5 Reasons Why You Should Wait Until Marriage

HAPPY THANKSGIVING! What are reasons why you wait other than "because fornication is a sin"? Let's talk about it!

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[CCNicolelovesJesus]

Young people please take heed to what he is saying.. This is pure wisdom and can prevent you from a lot of hurt and pain..I am a single mother and understand now why God ways are so important because His ways leads us to life and life more abundantly!

[KingFabianMaldonado]

I’m waiting until marriage I’m 21 years old I’m still a virgin I’m a follower of Jesus Christ

[JESSIEDRealty]

Young people listen to me. Sex will not get you the things you want from someone. If someone doesn’t want you outside of a physical connection they will never want you long term. It’s short lived and you will find yourself in a cycle or going from one person to the next. Let them fall in love with your mind. That way they will love you forever.

[dashia]

I'm just a teen ( just putting it out so that other teens can relate), but the reason why I chose to wait till marriage is because of
#1) God told me to
#2) STD's and Pregnancy
#3) I will not give my body to someone who doesn't respect me enough to commit to me
#4) It clouds judgment/ soul ties
#5) Not having sex forces both parties to actually get to know each other and if that person is not willing to have a relationship w/o sex before marriage, then they don't care for you enough, just wanted sex and isnt the person for you

No sex before marriage also helps weed out the crowd of potential partners

[Lawyergirl]

I've been celibate for almost 7 years and what has made it easy to keep going over the years is knowing that sex is seriously HYPED. Having had sex out of marriage it is not fulfilling at all, it causes more problems than satisfaction. The satisfaction last only as long as the act. People rarely speak about the emotional toll sex out of marriage has on you and as women the physical troubles that comes with it 8/10 times. It's just not worth it. the peace celibacy has brought me is something I'd never give up again. Even when the flesh is raging I think about my lack of soul ties, PH being thrown off or possibilities of STIs and I'm back on track. I've also grown to love and appreciate God's reason for mandating sex be done in marriage. The original design was always to protect us because He knew outside of that covenant it would only lead to problems.

[bonniematindi]

The soul tie thing is one that just takes the hand of God to break. There’s nothing worse than your soul being tied to a person you don’t like or love.

[dcubit]

I’ve waited because I’ve always wanted to share that special experience with my husband. I’m a virgin at 32 y/o and this is not easy, but I honestly believe God knows what he’s doing, and I’m learning to trust Him with my body. Be encouraged everyone!

[ccf]

Sex affects women causing tremendous imbalances spiritually, emotionally, mentally and hormonally. By not getting involved we will be more grounded and centered

[angelmariemillione]

I am abstinent because I want to break generational curses and have my first child within a marriage driven by the love and glorification of the most high God. I want my child to see their parents in-love and on fire for God….
I want to dodge soul ties that will distract me from the path God has paved for me…

[jllj]

Sex is one of the ways demons enter into the soul. I will honour the Lord who is the Lover of my soul and myself by abstaining. Deliverance is necessary for everyone who had sex before marriage. The demons will play u like a fiddle if u refuse to go thru deliverance. I have found this necessary even where there is molestation as a child. These kinds of abuses tend to come out of attacks relating to the ancestral bloodline

[iraflora]

I want to be able to tell my children that I waited. I want to be an EXAMPLE to my children and any other child who I will influence in the future. Yall it is so difficult but we got it

[MusicOfMelodyK]

Amen! Lots of people want sex soon after meeting the person because they are addicted to sex, it doesn't mean they love the person. Sex doesn't equal love.

[MartiniStylezz]

At 33yo I began to abstain from sex til marriage after becoming a single mother of 1 child and doing things my way. By learning about TMH and reading scripture I was intrigued that TMH wants HIS children to do everything HIS way for our protection. I have met my future husband in my waiting journey, engaged now to be married this year. You have to basically reprogram your mind. Marriage is for disciplined and obedient individuals. Just keep that in mind❤

[agdollsnikki]

ive been celibate for 2.5 years, it is super hard especially as a college student but I know that it will not only save me from the pain but will also honor God

[esthergyadu]

Just make sure in your walk in purity, you don't make it your god. You don't see yourself better than others, see that you are able to be pure as a result of God's grace alone. In my walk, I made my virginity some sort of god and when I got raped as a virgin, I thought that was the end, I couldn't look back because my righteousness and worth was dependent on purity. It took so many years to realize that God still loved me and I was a person of virtue. Let your purity flow out of your relationship with God and it is indeed a beautiful. Keep waiting my dear one, God will not leave you nor forsake you. If you have been abused, remember that He is still with you and His love for you never changed. Much love

[SoulDeepZim]

Sex became a tool for me in relationships. I thought I could use it to "keep" a man. I failed each time but it took me years to learn my lesson.

[KrazyGurl]

Fear of God has me knowing that I'd get pregnant or STD's the moment it'd happen out of marriage because it's not of His will. I'm fighting to break that generational chain in my family! "Dating" a non-believer opened my eyes to how destructive and twisted the world is to so openly say sinning is OK because of what you feel in the moment.

Thank you for all this confirmation, God is hitting those nails in the coffin for me 💀🙌🏼

[shahistaqobolo]

Seeing how God healed me and taught me to see the beauty of sex is why I'm waiting, which is weird to some people. I was raped at 19 and my view on sex and men turned even darker but I just spent time with God and let Him heal me. After learning to trust again, I don't want sex outside of marriage, it's just not worth it to me because it comes with a lot of uncertainty and doesn't seem to bring any good, unlike with my future spouse who I know will have good intentions because he'll love God and therefore treat me how I deserve to be treated.

[lolafalaye]

I’m waiting till marriage because I intend on getting close to God, and having a pure heart especially towards God.

[Ramako]

I stay abstinent because God kept convicting me and I did not want him to harden my heart to the point where he did not send me signs anymore. Not only did I want to trust God completely but I didn’t want him to turn from me ❤️