4 Things Men THINK Attract Women... BUT Don't (Major Turn Offs For Women)

In this video Marni reveals 4 things men THINK attract women but don't. As a man you may be shocked by what marni shares. Because many of the myths you'v believed all your life about women are about to be debunked.

Top dating advice for men coming directly from a woman! Marni is now your personal Wing Girl and she's going to tell you how to attract women, date women, seduce women and get any woman you want. She's helped 100's of thousands of men around the world be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you!

[registraforum]

"...they are called gold diggers... and you should stay away from them at all costs..." +1000 points here, that's one of the best quote I have ever heard so far 👏👏👏

[DamonNomad]

I can personally confirm the first two things. I'm 6'5, and, if I'm being honest with myself, quite good-looking. However, I've not had good luck when it comes to romance. I think a lot of the problem stems from the fact that I'm a mega-introvert, have no ability whatsoever to read non-verbal communication, and that my natural personality is very close to that of the stereotypical "nice guy". It's not something I've had any luck changing, either. Every time I've attempted to change that, or "fought through the fear" and tried being more outgoing, the results have been disastrous and merely confirmed what my instincts have told me. It feels like I can no more "just be more confident" than a 5'3 guy can "just grow a foot or so".

[MrCurtis]

What women "say" they're attracted to isn't even close to what their unconscious mind goes for.
Best advice is turn the masculinity up to 9 and remain aloof.
Once you start simping the games over...

[bbbutler]

You are correct, Marni. These four items do, indeed, represent major misrepresentations that men think that women value. The money issue, #3, was particularly important to me, and it was diffcult to swallow. But, still, I believe you.

My wife divorced me for two reasons. One was money: I failed to support her at a level of luxury to wish she wished to become accustomed. (BTW, the second was not adultery). This was not difficult to understand since she stated this matter about money straighforwardly and out loud. This was particularly painful since I suported her financially through school for six of the eight years we were married; when she become famous, she dumped me and married a millionaire. Still, I believe you. She was an ambitious golddigger of sorts (more interested in power and fame, but the money was part of the forumula).

After almost 30 years, I've never remarried. As I've aged, I've learned that most women are not ULTIMATELY attracted to appearance, height, money or status. To understand your point, I had to back to the beginning of why my wife was attracted to me in the first place. I was a poor graduate student, so money wasn't it. It was my sense of vision and self-confidence. I had no doubts about who I was or where I was going in those days. She and other women came to me like I was a magnet and they were steel. Once we had been married for a few years and my wife succeeded in destroying all my dreams and my self-confidence and aided me in a downward spiral of self-destruction and self-loathing, I was of no use to her any longer.

Until I was revitalized in my vision and confidence, I was no use to anyone, especially her.

That's what I learned: a man with a broken spirit is not an attractive person...to anyone. Especially to most women. The ones who are attracted to broken men I avoid as well. The uitimate well of power that I've learned to draw from is God, not a woman. And what's better, because my spiritual life is in good health, the right kind of women (and any person) who I actually need in my life are attracted to me. Gold diggers, leeches, succubi, co-addicts and other unhealhy types are repulsed.

So I've learned that the fundamental attraction and power for a man is his relationship with the god he serves. That is the most important. I live simply, don't apologize for who I am (I"m an ordinary-looking man), stand tall (yes, I'm 6'2"), and, unless they are required for a task, have no need for a Ferrari or designer clothes. I serve a God of infinite and eternal power, love, wisdom and justice. That is my glory and the reason I'm attractive again. That and I make sure to brush my teeth and take a shower.

[paulregula]

This is the best Mythbusters episode ever! I do appreciate her honesty to cut down the B.S. we see on other videos of people saying to play games.

[seankelleher]

Thank you Marni, I appriciate the opportunity to hear the advice and point of view, Its obvious that a woman knows more about her thought process then men do. I know that we as men need to have self confidence and be happy in our own skin and with ourselves in general.

What id like to see is some video from men that the winggirl along with other relationship coaches have helped. It would be more insightful to hear the testimonys from the people who have benifited from these videos and one on one sessions.

[mustaphadoaa]

Thank you, Marni.
I was not shocked by these 4 things.
I always believe that what concerns women the most is how you make her feel at that moment. These 4 things must be taken into account moderately, not obsessively worried about them.
To conclude, the 4 things are important, but they are not be all and end of the case.

[robertshinazy]

Living in the Las Vegas area That's all women are looking for. I've never lived in an area where there were so many shallow women/gold diggers. It took me going out with 50 different women to find the one I'm dating now

[cyrilchou]

Summary:

1) Physical appearance
2) Height
3) Money
4) Status Symbols (cars, houses, watches)

[paulmarzan]

what's amazing about your perspective is how it applies to my ideals. I just started watching your videos and I'm intrigued by 90% of them... they match my standards. Keep em coming! and thank you.

[jocelynnicole]

I’m a woman and I confirm this to be 100% accurate :) so there ya go

[tartarus]

1. Looks
2. Height
3. Money
4. Status Symbols

[andyarvai]

Thanks Marni for your videos. You are helping these men and giving them hope that there could be a chance that they may attract a woman one day.

[gammaskh]

Be financially literate. Be honest and sarcastic. Be comfortable alone and work on your spiritual side. When you don’t need sex or a partner, that’s when you have options. Treat women as a waste of time and they won’t waste your time.

[NightLifeDJs]

Ok let's call it for what it is, no bs. Go out there and hit your local shopping center. Appearance: Open your eyes wide and see how many good looking women are together with average or ugly men? Height: How many short men do you see with taller women? What you see is the truth, the eyes don't lie no matter how many times we are told otherwise. Going back to appearance, did you know that apps like Tinder who is all based on looks at first, the cute guys get most of the matches while the ugly ones get nothing? facts of life.

[skinnygumbo]

"What women want versus what they say they want." Sound familiar? Beliefs are hard to change because they are based on experience. All of these things that you mention are things men have experienced.

I agree with the first 3, but not status symbols. Attraction isn't a choice. Studies show that women are more sexually attracted to average-looking men in a good suit & Rolex, then handsome men in low status clothing (such as a Burger King's uniform).

[backyardrailroader]

It is true. One have to have confidence in oneself and does not have a negative attitude.
BUT....It does help as a good starting point to be tall, dark, handsome with a full head of hair and physically fit that speaks well.

[DanBlackStreams]

Money isn’t for attracting women. But men’s experiences can’t be ignored. Many women pressure men to give them more than they give regardless of how much we give them so we feel like they must be attracted to it.

[lordquas]

You actually give me confidence to believe in myself, I truly appreciate you voice.