5 'Things' Men Secretly Want in a Woman | Attract Great Guys, Jason Silver

►►[FREE Presentation] What Men Secretly Want But Will Never Admit:

[jasonsilveryt]

What do you think high-quality men REALLY want? Let's discuss in the comments!

[rndmkt]

1 higher standards no immaturity
2 inner warrior
3 respect and lift up
4 appreciate and ego
5 his own space

And i will also write down what most women want:
1 to be Loved, respected, and appreciated
2 Protected physically and emotionally
3 Provided
4 Loyal to her (she's your only Queen)
5 Commitment

[carolj]

I chose high quality cat over men. I am very happy now

[tinawatler]

I am happy you stated "high quality men". Men need to start coaching other men to be high quality. A man can marry you and not have high standards but is drawn to the woman because she's a leader with high standards. Getting a ring is the least. Men need to be taught how to treat women. Most men cant handle queens.

Queen: I'm all of these, getting a commitment and even talking about the future, building a life was never my problem. I was raised by a queen, whose happily married for 20 years now. My brother was raised by a King, treats his partner as a lady should be treated.

[katrinatolbert]

Am single and I love it! Relationships are hard, a lot of work and effort goes into it and sometimes all for nothing! Some still end up cheating, divorced.

[carminaandra]

What really confuses me is this: Men want an INDEPENDENT woman, but also want to feel needed and 'protect' her - so...which one is it?

[sarae]

It's worth noting that with the WRONG man, even if you actually DO all of that (which is great advice by the way), he will not transform into someone worth forming a healthy relationship with. I've experienced this beforehand. I found myself that I was doing MOST of the things mentioned in this video (not all, but most), yet he was still distant and a "jerk". Choose your partner wisely, then invest in your relationship accordingly. Good luck ladies! And thank you for posting this video :)

[delaobimpe]

Why do we have to be told over and over what men want so we can satisfy them, so they can want us. Men should grow up and stop playing the stupid game.

[maryloulauren]

What I want in a man
One who is sensitive, empathetic, respectful, and kind.
A man who is honest, and is willing and able to work on dissolving
conflicts and to keep growing.
Someone who is intelligent and has a good sense of humour
A man who loves children and animals
A man who is moral, loyal and who has good manners.

[fromflabtofourteener]

There's an old saying when training horses - "reward the try.'" every time they make an attempt to respond to the ask, a little reward is given. Doesn't take long before things click. I think the same thing goes for people/men. A "thank you" or peck on the cheek, bringing a cup of coffee, little things but huge in showing appreciation.

[rouamamoun]

While i'm watching this i realized that i already know all of that, no one told me those informations but just by observing my parents together 💙

[dyenzendavidson]

I'm married for 10years now, and what you share in this video are all true.👌👌

[yolandaweininger]

After 40 years of marriage, I'm thinking that all men are just game players and when old, want a mother. Happy to be single now after his passing. Freedom!

[modernlovepotion]

1. Sense of humor
2. Thoughtful
3. Sense of understanding
4. Adventure
5. Positive attitude

[SilantoA]

This is so starting to like these sessions.
Caution* Don’t do any of these with a narcissistic man, you will be drained of your efforts and it still won’t be good enough.

[debjittarafdar]

Being a man here is what I think..

Point no 1. That's actually true. Never thought that way. Thanks for teaching women what we men want. It's really essential.
2. Spot on! Spot on!

[mrhollandsopus]

Why is it always about what MEN want. What about what WOMEN want and need.

[TheeAntiChris]

Also let me add that just because men weren’t raised to articulate their emotions properly doesn’t mean they haven’t had plenty of time to learn. That’s a poor excuse. Some kids are raised by parents who never teach them about health, education, manners, or sobriety even., ... but at one point kids become young adults, who then learn about taking responsibility, whether their parents raised them to be responsible or not. Most of us eventually learn that we can’t keep blaming what we don’t currently know on our parents... especially NOW with the luxury of free education literally at our fingertips, there’s REALLY no excuse, at least for most of us..

Look - women could be saying the same nonsense, and say that because their parents didn’t raise them to embrace their sexuality, let alone so liberally, then they shouldn’t be expected to be by the men they’re dating... but THAT wouldn’t fly with men.

If a man is able to go online or attend a seminar on how to pick up and seduce women, the he can just as easily learn to articulate his feelings.

It would be a different argument altogether if men have never heard about women wanting them to articulate their emotions... Does anyone know a man in their life who’s never once heard that women desire emotional transparency and reciprocity?!? No.

One could argue that if a man hasn’t taken it upon himself to not only learn about what women desire but also what they need from him and other men, then it’s likely he doesn’t care enough to, and that’s probably a fact that many women are in denial about accepting.
I say, if your man says “nothing” when you ask him what he’s thinking find a man with basic communication skills. Because he didn’t have to be perfect to be able to convey his thoughts or feelings.. I dated a guy who was 23 at the time and he had no issues whatsoever with crying in front of me and telling me how he felt at any given moment. It’s not rocket science..

[mivahp]

I haven't even watched the Video to the end. But, as a man, I feel the obligation to make something crystal clear.
There is absolutely nothing that men "secretly" want from women.
Here is what we want:

- being treated decently (as human beings, just like you expect us to treat you from the beginning on; *with respect* )
- sex (before any commitments it is)
Why? Because most men don't yet feel ready and need some time to get into something more serious (relationships rely on trust and both partners need to get to know each other better first)

and last but not least

- be honest ( *no mindgames*, no matter how difficult that seems.)
If a man likes a woman in a certain way and he has the option, he will be straight forward and honest with her about his motives, so she knows what's going on. Please, try the same. Who knows and maybe you (girls) will be quite successfull.

That's it.
Maybe it does not apply to everyone ever, but I guess it does to most people and (especially) men.

Btw. There is a gigantic difference between MEN and manlets, because the latter are full of shit. 💩
So beware of them.

P.d. independance is important to have (for both genders it is)
You know, it makes life generally (including dating/hooking up) easier and therefore more enjoyable.

That would be all for today.
🎩👌

[janebeerverhausen]

My ex wanted a strong women until the strong women disagreed with him. Lol
Men want strong women because she does what he could or should do, less work for him.