8 Charts That Will Change The Way You See Dating

TimeCodes:
0:00 Chart #1
2:59 Chart #2
4:28 Chart #3
5:35 Chart #4
6:55 Chart #5&6
8:20 Chart #7
9:12 Chart #8

Sources:
Dataclysm:

What Makes You Click? Mate Preferences in Online Dating:

Speed Dating Study:

IQ and Academic Performance:

Mens Peak:

Same Sex Divorce Rates:

[weezypeezy]

My cope is summed up best by a quote:

“Chase butterflies and you’ll never catch them. Build a garden and then they’ll come. Even if they don’t, you’ll have your garden”

[rood]

Step 1: be attractive
Step 2: don't be unattractive

[JohnnyAllan-vjsj]

I'm 75 and I still haven't peaked

[francobarberis]

Most dudes who are mediocre, know it. Tons of mediocre women think they're hot.

[ColdPotato]

Pro tip. If a girl is interested in you, they'll make it very easy early on. Don't try to 'earn' your way into their heart (aka work your way out of friend zone). Tried this when I was younger and it led to a long term world of pain and heart ache. Girls who were interested in me back then made life easy and were open to me emotionally and physically.

[thekey]

The attractiveness/age correlation statistics hide a phenomena: the MOST attractive men do peak at 37, but the vast majority of men tank in their 30s, putting on a beer belly and losing muscle, which drives the average curve down.

[Hardheartheart]

All my life I was told to focus on my education and become successful in life. Now I've got a shit ton of money but no women. Couldn't be happier.

[Elintasokas]

The chart #4 at 6:40 is actually devastating. If you're working in labor or services, you're actually less attractive than not working at all. Makes you realize why no one wants to work these jobs today. They're less than not appreciated; they're a negative effect on your status as a man.

[nuikaus]

I love how sincerety is so unimportant to women it's probably a turn-off

[ataarono]

as a 27 year old virgin. Out of all my 6 best buddies I grew up with, they are all also absolute virgins +- 2 years my age.
Everyone with their own place to rent, stable job and at least 4 of us are not obese lol.

I can tell what lead to this tho.
-None of us ever gained any visible muscle at all and I wouldnt exactly recommend modeling to anyone either.
-Most of us work in tech, went to school in tech, studied in tech, so > or < 0 female friends or contacts built over the years.
-We never went to drinking parties either.
-We gamed a lot, so even less time spent in public.
I think if I had to actually try avoiding women any harder, I wouldnt know what more I could do heh.

I think clueless type of guys like us only avoided extinction historically because we got carried by arranged marriage honestly.

[Zacharychampion-yynt]

Wow. The timing of me seeing this video couldnt be more perfect, I was with a narcissist for 4 years, and when we stopped seeing each other, i found the love of my life, and because i was trauma bonded, i ended up ruining things but i realized my mistake and did all i could to make sure i got her back.

[Souchirouu]

Your daily reminder that the goal of Dating websites is NOT to find you a partner. Their goal is to MAKE MONEY.
Dating sites actively benefit from pairing you with bad matches so that you stay and pay longer.

[sammygoodnight]

I'm in my 50s now, and looking back I can say that I got WAY more attention from women of all ages in the decade 35-45 than at any other stage of life.

[estycki]

I think what some fail to realize is that while growing up, girls get dating advice (what we should want in a man, and what a man expects us to be) from that larger group of women that only chase that top small group of men, and that screws up our perception of what our goals should be.
Crap from women’s magazines, Disney Princess fantasies, rom coms… only to realize Prince Charming is nowhere to be found.

When I took dating more seriously, loosened my expectations, and asked men what they actually want… they were much easier to please than I thought and some of the best bachelors were hidden gems you wouldn’t consider at first. I realized I was brainwashed.

Women blame pornography for men’s supposed preferences, but truly, men won’t reject your company if you’re good company 😅

[mr.lockwood]

I am 27 and invisible to women. They ignore me completely. If this is what peaking is for me, then I am cooked

[bulhakov]

Interesting fact - when women judge the attractiveness of strangers - the dustribution is very skewed (only 15% of men are judged as better than average) but when they judge men they know from their social circle the distribution becomes normal. So if you're not in that top 15% of attractiveness you're much better off looking for love in your peer group.

[TheTibetyak]

A rancorous divorce definitely stopped my desire for relationship seeking. One of my attractive female colleagues said to me that if I keep dressing the way I do, that I would never find another girl. I commented back, "Thank God, my plan is working."

[chedabu]

Asking women what they want is always a losing strategy

[kenrix]

dude when im at peak at 25 and still invisible its over 💀

[rodterrell]

I peaked at 1 year old, that was my most attractive stage in life!!