A GOOD MAN Doesn't Mean He's The RIGHT MAN For You...

When He's a Nice Guy, But You're Not Really Into Him... In this dating, love, and relationship advice video, I will talk about when he's a nice guy, but you're not really into him. You may meet a nice guy either on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process, and it can happen that you're not really into him. Take heed to this relationship help, and ensure you watch the entire video.

I don't want you to be in a relationship with a guy because he is a nice guy. When he's a nice guy, but you're not really into him, the relationship will be one-sided, and it is not healthy. I want you to enjoy your dating and have a healthy relationship with a man that you are into as much as he is because chances are he can be a good guy but not the right guy for you.

I want you to understand that you can meet a nice guy, but not all the nice guys you meet are the right guys for you. One of the worst dating or relationship mistakes you can make as a woman is being with a great guy, and you're not really into him or whom you don't love genuinely. Be sure to embrace this relationship advice to avoid being in a situation where he's a nice guy, but you're not really into him.

As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.

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I hope you enjoyed my video When He's a Nice Guy but You're Not Really Into Him

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[sheriffmomma]

You explained a dynamic that many women deal with. The “nice” guys may feel safe but many women desire or need more masculine traits. Thank you for this discussion

[zealgod]

It's not easy to reject the "nice" person who is really into you, but resentment will build towards yourself AND the person if you start/continue a relationship with who your really not passionate about! Don't waste your valuable time and their time!

[daniellafloriant]

I'm crying so bad at this This is my situation right now... I'm scared to let go of him because of guilt and fear. I need God to help me...

[FoundElement]

My good guy is masculine. Took him 3 yrs to get me but it happened naturally and even though he’s not perfect, he’s the love of my life. So I’m glad we became friends first .. but he’s FAR FROM FEMININE. .. he’s just a gentlemen. 6yrs later and he still does the small things that means so much like opening doors and giving me massages after work😍🥰

[IanuaDiaboli]

This happened to me twice, two nice guys with no masculine energy. I ended it at the talking stage because I didn’t want to become their mommy/caregiver. Thank you for validating my feelings!

[miyonte-xgjx]

I LITERALLY JUST LEFT A RELATIONSHIP BC OF THIS! I met this guy who was the sweetest guy ever! Gave me anything I wanted, tried to make sure I had everything I needed and more! IT WAS ABSOLUTELY GREAT AT FIRST! Then I started to feel like I just wasn’t that into him… and thought to myself “Girl what is wrong with you”?!?!? I just felt that he wasn’t masculine enough & I am into guys with VERY MASCULINE ENERGY, & he just DID NOT HAVE IT!!! Towards the end of the “relationship” I noticed that he did start to get on my nerves and he could sense it, which DID make him become even more sensitive. To make a long story short- I ended it. I had to bc our energies did not match. But in the end, I felt that it was best for US BOTH.

[carameldarling]

It's incredibly frustrating that the bad guys exude so much masculine energy because it's intoxicating as a woman. It's not that we want bad guys, we want masculine energy. Likewise I'm sure all these men don't want bad bxtches but they can't help being drawn to their mass feminine energy. It's in our nature. I guess we have to filter through people until we find the balance of a good man/woman with enough masculine/feminine energy. But you can really get sidetracked along the way with the toxic types

[xrpmoon]

This is so on point. I've noticed that many women ''settle'' for the nice/good guy who has a good resume maybe to have kids or because they haven't found the right man yet, men do the same. And then they are in loveless relationships for years and years and scared to leave or think its normal. I think this happened a lot more with the older generation because people just stayed together, but these days divorce is acceptable.

[kaec]

I can definitely relate! I met a “nice guy” and attempted to date him and I knew the energy wasn’t there for me. I didn’t want to waste his time so I let him go…it was for the best

[beefaye]

"YOU ARE DOING MORE HARM TO HIM BY HOLDING ON TO HIM"....FACTS 👈💯

[la]

I really appreciate that you speak on women needing to be ATTRACTED to the men we date energetically and physically and not just settle because he has a nice personality. It's really important otherwise the relationship will not last long term. Honestly, everyone SHOULD be nice regardless it's sad that women feel like we have to settle just because bad men are so much more common.

[superqueenize]

This is exactly spot on what I have been going through. I have been waiting for this message for the longest. When you know that person is nice and checks off, but is not loving you the way you want to be loved you have to let it go because your not just hurting yourself but you are also hurting the person you are trying to make it work with…and so I let that person go. I feel extremely bad but regardless of what he could do for me I still wasn’t happy and your happiness is worth a lot.

[Cudagirl]

is 100% on point. I made almost every mistake on the list, and it manifested in exactly the situations that Stephan related. I knew it wasn't right but talked myself into it "logically". In the long run it never works.

The pain it caused was heartbreaking.
If you truly love someone, ( and that includes yourself! ) don't stay out of fear....it just prolongs the inevitable.

I wish I'd heard this straight talk before we married. Stephan, thanks for sharing your wisdom to help others avoid this unnecessary pain.

[LykzLybra]

I’m currently seeing a nice guy who’s a nerd with a hint of thug and I’m crazy about him. He’s not lacking in masculine energy at all.

[JAkk]

I married this type of man. I take full responsibility entering into the relationship in my masculine energy. 18 years later, I started embracing my femininity and the relationship literally fell apart. I am much happier now, but not happy how I may have hurt him by staying with him so long without being honest with myself.

[rayvineyard]

My experience with the “Nice Guy” has always been a red flag with manipulation written on it. I personally don’t engage in manipulation or trying to change a person but a lot of nice guys lack that leadership energy. I already struggle with standing in my feminine energy so whenever a nice guy I always feel like they’re attracted to the masculine energy I give off. I’m working towards living in my feminine energy more and more but this video explained this perfectly ♥️

[Eryqah]

In my experience, the "nice guys" aren't always genuinely nice but can also act that way in a manipulative way. Just the example that Stephan made about the public proposal, which usually in itself is a manipulative move to get the woman to say yes even though that man probably already know she wouldn't have accepted in private. The "nice guys" are also passive and make the woman go into a more masculine role. As Stephan says it'll make you lose respect for that man when he relies on you doing everything and taking all the decisions in the relationship. It's not a healthy dynamic to be in and it will cause resentment and unhappiness in the long run.

[minhngodang]

I can be considered as that type of nice guy, and I've gone through a breakup. At first stage I always tried to figure out what's wrong with her mind and why she's so stubborn wanting a break up (multiple times in the past). Now I've realised she's already giving out hint that she's not feeling this relationship and that I should do something to boost my masculine (which I thought she was pushing me). I'm feeling so relief after this and now I'm working on myself to be a better guy and whatever the true end is, I can accept it and move on happily. Thanks sir for your wise words

[queenroyalty]

Stephan, you are always right on time! Whenever I'm dealing with a certain situation involving dating you always seem to upload a video that speaks to that exact issue. I thank you!❤️

[sabahnwrites]

I feel attacked!! You spoke to me directly. I am in such an uncomfortably awkward place In my life that I was dead ass really thinking of saying yes to a man that I know is not matched energy for me. Her has been relentlessly trying to grab my attention for 4 years and I feel pathetic because I'm falling for the absolute opposite kind of guy.. " I will not feel desperate enough for companionship to hurt someone that doesn't deserve the scar I will inflict".