The Rare INTJ Female and Her Personality Traits

intj female rare - intj female struggles.
why are female intj's so rare? female intj interview.

this video is about the intj female and also about how the entp + intj relationship will play out.

staying away from making emotional decisions and being a strong advocate of logic it might be a little hard for an intj female to fit in among others.

extremely career-oriented independent and confident the intj female can get a little too caught up with the independence she earns and overwork or exhaust herself...

the truth is that intj's are a jumble of contradictory characteristics..

but the intj female is thought to be even rarer comprising only 0.

#intjfemale #intjwoman #INTJ #intjpersonality #intjthoughts

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[canislupus]

INTJ female here, and yes, this is me to a T. Live alone (my decision), crazy independent, never wanted kids, and I love my 🐈 🐱.

[Melaniekaye]

I’m an INTJ, & all the points said describe me besides being motherly. I didn’t care about relationships & marriage, but I always did want to be a mom. They are my number 1 priority; however, I’m not the overly emotional mother. I just guide them through life on logic, education, harmony, enjoy life, & rationality - & most of all, to be independent. I’m so proud of them too. Very good kids who follow their dreams while making organized & executed planned out goals to make it happen.

[spoonbendingspacemonkey]

I would like to add: We rarely forgive. We never forget. 🖤

[sophiewalsh]

I am an intj but I really disagree with a lot of the ideas ppl have about femininity and intj. INTJ is obviously very logical and intelligent, and being feminine is widely viewed as a frivolous pursuit, but the fact is, people only believe that because our overall misogynistic society has gone to great lengths to make femininity seem frivolous as opposed to masculinity which is “serious” and “important”. The truth is, Femininity is not frivolous, you are just misogynist. Of course INTJ can be interested in being feminine. I hate how people keep describing INTJ women as if they’re NLOG’s or pick me’s. It’s extremely annoying. Gender expression is actually really interesting and something a person can delve very deep into, so how on earth could feminine expression be frivolous??? Everyone expresses gender in some way. Expressing it femininely does not make you stupid or less than anyone else

[linasimmons]

I feel at home listening to this video, and reading all this excited comments, it feels good to know I’m not alone out here, one thing i have to say is that we learn from earlier on to be independent, so nobody can bullshit us!
To all the INTJ women here you rock, we are awesome!❤️

[madmarlowe]

It's exhausting being called a robot with no emotions, even by family members.

[yjbxmdl]

An INTJ woman from Korea. Been wondering why I hesitate so much to have a child and rather love a dog, and it is precisely mentioned in the video how this type is. Living in Asia as an INTJ woman, I don't want to carry the traditional role of sacrificing mother, serving wife and daughter in law. Most men I dated always came back after the breakup because I do pour out absolute attendtion and care while in a relationship. But when I decide the relationship is over, I never revoke the decision and move on. So it is often the case when they miss me, I don't. Men just need to be loyal and do their best while I allow them. I'm very bad at socialization and I'm seeking to be a developer so I don't have to deal with many people emotionally.

[amethyst_moon]

This fits me so well. Unfortunately, I don’t have any close friends or family that understand my need to be alone a lot of the time. I often find myself avoiding some of them because I know they’re gonna tell me that I should be spending all my time talking and hanging out with them.
A lot people need a lot of human interaction to feel complete, so they find it hard to understand why INTJs just don’t.

[DReed]

“She’d rather be alone than in a restricting relationship.” That’s quite a number of personalities. If you’re not together in life and understanding of one another, doing everything through love, you’ll feel restricted and more inclined to being alone. This isn’t just INTJ.

[jaclynpassaro]

I'm INTJ...& I disagree on the feminine thing...I've ALWAYS loved makeup, and shoes! I definitely agree with the pets over kids thing, and I DO put people through tests to weed out people I do not want in my life. I am very loyal in friendship!

[thebowandbullet]

The only part I disagree with is looking for a partner who's superior to me. Other than this not exactly making sense (you can't quantify human value), I think INTJs, like most people, want an equal. What may be more unique to INTJs is wanting an especially intelligent partner they can learn from and who accepts them for who they are. INTJs are not always easy to live with.

[amandasmith]

I am an Intj and this is me absolutely. Every detail. Wow

[BombshElle_]

I appreciate this video. Not too many ppl understand female INTJs. But a few things triggered me:
"Not interested in being feminine." We get our hair done and like to look pretty like any woman.
"Needs to know she's the best." We already know.
"Leads from the back." Depends. If leadership is completely incompetent, I'll take over or leave.
"She's engrossed in her electricity project." We have an artistic side, too!
"Dark humor used to weed out time-wasters." We share our humor with those we those we like.
"Doesn't have a maternal bone in her." That’s just insulting. There are plenty of great INTJ moms.
This makes us sound like we're all non-binary rude nerds that quietly manipulate and offend people with twisted humor. That may sum up the stereotypical 20-something year old, but DEFINITELY NOT a 30+ INTJ female.

[MommyDontSeeMe]

Odd- I loved school, but I never 'had' to get the best grades. I just usually was following my own interests. It used to make me laugh that other people would know if I made a 97/100 on a test and they got 98/100. It never hit me that THEY were competing. I just thought that we both understood the material.

[arshiakermani]

You can't imagine how good we are
No matter female or male
We can rule the world

[briannamorrison]

Every time I take the test, I get INTJ. But when I listen to the description of the INFJ, I can also relate a lot to that personality type as well. It's like I'm riding some fine line between both. I know people will say that's not possible, but how else do you explain it?

[aliceverde]

I like being alone, am independent, intuitive, perfectionist, likes to plan ahead, focus on what am doing, patient, never give up easily, empathetic, loves nature and sort of artistic, write poems and like music. thank you for your content. I appreciated it.
expecting more infos about INTJ personality. Regards.

[salmabak]

I literally got goosebumps, everything that was said was true i felt like he was describing me. It's crazy because it kind of made me feel comforted somehow, knowing that there are other girls like me, i have never met someone who resembles me before. To other ppl i always looked emotionless and weird bc I've never shared those thoughts of wanting to date/get married, have children and build a family of my own instead i always talked about living alone, being successful and having so many pets . I'm glad other girls like me exist, I hope to meet one someday I think the conversation that we would have would be so interesting.

[junepassingthrouthegate]

The thing about authority is sooo accurate. I really don't respect people labelled "authority" when they are extremely unprofessional, incompetent, and oppressive. And I have told at least 5 people in my life this, including a college professor...it was not the best thing to do I guess, but 6 years gave passed, and I still stand by what I think about her. I can always tell how much of a phony individual someone is as well, and don't really like to be touched by strangers (i.e. hugs).

Thanks for the video.

[anitasherwin]

Fits me. I did decide to become a mother and love my children but being "motherly" was difficult. Wouldn't change it for the world but it would have been nice to know why it seemed more difficult than other mother's. This also explains why I really don't have friends and have been called cold hearted, stuckup and hard to get to know for my whole life. I guess it's hard for others to understand me just like I have a hard time understanding people who act solely on emotions and feelings. Glad I'm not alone.