Are They Really Into You Or Are They Just Love Bombing?

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In today's video, Thais Gibson explains the difference between lovebombing or whether somebody is really into you. Watch now to learn what lovebombing is, the 3 red flags to look out for and how a securely attached person handles the dating scene as Thais provides useful tips and guidance.
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00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:01 - How You Know You’re Being Love-Bombed
00:01:30 - Narcissistic Personality Disorder
00:02:39 - Devaluation
00:03:45 - 3 Red Flags
00:04:18 - Red Flag #1: Expectations
00:06:48 - Red Flag #2: Communication
00:08:20 - Red Flag #3: Boundaries
00:10:05 - 7 Day Free Trial
00:10:56 - 4 Things Securely Attached People Do While Dating
00:12:41 - Conclusion

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[andypsa]

I was love bombed and I believed all of it. The devaluation that followed sent me into 15 years of relational exile. My feeling is that love bombing is when someone is in love with the idea of you and how they think their life will be enriched by you. It's completely self centered, and when it's not going as planned which it never does, they abort the relationship and ditch you. Brutal! Beware of narcs and borderlines. You can't fix them, but you can fix yourself so that you don't fall for it twice.

[quietmind]

Love bombing tricks the mind and heart into believing what a person potentially can be -will be. Then the discard causes a trauma bond.

[Michelle-qqsd]

1. Are they projecting onto you or seeing you? Say I feel you see me as —— but I am actually — Reality check.
2. Can they work through issues and communicate? Vet. Can they admit fault? Narcissist cannot admit fault.

3. Does this person respect your boundaries? Person wants you to feel seen and hear and supports your boundaries or do they get angry?

Secures
1. Know what they want.
2. Vet. Ask questions.
3. Communicate needs early on.
4. Work through differences.

[theluxculturellm]

I definitely am a secure attachment, I literally did all 4! However, I didn’t get the way I would vet someone now. I did get love bombed and I understood that my partner was moving fast. He’s not a narcissist, he lived in his own fantasy world… I got it now… my vetting process will be very detailed moving forward.

[Sifu_Black]

This is a very good topic. It's a more in depth version of what I learned in college which was essentially dealing with women from a LOGICAL standpoint instead of an EGOTISTICAL standpoint. I remember learning that when a woman strokes your ego, ask why she's doing it instead of simply believing what she's saying.

The example they used was if a woman said, "you're the se*iest man in the world, " most men would respond with their ego and say to themselves, "wow, she must really think I'm the se*iest man in the world!" However under the same circumstance, the person using their logic would ask, "why is she stroking my ego like this?" Obviously context is key here, but it appears this concept is making a comeback with terms like "love bombing."

All that said, I can't count the number of women I've gone out with that EXPECT me to start love bombing them after a few dates. Even my ex told me after a few dates that she wasn't sure about me because I wasn't love bombing her with good morning texts and constant attention (she was AP). I remember thinking to myself, "I didn't even know you yet!" Unfortunately many people fall for this and I'll just say again, I'm glad many of these concepts I learned 20 years ago are making a comeback in discussion (albeit with new terminology).

[Adakataba]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[ScottH]

Is intense making out very early on a sign of love bombing? I had a very intense makeout session with someone on a 3rd date and then again on the 4th date and beyond and it got me very excited for her. I've never had a makeout session that intense before. She seemed so excited and intense for me so early on and then around the 3 month mark, I was discarded when she said that she wasn't ready for a serious relationship and refused to work on things. Said she was overwhelmed by things moving too fast. I'd say she was the one setting the pace.

[sharnamajor]

Does DA love bombing look similar? I'm trying to figure out if I was love bombed or if it was real. Because everything you said that's love bombing, he did, but was also very capable of deeper connection and got to know ME.

[danzed]

What stood put for me, ... reluctantly admiting was loved bombed by a DA... .... narc, I'm sorry not throwing that around. Though could be interpreted as sabotaging... " benefit of a doubt given to this DA"... as an FA trust me I know looking back I have thrown chaos in the mix! Sorry! . I feel this should be red it post ! So will.close it also care a lot howntheir 2-3 people they have a close nit with play out the DA'S internal world. So what does that mean? Almost as flying monkeys ! But wait the difference is that they were summond before the break up not

[MariyamMishka-ixgs]

Is it a red flag that I hope the guy I like is more religious and stops wanting sexual things before marriage, cause it's haram for Muslims?. I want him to be religious 'cause it is better for both of us, especially if we commit and want a family.

[lorderectus]

Best not to be in relationshit, your honesty with a female will never be seen as simply that! You will always been seen as someone who wants something! Being real is never enough for any woman. Even if your are being real!