For Anyone Feeling Lost in Life

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00:00 Intro
02:42 BetterHelp
03:52 Not Fitting in
06:48 Living Life On Your Terms
08:19 Final Words

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[Retired-jrqs]

I retired at 56 years old, single, with no kids. I am at peace with my life and I have never been happier.

[PeachesSkinCare]

As a woman of almost 56 I wish I could tell the younger me to stay in the moment to understand that if you have passion for something it will still take a lot of hard work and perseverance. To open every door and walk through and to not be afraid. To ignore the naysayers and move forward with Strength, knowing that, it really is better to have tried and failed than to not try at all. Above all, NOBODY but you can make your life happen. It’s easier to sit and complain and make excuses than it is to do the real work. Look back without regrets. Wanting to ask for help is a wise thing not something to be embarrassed about. I love my therapist and I love who I am as a mature woman. You will get to the other side but you must go through life’s journey first. I also tell my adult children …. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.
🙌🏻🍑🧡Lisa

[hcreativespot]

Recently, I saw a post from an old batchmate of mine in high school. She's doing really well, going places I can't imagine myself going. She really seems to be living the life she wants. For a moment, I felt envious. I started questioning my growth because I saw someone my age who seems to be doing better and achieving greater things than I am. But then I said out loud, "But that is not my dream. My dream is to save enough money to purchase a farm and live somewhere quiet and peaceful."

You are right. We are all walking through different paths of life. There is no one way to live, and we shouldn't shackle ourselves trying to pursue dreams that aren't even ours.

[AhmetKaan]

*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*

The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤

[nawaldoghri]

“Having a job that’s fulfilling but also not being defined by it” ❤️ Yes yes yes!
Every time you meet someone new, it is usually the first question they ask, as if it was the only thing that matters. As Heath Ledger once said: “no one asks if you’re happy” ✨

[DemetriPanici]

As someone in their early 20's trying to figure out this crazy thing called life, I can say I really appreciated this video!

[Eringggggggggggggggggggggg]

I needed this so much today! Life feels like a dance between becoming who we are meant to and enjoying the present moment ❤️

[mquinnusa]

For many, our parents sacrificed so much for us to have a better life. At times, the life we are living is to honor them...Happiness only comes when our head hits the pillow and exhaustion flees.

[Jxcest]

“Living someone else's dream"...Can't help dropping a few comments when I see this line.
I work in a communication start-up in Paris, and my everyday task is about posting all those beautiful and catchy things happening in "the most romantic city in the world", on multiple social media platforms. In another word, my "job" is to convince other people that grass is greener elsewhere and "you too, should pay a wonderful visit in this wonderful city -- AT LEAST ONCE IN YOUR LIFE", Which is ironically very against how I truly feel and want to spread as messages... How I truly feel is, life is not better elsewhere and we should stop projecting our fantasies on some faraway land.
But I still can't figure out, what can we do, when all the businesses in the world are encouraging people to look at other people lifes, to sneer at contentment, to encourage people to constantly SHOWING, constantly LOOKING... Aren't everyone tired of that ?

[sabrinaboulmaali]

Just turned 26, i can’t stop crying everyday feeling so lost i have no idea what i’m doing

[theantiquefairy]

I thought I would be my own boss with an etsy and a dog training/walking business. It lasted for 3 years and then I moved and got a part time job at a family care clinic and have a homestead. This is what I want. Working minimally to have some money coming in and then taking care of my property and animals that support my living. It is so calm and rewarding. I am now feeling the best that I ever have and don't care that I'm not making as much as I used to.

[BrandonAEnglish]

I came from a rather poor family. When I was in high school, some of my closest friends were going to take a summer trip to Europe, which included France as well. Our principal and one teacher were also going on that trip -- both men whom I admired and liked very much. It looked like a dream trip, but ... impossible for me. Still, I wanted to go.
One day at school, one of my friends met with me and informed me that his grandmother had informed him that if I wanted to go, then she would pay for it. All she wanted in return was for me to write about my trip. I believe she likely held me in high regard not only because I was her grandson's friend, but also because he had expressed to her how talented he thought I was in writing/telling stories.
My own dad wouldn't give me $5, much less thousands for a trip abroad. To him, all travel outside the US was a useless waste of money, and I was regularly abused and discouraged from my creative side. My principal, teacher, friends, and my friend's grandmother believed in me, however.
There's so much more I can say about all of this, but the short of it for me is as you said: that trip changed my life and mind drastically, in ways that classroom education just can't.
I'm still looking to exit from the rat race, but I am living in Japan, buying an old, traditional house outside the city with its own well and land, and always thoughtful about what I can do to live more honestly to who I really am.
It hasn't been met with support from anyone in my family -- only negativity -- so we don't talk anymore. However, the friends I've made in Asia are tremendous and I know we'll be close for as long as we're breathing.
I shudder to think what my life would've been like without that trip to Europe.

[SFlaidlaw]

It's amazing how success is always encouraged to be thrown away for something more. I honestly wish we just focused on our basic needs first. And separating our goals from the goals of someone else on social media. 💕

[tessaawoods]

Being 23, graduated undergrad in May 2020, been in between jobs and applying to more, I always forget to stop comparing myself and try to remember everyone truly has a different path. Thank you for this! Life is confusing and hard, we’ll all figure it out! 😊

[sarrah]

This video is so timely, on my early 30's now, feel so lost and unmotivated. Anxiety and depression in and out for 5 years now. Listening to you is therapeutic. Thank you.

[JoamarJohnCanosa]

"I don't know what I'm doing but I don't feel lost!" Another beautiful and inspiring vlog! Thank you!

[lliania]

This video speaks to me a lot. I quit my job last 2016 due to anxiety and also due to the fact I just can't see myself being happy being in the position of my work superiors at that time. I was actually supposed to be promoted to a managerial position when I decided to quit because I knew that handling people and their work just isn't something I wanted to do.

TBH until this day, there's still a part of me that feels that I just wasn't strong enough to deal with the pressures of being an adult. But at the same time, I'm also happier just pursuing a career in art. I'm not sure if I'll end up regretting this decision down the road but for now I do feel like I've achieved better peace of mind than before

[fionaokeefe]

This is what so many people need to hear right now! I want to thank Sophie of Malama Life for her videos giving me and so many people inspiration and the courage to live our lives according to our own individual standards! I also want to say that YouTubers like Anh Lin from Girl and the Word who’s daily devotionals encourages many to have faith in a world of uncertainty and Fairyland Cottage with Niamh who shows her viewers that there’s beauty in simplicity! Im so thankful I found you all❤️❤️❤️

[mbank]

I am exactly like that. I work for one of the biggest banks in the world and I thought a promotion would make me happy...From an analyst to an associate, it doesn't change a thing and I actually have gotten more unhappy as workload pile up, despite higher pay...maybe the other half of the reason is because banking is not what I wanted to do to begin with

[beatrizmoraes]

I'm 21 and I'm geting closer to finishing university next year, so I've been thinking about it and about life and what's next for me recently. I feel so lost and desperate cause I obviously don't have my whole life figured out at 21 like society wants us to be. So thank you for this video <3