What you DONT know about the Jonah Hill Emotional Abuse Allegations

In this reaction video, Adam Lane Smith, renowned Attachment Specialist, delves into the recent controversy surrounding actor Jonah Hill and his ex-partner's allegations of emotional abuse. Smith offers a unique perspective, examining the situation through the lens of attachment theory.

The video begins with a comprehensive overview of the scandal, providing viewers with the necessary context. Smith then transitions into a discussion about the importance of clear and defined boundaries in any relationship, using Hill's situation as a case study.

He explores the potential implications of refusing to establish these boundaries, and how this refusal could contribute to feelings of emotional distress. Smith also sheds light on the complexities of emotional abuse, highlighting how it can sometimes be misunderstood or misrepresented in the public sphere.

Throughout the video, Smith incorporates his extensive knowledge of attachment theory to provide a nuanced understanding of the situation. He offers practical advice for viewers on how to establish and maintain healthy boundaries in their own relationships, and how to navigate situations where these boundaries are not respected.

Whether you're interested in celebrity news, psychology, or improving your own relationships, this video offers a unique and valuable perspective. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the Jonah Hill scandal and learn more about the importance of emotional boundaries in relationships.

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[dilly]

Men having any expectations or boundaries for women is now considered abuse

[eloiselovesdevi]

Narcissistic people are really good at playing the victim when they are actually the perpetrators. And the sad part is that they believe they are right! Good for Jonah for not putting up with it.

[MrBluess]

I have seen some narcissistic abuse coaches calling jonah an abuser. When I saw that list of expectations I though he was a but insecure, but he was direct and honest with what he wanted. She had the choice to decide if she wanted to leave. In my opinion she is not a victim. She clearly in my opinion is bitter and wants to hurt him, she is doing it in the spirit of her being abused. This is dangerous and also an injustice to the men and woman who are truly being abused. Thank you for making this video

[geirmagneolsen]

I think he messed up in choosing a partner as well. He chose someone who had a habit that would violate his boundary. And then not addressing this early in the relationship.

If something came up that he felt uncomfortable about then he can bring it up after that happens a little bit into the relationship. But when one of her core habits (and also one of the reasons he found her) is bothering him, then he needs to mention this in the first few interactions.

Although getting into a relationship hoping the other person will change is maybe not the best strategy.

[onward-fpfz]

Great video and points. I also thought of the possibility that he may have addressed these boundaries beforehand. Hard to know for sure as we're only getting a snippet of the relationship

[masonmitchell]

I think he stated his needs eloquently and very fairly. Every person has the right to bring up their personal boundaries at any point! I see nothing wrong with anything he said or how he said it. There was nothing abusive about what he said. I think the way he stated his needs was very respectful!

[starstoryteller]

I balled my eyes out about setting boundaries. I did it too late in a marriage but it really hurt.

[arya]

Absolutely support Jonah! What a great analysis, Adam!

[honeyfurfarm]

I think he just chose the wrong person to be with from the get go. Trying to change a person into what you want is never going to work.

[PeteMD]

Honestly it sounds like Jonah wrote his message with a therapist in the room encouraging him to set healthy boundaries. The message is so measured and balanced

[christieraper]

I think Jonah sounds a little insecure but we don't know what has happened in the relationship. Also he was very respectful in the way he stated his boundaries. I think she has a right to say no and they just maybe aren't right for each other but she shouldn't have shared their personal communication to world. That seems a little narcissistic and vengeful.

[yearight]

Boundaries are very important. He didn't do anything wrong. He makes it clear that she has to pick between her current lifestyle or their relationship.

[jjsterling]

She actually did release the text where she agreed to his stated boundaries a few hours later. Which makes it even more odd that she's publicly outing him as emotionally abusive. I guess she has same level of agency and responsibility as a child? Kinda infantilizing to women if you ask me.

[catcat]

I thought I was the only woman who thought it wasn't abuse.

[AndreiTraieste]

In a vacuum it’s all fine and reasonable. But he pursued a woman whose entire life style bothers him. He probably realized throughout the relationship that he was uncomfortable with her entire career and circle of friends and asked her to make changes to accommodate him (like deleting some of her public photos). Until they reached a point where she couldnt change her life style anymore to accommodate his insecurities. Plenty of men date surfers, models, women with this types of life styles. He was too sensitive about it and she had to change and change and until they decided to part ways. So I can’t blame her for feeling resentful because she had to change and try to compromise only to ultimately fail. It sucks to love someone and try to change for them to ultimately realize that your entire life and personality bother them and you’d have to completely erase your personality to please them. He could have been more aware of his boundaries around his gf having a public image before dating someone like her, or at least try to work on his insecurities. If you’re insecure about your gf looking good or being alone with men, you should look inward too and see where that’s coming from.

[theguynextdoor]

It's very common among narcissistic individuals to play the victim, start smear campaigns, deflect and point fingers on others. When people try to hold them accountable they tend to find abusive ways to escape that accountability to not lose control. A healthy individual would have addressed these matters privately, and not joined camp pitty play, on the Island of I'm the victim. There's no such thing as unconditional love, but other people have the freedom to comply or not.

[michaelp]

Jonah is an actor and under immense media scrutiny. His text was matter of fact. It sounds like a discussion.

[damowantswealth]

Love your insight, hope ur going well Adam!

[heavenboulevard]

finally some sense on this topic. it's the same as the keke palmer situation. i can't imagine disrespecting my partner by openly seeking attention from other men like that, in real life or on the internet. the insane reactions to both of these situations is why so many modern relationships are failing... you want another person to commit to you, but you want to continue to act like you're single and don't want to limit your behaviour in any way. who would accept that? it's ridiculous.

[Emma-knzn]

Very well said, this is an important video that addresses all the contributers to this "scandal" and Jonah would appreciate it.