My personal divorce story at 32 *EMOTIONAL*

I am sharing my personal divorce story at the age of 32 to hopefully inspire those who might be going through something similar.

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#divorce #story #emotional #relationship #marriage #marriageadvice #relationshipadvice #therapy #love #lovemarriage

[VenettaWilliams-qx]

The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized...

[yz]

Sorry to break to you sweetheart (and anyone else who needs to hear this) but your "person" is you 😊

[yz]

I felt that kind of loneliness with my ex too. We weren't married but we lived together. I told him that I would rather feel lonely being single than lonely in a relationship. Like you expect to feel supported in a relationship and I felt like the only one who was trying. I eventually gave up because he stopped showing up emotionally. I moved out into my own place, haven't looked back since and its the best decision I've ever made 😊

[SHE_oasis]

I am 33 now and I know for a fact that if I had married in my 20s, it would have been an absolute failure
I knew nothing about the world, men and relationships
I was very sheltered growing up

[yala-nm]

Excellent video My five years of romantic life came to an end a month ago. Making the decision to break up with someone I love has a big impact on me. Even if it has been in vain, I have done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my life without him. Despite my best efforts to keep my thoughts away from him, I still find myself missing him and thinking about him a lot. I don't know why I am saying this here.

[ErinClayton-xcpf]

Thank you for sharing this! I am going through a divorce at 32 and I needed to hear this. I love my ex dearly after we had been together for 10.5 years but I was feeling lonely in our relationship for the last 2 years. We are still friends and we will forever be connected because we have always understood each other on a level that is hard to find. But I don't think we were meant to build a family together in the end.

So thank you for sharing this.

[AntonioBerger-bj]

Nice video! I just can't believe my Husband left me after 18 years. He doesn't even want to talk to me anymore. I've tried everything possible to get him back, but nothing seems to work and I can’t stop thinking about him. I'm frustrated, i don't see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t. I really miss him and just can't stop thinking about him!

[juliecovert]

Andrea, that was very helpful to watch and hear. I've been waiting to watch it until I had time. I am off for the summer so I have time now:) It really helped me to understand what my son Harrison went through last fall when he broke up with his girlfriend who we all adored and we felt was perfect for him. Thank you for sharing.

[RetzyWilliams]

This woman was NOT ready at all to be a wife. She is like a kid who plays SuperMario, dies once, then throws the controller. Arguing over Soda? Wine? Kitchen? His fault for such a bad pick.

[lemurza]

I mean. It sounds like you never really loved him? You loved the idea of what he could represent to you

[LiesDesires]

Never thought I'd be so invested in this topic, but here I am completely fascinated.

[soraya]

Es increíble cómo nuestra alma o " la parte más sabía de uno" sabe, lo malo es que muchas veces no le prestamos atención y no la obedecemos. I glad you followed your gut. Creo que es así la expresión en inglés " gut" intuition

[MikeyPaper]

From the male perspective this was a real eye opener. This had to be one of the most disgusting videos Ive ever seen. I love how women use emotional buzzword statements like: "we fell out of love" "we grew a part" "I needed to find myself" "I wasnt living my truth" "I needed to complete my journey of self discovery"

Like... what the hell does 9/11 have to do with ANY of this? You're all over the place.

What happened to: "until death to us a part, for better or for worse". Don't these marriage vows mean anything? You left your husband to become a single mom making $50 a day at a yoga studio...? Did you think the grass was going to be greener after leaving your husband?

Jesus christ! What a absolute mess!

[mrs.ogbuagu]

I was so drawn into your story. Your charisma is off the charts woman.

[briang]

Outside influences can affect the way we think. If she liked date multiple people at one time, it's hard to know the value of that individual.

[Alejandraserrallonga]

Andrea, thank you so much for sharing your story, Im finding my self in a similar situation where I dont know to leave or to stay, maybe its my avoidant attachment or my intuition, so I pray to the universe / God to give me clarity, I like that mantra you shared, I will put it into practice for sure, Thanks again! and wishing you a great life with Chris.

[jeremygates]

Thanx for sharing, honestly I feel really bad for your first husband, poor guy never stood a chance

[jopurchase]

So thankful for a perspective where you realise that you are connected and love this person dearly, but also realise you’re not meant to be together in a marriage anymore.❤

[Sadiraaa]

So sweet. I went through a similar heartbreak and had to change my entire life. I took a solo trip to Athens one Winter & met my husband. I’ve never been so happy. Sending you a huge hug!

[milphoenix]

What does it mean to love someone so much and feel so lonely with them, despite being "energetically connected "?
Thank you for sharing your story, and I really appreciate your honesty and vulnerability. I'm just trying to understand what was going on with you...