I Found Out My Girlfriend Was Married

I Found Out My Girlfriend Was Married

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[Aminah]

Sir, if your girlfriend has a husband she's not your girlfriend. She's her husband's wife and you're her side piece.

[SiGr]

A, she is a liar,
B, she will cheat and Lie to you,
C, get her out of your life, FAST!!

[ufchighlights]

This dude is smart. I think he just got caught up in what the heart wants. Sometimes logic goes out the window

[droptozro]

If I listened correctly, he didn't "found out"--he knew almost immediately upon meeting up with her in person after messaging her online... and went into it anyways.

[dudeorduuude]

With 8 billion people on Earth, there is no need to settle for messy situations.

[joywebster]

To all single people, when someone claims they are " leaving their current spouse" and you will be the new partner, RUN. If they are truly interested they can look you up when they have completed their OLD business. Stop playing side/chick/dude to a married person who has no interest in leaving their current situation, but LIES and gaslights you that it will happen. So make them demonstrate its done. 9/10 the spouse has no clue that their marriage is going anywhere and side person ends up the fool.

[angryox]

Even without the moral concerns, that’s a dangerous spot to be. You do not want a scorned spouse angry at you.

[lorainefleeman]

The caller is actually very wise. He realized even before this call that she will cheat on him, and wants to end it.

[figgityfly]

This guy needs to run. My son’s father(an ex) just got a marrried woman pregnant. She lives with her “estranged” husband and their 16 year old son in the same home. My son’s father is a wealthy man and now this woman got her meal ticket to financially exit her marriage and acquire child support. This woman chased him all year even while he was with other women and told him she couldn’t get pregnant at 42 years old due to endometriosis. He fell for this and made decisions with the wrong head. Please leave married and red flag women alone.

[MartilyRamagado]

GF got herself a Grandpa-Husband and Sidedude-Lover. She didn't play him, she played the old man.

[betty]

I think it’s good that he actually feels bad, it means he is a good human being. You have no idea how much a man that makes You.

[Annie-exge]

"I'm usually running from relationships, self- sabotaging..." she was great as long as she was married. Now she is available for him, he is sabotaging the relationship and running again...

[BillTheConquerer]

This is the kind of therapy men need. Honest. Direct. Supportive. Practical. The caller takes responsibility for choices, but doesn't know how to move forward. I wish more therapists did this with men. We might see a positive change in the internal narratives men carry. Thank you, Dr. John.

[stephenwishburne]

I’ve been a little critical of your approach Dr. John with some of your previous sessions. But the advice you gave here and the treatment you gave this man makes me happy to call you a brother in our effort to decrease suffering in the world! I’m proud of you John!

[annelouise-qzvx]

If you ask the question, "do you have somebody" and the answer is, I do, but it's complicated", the person is NOT AVAILABLE!!! Do not, do not, do not get involved with anyone is not 100% available. If you do, be prepared for heartache. Do not settle for an unhealthy situation.

[wikitaeu]

I truly adore how John listens without judgement.

[ntDR]

Alexander, you are worth more than that, I wish you much love, healing and self forgiveness.

[JeremyS]

he kinda sounds like myself not long ago. its tough to have a healthy relationship, when you've never seen one personally.

[NotGwenNotWalton]

Thank you!! This show really helped me in my inability to forgive myself for my stupid mistakes. I have some letters to write!!

[mwhe]

Yep...if she'll cheat with you, she'll cheat on you. Dude...gain some self-respect.