They Lied To You About Waiting For Marriage | Christian Dating Boundaries

They Lied To You About Waiting For Marriage | Christian Dating Boundaries

My name is Ally Poirot, and I am joined with my husband @gabepoirot to discuss the lies many people have told about the boundaries that Christian couples and Christian singles put in place in order to honor God and experience purity inside and outside of relationships. We take a Biblical look into God’s heart behind His call to wait for marriage. There tends to be this misperception in the church that sex is bad and outside of the church that waiting for marriage is a waste of time. The truth is that God created sex and called it good within the marriage context. We bring truth and clarity to the physical and lifestyle boundaries that we put in place while we were single, dating, and engaged. We will cover topics such as being careful with the kind of media and entertainment you consume, physical boundaries for dating, surrounding yourself with a Godly community, temptation, God’s grace and renewal for those who have a past of sexual sin, and more. If this is something you have been praying about, our hope and prayer is that it brings clarity to you. Please let us know your thoughts and whether this was helpful or not. God is calling His children forth to learn the truth about His plans and promises.

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[allyandgabe]

Comment your thoughts on this video, and let us know if there are other topics you would like us to discuss💛

[joshthesmith]

Everyone, male and female, should save their first for marriage as God intends for us all. God bless! :)

[towerakanyenda]

It actually pays to be obidient to the Obidience is better than sacrifice. Premarital sex is wrong no matter how much we sugar coat it. Thank you guys for spreading the truth❤❤, especially in this generation were premarital sex has been normalised.

[CommanderWolf]

Glad to see pushback against the "sexual compatibility" nonsense. You're exactly right. When you compare having sex as basically "test driving, " you devalue both the sex and the person you're doing it with. Why would you prefer that over learning and improving in that skill with the man or woman you love the most and who you have committed to spend your whole life with?

[castanho_]

Corinthians 6:18-20 says “Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.

[dr.plasma]

She’s just looking at him so happy, you can tell they’re happy in their relationship with each other and with God ❤️

[michaeldavis]

I'm a Christian bachelor who has just turned 50. Whether marriage happens for me at this stage of my life is up to the Lord, but you've re-solidified my commitment to wait. God bless you both!

[stephanieveloso]

My husband and I waited until we were married. While engaged, I had a friend tell me how she WAS waiting for marriage, but her fiance of 1 year kept pressuring her until she gave in. He left her the day after. It's unfortunate for her, but it reassured me that waiting was the right choice. A good man/woman will respect your boundaries and not keep pressuring you.

[red_phoenix]

I'll be honest. I clicked because I thought you were warping scripture to fit your narrative, not the other way around. Very glad to see that y'all are genuine followers of Christ.

[midwestmatthew]

My wife and I waited for our wedding before we had any physical contact (even holding hands) and have never been with anyone else. Our wedding night was hilariously incompetent, but also amazing, like opening a fantastic floodgate all at once instead of getting used to it in trickles. We've never had any sexual insecurities and are still happy with each other 15 years (and 4 kids) later. We wouldn't change a thing.

[johnwieske]

I am an 85 year old male, I stumbled on your video and I want to thank you for putting this information on the net, we have an AWESOME CREATOR and a loving SAVIOUR , draw close to JESUS, love each other and raise. A GODLY family . GOD bless and regards from ‘’ down under’’

[jeffreysnyder]

On a flight home from Israel I got into an interesting discussion with an Orthodox rabbi, originally from New York, now the chief rabbi of a small city in Israel. After spending some time discussing messianic prophecies (I'm a Jewish believer in Jesus), I turned the discussion to something that we'd agree on, and I brought up how people who live together before marriage (to see if they are "compatible") are more likely to divorce than those who don't. He said, "Do you know why that is?" and then he said "What happens when you look at the sun?" I replied "it hurts" and he added "and you see stars, but the stars aren't real." We then went into a long list of "nuts and bolts" practical things that one person needs to know about another person before considering a commitment of marriage, and basically his point was that sexual involvement makes one see "stars" -- illusions of intimacy, affection and "we belong together" that aren't real (or based on much other than sexual feelings), and tends to make one blind to the real "nuts and bolts' of who the other person is.

[towerakanyenda]

Amen. The real man serves the lord. I just want a good christian man, who knows who he really is in Christ.

[cordovanhobbyist]

It's also healthy to establish boundaries or even ostracize friendships that pressure you. Some friendships may put your self-worth in committing impurity, and that's grounds for a toxic relationship.

[TheSingleManPodcast]

As a single Christian man with a podcast myself, I’m so glad this video popped up on my suggested feed so I can learn about dating! Subscribed!!

[katherinejoy]

Getting married in a week, we have waited - this video is 💎💎 God protects because He is a good Father

[Lambdamale.]

I didnt lie to my daughter about waiting until marriage. I wanted the young man to lesrn to love her without having sex as his motive. I warned her that premarital sex would give him less reason to look forward to their wedding day. I didnt want her giving a random man sex in hopes he would stay, or begin to love her. Waiting was for her protection.

[Billy-bcpk]

Mate, everything you said about the instathot trend is spot-on. Also, glad someone who is Christian finally said "If you're offended, good!"... GOOD! Because shame needs to be brought back into the public sphere. Way too much shameless behaviour out there. And if guys don't like it, they need to mature and start setting better boundaries. If women don't like it, they need to start setting better boundaries and retaining themselves for their future husbands. There has never been a successful society in modern history built on the back of promiscuity and unfettered bounaries.

[spdomingoo]

The test drive theory only works when you assume people are objects, the whole “test the car before you drive is not applicable to humans because humans are not objects, your car will not become attached to you after you test it.

[katherinejoy]

That's so good- "PREPARATION IS NEVER WASTED TIME!!!"