We Waited for marriage to have sex | Kabelo & Mogale | The truth about waiting

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[wishingonthemoon]

To all those virgins out there waiting for marriage, stay strong and keep waiting. Keep the faith! God will bless you. And to those who have slipped up already, renew yourself and start over. Born again virginity will bring you blessings. It’s valid and pure, God’s forgiveness in Jesus’ name is so powerful.

[Lola-anointed]

28 years and still a virgin😍😍 I love God who strengthens me 🌸.

[nonophat]

Just before my hubby and I started dating, I had decided to be celibate... days after we started dating, before I could even tell him that I was celibate, he is the one who requested that we hold off kissing as long as we can and that we don't have sex till we got married. We dated 14 months and were engaged another 10 after that. Probably had our first baby kiss 3 months into the relationship and a proper one like 8 months in.
Married 5yrs now.
Celibacy wasn't easy but definitely worth it!

[tshenolontwagae]

Brenden struggling to say "sex" shows that (regardless of having children or not) your parents really never stop being your parents 🤣. I love it ❤

[denzhemabuli]

I still remember these two from uct. 2013 I used to find them at the chapel praying and they were so compatible. I am so proud of you guys. You have held each other through so much and it can only be your character and grace that has held you thus far. Welldone guys❤

[tellitstraight]

This was an amazing episode! I’m 21 years old and I’m still a virgin🙏🏾 praise the Lord. Like the guests said, it was definitely a journey for me! When I first made the decision to obey God when I was like 13, I didn’t have full knowledge or understanding either and till this day I’m still learning what it means to be holy in mind and in action. But the fear of God is what kept me this whole time and God is so full of Grace. Being a Christian is honestly the best! I love how we can be real with Him. Then we realise we can boast in our weakness because when we are weak we are actually strong. I love the questions and the areas that were covered in this video and I really hope it goes viral and reaches more Christians because as much as it is wonderful to have God personally teach you these things like He taught me, it’s also important to share it with others because we really strengthen and encourage eachother as the body of Christ and we help others avoid certain things when they have this wisdom and knowledge from early in their walk with God. God bless you all! 🙌🏾❤️❤️

Edit: at 13 the main thing that kept me was fear of God, and avoiding pregnancy, HIV or anything like that. I didn’t want to take the risk because I had child minded a baby (my cousin) for so long (since I was 9), I knew the sacrifice that went into nurturing a child even though I was a child. I didn’t fully understand the real beauty and heavenly meaning behind sex, like I do now. I just knew I had to keep it for my future husband to honour him and to honour God and to avoid problems. It really has been worth it so far from all I’ve seen and encountered.
Thanks for the support on my comment 🙏🏾 May God strengthen us on our journey.

[kamogelo]

Its refreshing to see honest Christian conversations. As Christians we try to be perfect by not being honest. But through being honest one finds their own perfection.

[hannah-xbpn]

20 years and still a virgin, it's by the grace and mercies of God

[bonaninelani]

Sex outside marriage is dangerous because of the spiritual consequences that it has.

[dakaloentertainment]

Beautiful comments too. I'm just enjoying reading them. But honestly, having sex within the context of marriage is amazing. After my wedding, I was amazed that after sex, I felt so much confidence to even pray afterwards, but before marriage as a Christian, you will only feel condemnation after sex. I love this and keep it up all of you who are celibates.By the time I decided to be one, I was already pregnant 🤣

[lindagroening]

I'm in a new relationship as a born again and I am glorifying the Lord with my body. I'm lucky I met a man who made it clear the 1st week that I'm for keeps and if we ever date we'd wait for marriage. We can't rush what God started.

[boitumelomojela]

I love what Mohale said! As Christians, we are hypocrites. We judge people, failing to realise that we also have our own struggles. That's also one thing that annoys me about going to church.

[keabetswezolani]

Guys, Mogale is Wise hlena. Watching this has taught me how important it is, to choose your circle. This sisterhood/friendship makes so much sense. Wow!

[IsatuLahai-sg]

Am 22 years old and still a virgin, I thank God for keeping me strong and I will go on till I meet my husband inshaallah ❤

[keabetswemokopakgosi]

Well when i saw the tittle, I quickly jumped on the video. And to be honest it felt like i was having a conversation with God . I am 22 years of age and one of my resolutions this year was to try being celibate till i meet my God gifted husband. I didn’t know how to go about it but man 😭this was so enlightening. I am definitely coming back here3 years later to read this comment with my husband 😂( manifestation) . Because God has being speaking to me and it’s time to listen . Be blessed guys, thank you so much 😊 . I am going to enjoy the journey and walk with God . ♥️love from Botswana 🇧🇼

[thandekantando]

Thank you for unpacking this in the most realistic way possible. I have learnt a lot.
1. Wait with understanding
2. It's not easy, don't suppress the difficulties and feelings which come with waiting, but rather be real about them!
3. Self-control in other areas of your life is also shaped and sharpened in the Waiting.
4. We are human, and even if you don't struggle with sexual sin per se, you def struggling with something in your life.

Arggh man! My heart is full. So many take aways!

Love you all and God bless you ❤️

[VivianKuvare]

"Wait with understanding."
- Kabelo

[riseupwithabbie_kazi]

16h00 The way the lady is admiring her husband while he's sharing his insights😩😍🙌🏽

[VivianKuvare]

"It's not about doing it right, but being real in it. " - Mogale

[hlengiwedladla]

I've been passing this video everytime because I felt condemned yet I knew I wanted to stop having sex with my boyfriend but didn't know how to stop but now hearing about the benefits of waiting is what will help me have the conversation with him. Hearing that sex will actually help with "into-me-see" and understanding the "why" behind it makes it worth the wait. I'm glad I finally got the courage to come watch this and got direction ❤️