SATC 'He's just not that into you'

During a conversation among writers and advisers of the show the only man in the room came out with that sentence.

The concept found its way into this episode and, later, into a best selling dating book with the same name.

[greciamedero]

I love that Miranda isn’t in denial. She’s a realist

[lizdragon]

I just love Miranda’s reaction! Carrie and Charlotte are just in denying but Miranda is just “Tell me more”!

[gadfageyar]

It is actually very liberating. Its like hearing there's nothing wrong with you, just not feeling it. And you can't get mad at him or doubt yourself cos it's just so simple.

[ruzzelladrian]

Classic Miranda. That piece of information was so refreshing to Miranda that it made so much sense to her, no need to deny.

[augustharper]

I didn’t like Berger, but here he had a major point..when people make a bunch of excuses “I’ve been really busy with work” “stressed with school” “my ex broke my heart” (that one especially is a red flag—stay clear)..he just isn’t THAT into you and won’t flat out admit it. I guess that it’s difficult and awkward to be honest, but with those excuses most women unfortunately read in between the lines and will even start creating excuses for him. Stop! He’s just not that into you and might want you as a f*ck buddy at most. When someone actually likes you, they will make the time and effort to be yours like you would for them no matter the circumstances (if you’re that important/special to them). People “needing time” is bullshit. They just want casual hookups + someone to care for them and be at their beck and call without dealing with the messy relationship tag or they’re waiting around for someone better. Truth hurts. Stay clear for people like that ladies (and men).

[caric]

This is the Miranda we all know and love!!

[corinnadrust]

So true. They are interested or they are not. As simple as that

[Jasmine-eqgr]

“There are no mixed messages”!! The sooner women accept this fact the better off we’ll be! Lol!

[sparkynutters]

Well, props to my guy for being truthful and confessing the diahrrea 🤣

[artyb.channel]

This is a great message. Truth hurts but it helps you move on.

[hothotheat]

The blunt answer from him is so refreshing.

[GottaLoveScarlette]

😂😂😂 I laughed so hard at the last part!! Poor guy

[mistymoody]

His just not into you, is a blessing in disguise, it's like a criminal who doesn't care to target you as a victim.,

[thewhereIwatch]

watching this to knock some sense into my brain lol

[lindaleelaw]

And he broke up with Carrie via POST IT!!
In retrospect, we women want to be Independent, but we actvaround men as if we want to be rescued.

[rabbitreacts]

So...if you apply what berger said about mixed signals to big with carrie.... he was never into her. She was his safety blanket

[ajscott]

0:57 Ladies, I'll tell you now. No guy ever cares about ruining a friendship

[isabelreyes]

This episode was funny. It’s not always true tho. I was talking to a guy that kept giving me excuses why we couldn’t meet up for a date. I was ready to stop talking to him bc of this logic. Turns out he was going thru a rough patch and had anxiety. 15 years later we are still together and married now. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[kiaminaya]

Berger giving hints to how he handles breakups

[StefWriter]

I love this scene. It's such a relief to know that guys are so straightforward. lol