Why You Should Stay Single

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0:00 - Intro
1:03 - Dating is a struggle if you're not high value
4:35 - Going monk-mode feels good
6:40 - The Dating Apps Weaken and Distract You
12:14 - Cement Your Philosophy on Dating

[TeKnqe]

If I could do anything over, it would be through late teens and 20’s to focus on me and build myself instead of exhausting so much energy on chasing women.

[KamreiTaylor]

Benefits of staying single:

- Save money
- Invest more time in yourself
- You increase your value by developing skills
> Less distractions from your life purpose, you make more progress
> Monk mode specifically allows you to know yourself, and really connect with yourself

[juanthebaptist]

Definitely in a period of monk mode right now. I would be lying if I said part of me wasn't growing to meet the woman of my dreams. I want commitment. I want a family. I also want to follow my dreams of making music which has been fun to learn lately. Also realizing my physical capabilities. I appreciate your videos Captain.

[BRBallin]

Never had a girlfriend and I’m 27. I would say I’ve worked on myself well enough to put myself into a good spot. Don’t fall for the peer pressure and work on yourself first

[pitty]

Two weeks ago me and my girlfriend made the mutual decision to break up and start prioritizing ourselves more. It's painful to drift apart from her but it's also been extremely rewarding to see my own growth since then. It's crazy how when you're in a relationship you don't even notice yourself slipping. Goals I once had hardly mattered to me anymore and now that I'm single I realize how much I've neglected myself. I even vowed not to let a relationship consume me or overtake my individuality, and yet it still did over time. This video really resonates with me damn.

[Philipp_-cpxw]

If a relationship is distracting you from your actual goals then stay single, if your relationship is actually supporting you do achieve that goal stay in that relationship.

[rashadhouston]

I find the most peace in solitude. I can deactivate social media and disappear with ease. I spend several hours out in nature working on my body and mind daily. I find myself to be very calm, especially after years of rage. I know my purpose, and I’m patient with myself. Do I crave some physical contact? Think about a certain Someone every day? Yes. But my healing is too vital and I refuse to let my pain hurt others anymore. I’ve come too far and have to keep going. Everything will fall into place. Phenomenal video, thank you. Bless up. 🤲🏽✨

[AscendedMasculine]

Well Done

The apps are a necessary evil for many men and thats why learning social skills puts you, LEAGUES, above most other men

[leavonfletcher]

Even as a married man, this video had a lot of value. I am finding that you have to keep your looks, keep grinding and progressing in order to let her know there is no option better than you. It is great for your self esteem.

[IffyEdem]

In my observation, dating is synonymous with going a date or hanging out, while courting is what I see as more serious version of dating. Dating should be with a long term goal and purpose. If not, then just explore what you like in someone and take women on dates(simple dates like coffee or boba with a walk at the park). There is no reason though to keep someone as a girlfriend if she isn’t a person you want as the mother of your children.

[AndrewWYT]

“Solitude and focus will get you where you want a lot faster” I love this as intimacy might be an innate need, but focusing on your own growth first instead of finding women as the main goal, you’ll be a lot more fulfilled

[jcnlaw]

Seasoned divorce lawyer here. Great video! it is much better to be single than to wish you were. Stay single! Focus like a laser on becoming the very best version of yourself. The most beautiful, fun, playful, fit women will find you. Stay safe out there!

[bencancio]

Back in the day a girl would bug the hell out of you just to get your attention. This is before social media. She'd call you nonstop and just hang out with you just to hang out . I was broke back then . And it was fun and good . These girls would have really conversations. I miss those days

[krylite]

This video was perfect timing. I started talking to this girl that liked me just because I was lonely and it’s been so frustrating because I’m not in the best mental state. I need to get my life together and increase my value and not lower my standards just because I feel alone. Thank you for the insight.

[IamjustBruh]

Maybe I don’t have much value since I am in a relationship of almost 2 years, but I will say if you and your potential partner share the same mindset and life goals, that’s a massive win. As much as I like to hangout with my girl, I still give myself time to read, write, and focus on fitness. Your partner needs to be an asset not a liability.

[rockyp]

"To rush in the waiting arms of the first person is not love but insecurity"

Robert Greene
The art of seduction.

This phrase just stuck with me

[mitthrawnuruodo]

There’s so much value in being alone. Focusing on yourself, not wasting time on things that don’t improve your life, etc, . Sadly these things aren’t valued as much as they should in todays society.

[samanddonkey]

5:37 this hits home for me. 10 year relationship with my high school girl ended recently. Now I’m 26 and I’m nowhere near where I want to be in life due to that complacency. Being comfortable creates stagnation.

[zainqureshi]

Bro this came at such a good time! I’ve been on my purpose for 2-3 years now, and building a skill sets around my career, and decided not to date. It is lonely but I’ve had so much growth in recent months but I was doubting my decision to stay single. Recently stopped stroking it watching dirty websites and that has also increased the urge to meet women. Your videos put lots of that into perspective for me to channel that energy 🙏🏽 Love the content man

[MeJustMe]

For me, I prefer to be single because I like being alone. The quietness is just amazing for me.