules which have never come naturally to me at all. I think a lot of autistic people will feel the same. I would watch the hell out of playlist on what normal social interactions are meant to look like!

[syberyah]

Honestly, I feel like most of this can be summarized as just "agree, expand, and make people feel important." Agree with what they say and expand on their thoughts, but also expand on *your* answers during small talk. Make people feel important by listening well, complimenting them, laughing at their jokes, etc. :)

[PsychologyRefresh]

These are some tips from us:
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Practice good personal hygiene
- Smile a lot
- Display open body language
- Listen to the other person
- Ask questions
- Give a compliment
- Ask them for help

[SnakeyBlakey]

All I ever hear people say about Millie is how annoying she is and how they can't stand her.

[salmanuel]

Seeing how she responded to Noah's surprise visit matches what some fans have said after encounters with Millie.

[Introvertedalpha]

Love the advice about the magnetic effect of having fun! Thanks for this video.

[AnovaNina]

Interesting. Watching this video, although I found myself agreeing all tricks in theory, I don't feel her likeable (or charming), instead I feel a bit uncomfortable during some clips. This is also the only one time I have different view about characters demonstrated by this channel. Then I asked myself why I feel this way.
Surely, I don't have definitive answers. But maybe, just maybe, tricks are only one part of equation. There is something deeper in someone's personality or character at work.

[fendershredder]

I’m not really socially challenged, but I’m always trying to improve myself and this channel has taught me so much and, in my opinion, made me a better friend and a better man. It gives me the tools I need to be and stay confident in situations I may not be familiar with. If you’re watching this channel, congrats on trying to be a better you!!

[AnymMusic]

let's also not forget that she's British and that British humor is often more sarcasm based which can indeed be seen as mean by others

[djtdawg]

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

[TheOscar]

Honestly, it would be more appropriate if this were a “habits that make people dislike you” video

[ErisWriter]

I need to see a video on Adam Driver. He seems to defy every good social rule but is still generally considered charismatic. I thought maybe it had to do with being attracted to him but even straight males love him.

[NathalieLazo]

This message is for someone who needs to hear this and will fully understand it... You are not define by your circumstance or your past. It’s not what happened to you that determines your success in life; it is how you deal with those circumstances that determines your success in life. You are strong, you are capable and practice forgiveness (Forgiveness is for you; forgive your parents or anyone whom we have chosen to hurt us, to begin the process of healing and freedom. Remember: Forgiveness is for you to be freed, healed and happy. It’s a RESET BUTTON) and practice gratitude everyday. This will change the course of your life forever. Love you always and I believe in you wholeheartedly no matter what ✨❤️ - Nat

[dr.jenniferma]

Interesting. Although I agree with your advice, I find that the clips of her were "off" and didn't land well. Maybe she isn't the best example? The whole catering thing didn't land at all.

[jenniferbyers]

For some reason MBB just really annoys me in recent years. I am not sure it’s the overly mature / sexual styling or all the negative anecdotes I’ve read online - it’s all pointing towards her becoming a Kardashian real soon. I think Sadie Sink is the lovely one.

[JamesYeang]

I love these videos. For me, the best way to use them is to listen to a point, pause practice one example, before moving on to the next point

[PrimalEdge]

of all the people in hollywood that you could have leveraged skills from to help make people "instantly like you" she si without a doubt down towards the bottom. there are no shortage of videos showing her as rude, arrogant, and an attention hog. look at the way she disrespects her costars. she is insufferable t best. I love your channel and watch everything you put out - for me, regrettably, this one missed the mark.